Help!!

[DigitalDrifter]

Ok, so this has been a problem for me for awhile.. and now I need HELP..

I'm male.. 30 yrs old, 6'4, 230lbs, long hair, blah blah.. I'm not ugly but I'm not an Adonis either.

My Fiance' and myself have been together for about 11 years on and off now, the past 6 consecutive.. <spelling?>

Here's the issue..

I'm not "huge" but I'm not small either.. Condom's just dont' work!!!

She/we have tried various Bcontrol before, the female ones ruin her sex drive/make her crazy, and neither of us like condoms.. in fact, condom's are a problem..

I seem to fall between 'large" and "huge".. <embarrased>.. Trojans "large" are too tight.. and "Trojans" magnum's are too lose, once one slipped off in the middle of "fun" and got stuck inside of here...

Where the heck can you find a condom thats between "large" and "huge" ????

This would help alot..

seriously...

 

[Vixandra]

Are you using condoms stricktly for birth control?
If so she could try starting the pill, patch, ring, shot or any other method they've come out with these days.

If that's a total non-option, there are other alternatives out there. A quick search showed:
http://www.condomania.com/theyfit/
http://www.condomania.com/images/C-TF_1_dt.jpg
A whole range of sizes there. Its probably on the pricier side but good sex is worth it.

 

[Emerald Eyed]

You know, I can fit a condom over my head..... I doubt you are larger then that

 

[DigitalDrifter]

On this note, I'm sure I'm not.

Bottom line is, bcontrol makes her hormones go off the freaking chart.. she doesn't like, and I dont' either.

I'm not huge, but I'm not small either.. and when we've tried condoms, they usually break.

Because of this our vaginal sex life is lacking, and its a freaking issue.

Hence the other thread.. we are both very "oral" and love it. It is very satisfing... in some ways.. but a condom that fits would be a godsend!

 

[Cathleen]

What about a diaphram? Female condom? Maybe check out http://talksexwithsue.com/ there is a lot of good info there. Also http://www.freddyandeddy.com/

(Also there are birth control pills that are very low doses.)