Hi Ladies. Have you ever had the experience of being submissive to one man and domina

[justonequestion]

Hi Ladies. Have you ever had the experience of being submissive to one man and dominant to another during the same time frame ?

I do have a master and he is incredible but I also have a boyfriend/friend who loves to play the submissive role. I love both but sometimes I feel like I am cheating.

Anyone else ever get involved in something like this ?

Actually, the strangest part of the relationship(s) is the submissive man wants to get involved with my master and I.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yes, but it is not something I chose or did outside my relationship....it was what he wanted me to do as part of my submission to him and with him present....and will soon repeat, though with some different twists I expect.

Catalina

 

[chatbug]

I have a fantasy of bottoming to a female top that is bottoming at the same time to a male top. Part of the fantasy is not knowing when he will be done teasing and using her and release her from her bounds so that she can be done teasing and using me and release me.

However, I don't expect I'll ever act out this fantasy. There's too much opportunity for jealousy and other emotions to get in the way, and I'm not sure as a bottom bottom if I want to relate to the other male top. I'd rather he ignored me.

I'm having trouble imagining submitting to a woman who's submitting to a dom at the same time. How does that work?

 

[princess4u]

this is something my Master wants to pursue -
but we haven't found a suitable male sub yet

 

[Netzach]

Close. I've been sub to a FemDom while Domme to men and women.

 

[Private_Label]

Actually, the strangest part of the relationship(s) is the submissive man wants to get involved with my master and I.

I have an on-line dom Friend who wants me to find someone else to have sex with so he can watch/hear about it. As I am new all this, I'm not terribly comfortable with the idea. I tend to want to focus on one person exclusively, and don't know if I CAN split my attention that way. I don't think I could top another person, maybe see them as an equal, or where we trade that role. Part of me is considering looking for someone to have a RL relationship with who would be comfortable with the situation.

But I don't know if I want to share my Friend, even with another man that he would use on me.

As you have mentioned there would be a part of me that would feel as if I were cheating, and would take a lot of talking for me to be somewhat comfortable.

Let me know how it goes, good or not so good, because I do appear to be on the verge of going down that path.