Fwb question.

[chame1eon]

Not sure where else to post this. But do you guys think a married person who openly has a fwb with the consent of thier partner is disrespecting or treating the non married person as meat or that anyone is doing anything wrong? I think my friend is seeing this wrong but now he went to bed and the issue is unresolved.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

I quirks say every relationship had its own boundaries and should be defined by those in it and not by people that feel they should have an opinion

 

[chame1eon]

I quirks say every relationship had its own boundaries and should be defined by those in it and not by people that feel they should have an opinion

I agree with that. Its more about boundaries and consent in the specific relationship and not about some specific set of rules that apply the same way to everyone and that's the ethical part of that, but I also think that having a fwb doesn't make anyone meat ot necessarily imply any kind of disrespect for that person.

 

[SigmaJay]

I see voluntary relationships as transactional. I think open marriage / fwb can work under certain circumstances.

...anyone is doing anything wrong?

I don't see sex as right and wrong. Legal / illegal yes. We have laws against pedophilia for example (Elites notwithstanding).

 

[chame1eon]

I see voluntary relationships as transactional. I think open marriage / fwb can work under certain circumstances.

I think its about jealousy. If you feel it and what you do if you do.

 

[SparkleFur]

Assuming the person who is not part of the marriage in this scenario is being disrespected is kind of projecting a little bit. I would say it's not for everyone!

If the person in the fwb position of an open marriage is ok with it - content to be in that role then why not. But I think they need to set clear boundaries and expectations.

It's all fun and games until someone ends up in a cone.