help please

[orica]

First time creamer needs help. I have been with plenty of men, but have only cummed with one guy. Is there a techic to getting an orgasm. How do I know I'm having one? I get seb=nsitive down there, but everytime I get excitted I feel like I got to pee. It's the same when a guy is tasting my beautiful mound. I don't know how or what I'm suppose to be feeling for.

How do I get my self excitted to gain an orgasm? Help please.

 

[snowbond]

I dont know for sure but the women of lit may have the proper reason, buut I think that a huge reason for a woman to get off is that she wants to for the guy, and I dont mean for selfish reasons, but for the ability to let herself go (if I am wrong would like to hear that) I just think that commmunication and everyting mak ethings right...

 

[lovetoread]

If the mechanics are not working for you,then fantasize.

Run a full fledged porno in your mind as you are being touched.

 

[Wiggles]

Go to the potty before hand.

Then, if you feel you gotta go, you won't be worried so much.

You've then given yourself the freedom to just sit back and let things happen. Don't worry about it too much, cumming really isn't the reason why we have sex, it's just a good part. Relax and just enjoy the sensations he's giving you.

And, you'll know when you're having one. If you have to ask, you haven't had one. Sure bet.

Signs of an orgasm (mine):

Light headedness
Shaking, this is a really good sign. If your legs are shaking afterwards, that was an orgasm.
Vaginal muscles contracting
Excess fluid (cum)
Visuals, I've experienced actual fireworks. (Ok, I was drunk.)

And, if you're like me, you'll want to have another go.

 

[Different Guy]

Visuals, I've experienced actual fireworks. (Ok, I was drunk.)

I guess that refers to cumming so hard you see stars!

 

[princessa]

relax... and be a little selfish... that's the best advice i think anyone can give... i'm a bit of a control freak sometimes and i know that can inhibit me from enjoying a guy's attentions... worrying what he'll think or concentrating on him too much... you WANT to cum and i'm sure he'll like watching your pleasure very much... don't worry about the peeing sensation... go pee first... although it'll probably still be there... it's just a pressure feeling and can feel sorta nice after awhile... a sign that you're aroused for you maybe?