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EroticRomanticMan said:
He may be right though. I consider myself a nice guy and I'm not beating the ladies off with a stick. I do some beating off but not with a stick!
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You do come off as very nice. Vanilla ice cream nice. My auntie loves vanilla, so it's not a bad thing.
 
Thanks for the memories SG. I listened to the whole thing. It made me smile. I guess that's why your called SmileyGirl!
 
 
EroticRomanticMan said:
Finally something we can agree on!!!!:D
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I spelled chocolate wrong and now that you quoted me even if I go back and edit it people will always know I suck at spelling :(

Love that combo. I always look at all the other flavors but get overwhelmed with too many choices and combinations and end up getting the same thing.
 
Conager said:
Stop self identifying as a "nice guy." Stop doing things that so called "nice guys" do.

Women do not like assholes although it looks like they do. What they like less than assholes are clingy guys. Nice guys are clingy. If you make them feel like you are "too nice" to risk hurting your feelings they will opt to not engage with you on a sexual level.

You think of yourself as a nice guy and it irritates women greatly. They wait and wonder when you are going to finally get the balls to actually declare your sexual interest. By the time you finally do (if ever) they have already decided to take a pass. Hanging around "being the friend" waiting for some woman to notice what a nice guy you are is rude. Don't do that. Friendship with a vague hope that something sexual might happen is disingenuous.

If you have a sexual interest declare it. You don't behave the way you do with these women with male friends. You do not pass out obsequious little compliments, you do not do them favors with no return you do not buy them thoughtful little gifts.

Be bold, open your mouth, talk to everyone. Act as if you assume that they might very well be interested until they indicate otherwise. No one ever sold anything without making the pitch.
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IceP: I will vouch for Conager...maybe not a "nice guy" in the definition of the OP.... but definitely not an asshat. Confidence always looks good on a guy. Also...he has an ear for humor and quality postings on the boards. I for one, am quite annoyed by clingy...I don't care if they are male or female. And often nice= clingy.
Good luck to the OP...but I would have to say your approach leaves me cool. :cattail:
 
nurseclynn said:
IceP: I will vouch for Conager...maybe not a "nice guy" in the definition of the OP.... but definitely not an asshat. Confidence always looks good on a guy. Also...he has an ear for humor and quality postings on the boards. I for one, am quite annoyed by clingy...I don't care if they are male or female. And often nice= clingy.
Good luck to the OP...but I would have to say your approach leaves me cool. :cattail:
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I wonder if he will ever come back, it was his first post. I should prob not be on the welcoming commitee. I am definitely not that nice :)

No worries about Mr. Roadhouse, I don't know him, but his advice to mr. new was good :)
 
Iceprincess12 said:
I wonder if he will ever come back, it was his first post. I should prob not be on the welcoming commitee. I am definitely not that nice :)

No worries about Mr. Roadhouse, I don't know him, but his advice to mr. new was good :)
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Ah - but at least you have kept his request at the top of the thread...that's pretty darn welcoming :)

So - welcome Mr. Nice Guy...I hope you do find what you are looking for here. There are all kinds of places to post and find welcome and don't be discouraged by this thread... even the Ice Princess is actually quite charming most of the time, lol. :D
 
Wise words indeed!

Conager said:
Stop self identifying as a "nice guy." Stop doing things that so called "nice guys" do.

Women do not like assholes although it looks like they do. What they like less than assholes are clingy guys. Nice guys are clingy. If you make them feel like you are "too nice" to risk hurting your feelings they will opt to not engage with you on a sexual level.

You think of yourself as a nice guy and it irritates women greatly. They wait and wonder when you are going to finally get the balls to actually declare your sexual interest. By the time you finally do (if ever) they have already decided to take a pass. Hanging around "being the friend" waiting for some woman to notice what a nice guy you are is rude. Don't do that. Friendship with a vague hope that something sexual might happen is disingenuous.

If you have a sexual interest declare it. You don't behave the way you do with these women with male friends. You do not pass out obsequious little compliments, you do not do them favors with no return you do not buy them thoughtful little gifts.

Be bold, open your mouth, talk to everyone. Act as if you assume that they might very well be interested until they indicate otherwise. No one ever sold anything without making the pitch.
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Hope the young man heeds your advice before he dies of blue balls, that's such a horrible way to go. LOL
 
Iceprincess12 said:
I don't know this guy, but he must not be nice haha!
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Recovering nice guy. We have meetings.

EroticRomanticMan said:
There was a movie called Conagher?
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I saw it on TV. I did not know at the time it was a made-for-tv movie. Widow ties wistful notes to tumbleweeds, cowboy finds the message-in-a-bottle style notes. Don't remember the point but Sam Elliot looked cool as hell in it. Mostly because he is Sam Elliot.


Iceprincess12 said:
I don't know but isn't that the guy from road house with swayze?
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Wade Garrett. Overlooked dialog movie. The dialog is so bad it is good. I am not sure..I may have had that Sam Elliot as my avatar at the time. I was looking to replace the drawn pistol one from Conagher.

I knew Sam Elliot married Katherine Ross (who retired from a great career to be home with him) but I did not know that they met on the set of Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid. I didn't remember that he was in that. HE got Butch and Sundance's girl. Think about that. Paul Newman, Robert Redford in signature roles and she picked Sam Elliot. I suspect Newman and Redford were courtly and charming and Sam most likely smirked in a not-nice-guy way.

Terranim said:
I can give you links to guides on proper masturbation and refer to you to Literotica's story section.

Beyond that, perhaps you could consider that, maybe, you need to put work into actual relationships with people instead of focusing on your libido?
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Really good point. Not only does no woman care about your dry-spells, they are leery of helping you break one. They want the option of tip-toeing away and they know they will feel bad if they build up a crestfallen guy then drop him.

Also, "people" is right. Not just women. If you are not comfortable with yourself first, random dudes next, and mixed groups how the hell do you expect to be comfortable opening your mouth around the fairer sex?
 
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Conager said:
Stop self identifying as a "nice guy." Stop doing things that so called "nice guys" do.

Women do not like assholes although it looks like they do. What they like less than assholes are clingy guys. Nice guys are clingy. If you make them feel like you are "too nice" to risk hurting your feelings they will opt to not engage with you on a sexual level.

You think of yourself as a nice guy and it irritates women greatly. They wait and wonder when you are going to finally get the balls to actually declare your sexual interest. By the time you finally do (if ever) they have already decided to take a pass. Hanging around "being the friend" waiting for some woman to notice what a nice guy you are is rude. Don't do that. Friendship with a vague hope that something sexual might happen is disingenuous.

If you have a sexual interest declare it. You don't behave the way you do with these women with male friends. You do not pass out obsequious little compliments, you do not do them favors with no return you do not buy them thoughtful little gifts.

Be bold, open your mouth, talk to everyone. Act as if you assume that they might very well be interested until they indicate otherwise. No one ever sold anything without making the pitch.
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These words are gold! Everything you said is true, well at least from my perspective. Why do nice girls go out with arseholes? Cause they know how to pick them up.
 
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