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How did you discover your kink?

I think I discovered most of my kinks just by reading and eventually hungering for things more and more outside the box. My kink for watersports was born from porn and was quite unexpected. But then, I think we're often surprised by the odd things that turn us on.
 
Curio465 said:
How did you discover your kink?

Not sure if this counts as a kink or not but for me I started to notice that I found girls wearing chokers more attractive than when they weren't, it took me a while to narrow it down to that being the reason.

I also found my taste in porn gravitated more and more towards girls getting dominated, to girls getting fucked with machines (they were always bound somehow), and then I began to realize my tastes revolved around submissive girls (or girls that become willingly overpowered) that lose themselves to submission and pleasure.

My preferences eventually started to merge into my sex life with binding, toys, choking and use of mj (all consensual).

So I guess for me it's someone giving me complete trust to play with, to choke and to control for the pursuit of pleasure.

So how did you discover your kink?
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Our black neighbor Darryl had my wife and I over for drinks. He slipped meth into our drinks. We both started feeling really strange about 30 minutes later. Darryl went into the kitchen and I whispered to my wife, Kari that I was feeling weird but getting very horny. She said she was so horny she was wet. He came back into the living room and sat between us and placed his hand on my wife's crotch and started caressing her through her booty shorts. I was very aroused and she obviously was by the moaning she was doing. I started fantasizing watching him fuck my wife right there. I reached over and rubbed on his cock and asked him to fuck her really hard. He bent her over his bed as I watched him thrust his BBC deep inside her. She moaned and squealed so damn loud. I was rubbing one off watching. She started looking at me as she moaned and was telling me how hard and good he was fucking her. He exploded hard deep inside her. Then turns to me and tells me it's yours if you want it. I sucked my first cock and he pounded my throat hard as my wife moaned watching. She was telling him fuck his face hard Darryl. I gagged and choked as I drooled all over his cock. He exploded again in my throat. My wife and I love to find black men with huge cocks and play. We've been doing this for 2 years now whenever we get a chance.
 
I was in a bad place in life where I felt like I lost all control.
CoVID, husband, daughter, my consulting business.
I had been chatting on line with a few men to feel personal validation.
One is a DOM and started to chat on the lines of my control over sex and our chat shifted.
He supported my strength, while our sexual discussions moved toward me being submissive.
He would give me challenges to complete for either rewards or punishments.

I was growing stronger and my confidence returning while submissively doing things I have never done before.

We finally set up a night to meet in a hotel.
I walked in and his kiss overtook all my sensibilities.
He ordered me to strip.
And I did. Even with some shyness about my body shape and size, I discovered I didn't want to deny him.

We went from me being spanked, cuffed, collared, to full submission tied to the bed, blindfolded, teased and denied orgasms. Then an amazing penetration followed by compassion and aftercare.

I am stronger and braver than ever. I know as a sub I control everything because my Dom will respect any no or stop I need to call.
3 years later and we only had the one night. We still chat 3 or 4 times a week. And he is my best friend in addition to my Master.
 
I agree with Strixaluco. If I had known 20 or so years ago I think my life would be much different now. Back in my 20's erotica was not so much mainstream as it is today. Pick up a lot of romance books in today's literary world and you will come across kink very soon. It's not as taboo "dirty sex" as it used to be. I felt shame because it turned me on.

Now I am surrounded by people who like the same books I do. We meet at conventions for romance authors.
 
I would say it has grown over the last 10+ years rather being a discovery. I knew I was different when I was younger. I would get turned on by things that I "shouldn't have". It wasn't until I was in my twenties that I realized I was into bdsm. Bisexual and submissive to men, but I found that I was a natural Dom with women. So it's always evolving.
 
Discovered one of my kinks because of a guy in my science class (whom I later developed a crush on). He would say something innocuous, a joke/answering a question/some bit of music trivia, and I'd instantly be soaking wet.  BOOM! Auralism kink unlocked..
 
For me it was books (as in real published books, as this was in the early days of internet and even if some Lit type stories existed, I didn't know anything about them). They didn't use names, but I would zero in on a scene and then just let my imagination loose. The correct terms came much much later.
 
I always present as female. Whether tis better to order or obey ? I ask the question but the answer is “yes”. For example : my early experiences revolved around being treated as female. I swooned if a man were to say something like “honey” when looking at me. As in “come here Honey”. An instruction such as “come here bitch“ would have me in front of him quickly.
In time I learned there were men wanting please an authoritative woman. These men wanted to flirt or obey their way into experiencing their secret fantasy. A bossy woman with a cock ? Oh yeah. So I can take charge or obey. Taking charge improves my standard of living. Obeying a confident man improves my self esteem.
 
I had always known I liked the stories where the male was helpless or it had a dominant, bossy female. Then in the early 70s I read Nancy Friday and my Secret Garden. Wow what an eye opener. I realised I was not alone in my fantasy's. and it also gave me a lot more to on and devlope...
 
I read a lot. in my early 20s it was Penthouse Letter and I learned so much from them. I got to try some of the stuff i read first with another male friend. That was my only male on male sex i have had so far. Then with my girlfriend as she was very inexperienced. I got to try a ton of stuff I learned when i read. then came videos and on to the internet. The girlfriend because my wife and we still have new kinks. over the years we tried bondage, and now i am into crossdressing and i got her to pegg me. I am still looking to have bi male sex again. I wonder what will be next?
 
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When a girl asked me to rub her feet, so I did and I got so hard I was afraid my dick would burst, but then looking back I realized I loved women’s feet all along. One of the hottest memories I have is the first feet I got to absolutely savor with my tongue and mouth. Her light scent was amazing and she tasted fantastic.
 
Which one? I’m just gonna go with celebrities. Blame Carnage Jackson, KMB, and Voodoo Joe. I got into their stories long before I wrote mine. You can also blame the popular writers Eric Lustbader, Laurell K Hamilton, Stephen King, and a few others whose work I enjoyed earlier in life. Plenty of erotic material in their work. I’m also a fan of popular erotic films including The Terminator, Pretty Woman, Casablanca, and Dirty Dancing. Enough said.
 
I think I have known most of my life but for years I didn't have words for most of the things I was attracted to.
 
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