Help with anal

[hotchefgirl]

HELP!
I'm A bigger girl and my boyfriend and I really want to try anal but we cant get him in any postion suggestions would help. I really want to tryt but doggy and mission arent working
please help
thanks

 

[SweetErika]

What is it about doggy and missionary that isn't working for you? Have you tried spooning? What about him sitting or lying down and you on top?

Also, make sure you check out the Anal section of The Blank Manual (the sticky at the top of this forum)...it's a wealth of great info and advice.

 

[Lynxie]

Erika's idea of spooning might be worth a try - I'm a bit on the heavier side myself, and I find anal very comfortable if I lay on my side with one knee bent while I'm entered from behind. Have you tried being on top? What about doggy isn't working for you? If it's that you have trouble supporting yourself, you might want to try leaning over something, like the edge of a table, for support.

 

[janisjoplin197888]

I am also a bigger girl and......

this works very well for me. Try this- Lie on your back, A pillow under your pelvis would help you out. Put your legs up and allow him to enter you that way. That way you can eventually rest ur legs on his shoulders. With this position you can also make direct eye contact with your lover. Doggy style has NEVER worked for me. The above mentioned position really allows for better relaxation of your muscles. A HUGE plus for anal. Ps- Remember lotsa lube, and relax! The more relaxed your are the easier insertion is. Hope this helps! Perhaps you could PM or post if my information has been of assistance Janisj.

 

[ccnut]

Anal

Hi,
Before trying to enter are you allowing your lover to loosen you properly? What I do is I start with my tongue till she is relaxed and slippery, then followed with a finger. This way you can loosen up properly and then you can apply plenty of lub.
All the best.
Kushan

 

[nikkijames]

woohoo I love other people who are into anal sex!!

 

[janisjoplin197888]

Re: Anal

Hi,
Before trying to enter are you allowing your lover to loosen you properly? What I do is I start with my tongue till she is relaxed and slippery, then followed with a finger. This way you can loosen up properly and then you can apply plenty of lub.
All the best.
Kushan

No, I don't get 'losen up' first. As long as she is well in the mood, things should wwork just fine. Biggest thing really is to relax! If you have it in mind that it's going to hurt, it will!