my gf wants me to sexually arouse her and make her cum while she's sleeping, without waking her up. First, is this a normal request? Second, anyone have any experience in this sort of thing? We've been together for about 11 months now and we both have a pretty decent sexual history before we found each other. But she asked me this last night and I'm pretty much dumbfounded. It sounds a little beyond kinky to me...and kind of impossible. Please help...anyone....
HELP!!! Odd Request!!!
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Weird Harold
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Leppi said:
If the number of stories that include the line, "what a great way to wake up," are any indication, this is anything but an abnormal fantasy.
Everyone is different when it comes to what can be done to them while sleeping without waking them up, and each day is different from all of the others. If your GF is anything close to a sound sleeper -- i.e. you can touch her at all without waking her -- it should be fairly easy to arouse her without waking her. Making her cum without waking her is the hard part.
I never tired to make my ex-wife cum without waking her, but I frequently aroused her in her sleep so that she woke up ready to attack me. Just start slow and soft and caress her erogenous zones and give her dreams time to catch up with the sensations. Even if you don't succeed completely in producing a "wet-dream" you'll have a throoughy aroused woman on your hands when she does wake up.
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I've tried a few times to wake my husband with a blowjob. All I got for my efforts was a wet, still limp dick in my mouth.
I've never asked him to try the same with me. But I'm guessing that it probably wouldn't work based on my experience with him.
Either way, go for it. Let us know the outcome.
(or is that out cum?)
Jenny
I've never asked him to try the same with me. But I'm guessing that it probably wouldn't work based on my experience with him.
Either way, go for it. Let us know the outcome.
(or is that out cum?)
Jenny
Does she sleep naked?
I had a girlfriend that liked to be woken up in the middle of the night by having me lick her pussy while she slept. Many times she was "just about to cum" before actally waking up.
She also wanted me to cum all over while she slept. She woke up during the "money shot" all over her face. Wow...that was fun!.
Enjoy...
I had a girlfriend that liked to be woken up in the middle of the night by having me lick her pussy while she slept. Many times she was "just about to cum" before actally waking up.
She also wanted me to cum all over while she slept. She woke up during the "money shot" all over her face. Wow...that was fun!.
Enjoy...
devils_daughter
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I'd love that, I've hinted a lot but I'm a light sleeper 
fr34k_n45ty
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My bf and I are pretty hard sleepers but we are both also be sleep talkers. My bf also is a sleep walker. One night we ended up waking up in the middle of sleep. When I woke up I wasn't sure if I had dreamed it or if it was real. Very weird feeling to wake up like that but I wouldn't mind it again.
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I don't think it's weird. But get it in writing that she actually asked you to do it. Just to be on the safe side.
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JRaven said:
I think it will work if he's closer to the surface, i.e., not in such deep sleep. I have awakened my husband like that a lot of times, although with my hand and not my mouth. If he was too deeply asleep, he would not wake up, and then he'd turn over, and in the meantime, I'd fall back asleep myself. If he was closer to wakefulness, he would get hard, and then it would happen--unless his bladder is full, and then he will stumble out of bed, go to the bathroom and deflate just enough to get his business taken care of and then he'd come back and then it would happen.
I've never asked him to do that to me, but I've sometimes awakened in the night just enough to realize that he was rubbing against me with definite intent and readiness. At our age I'm not going to look a gift dick in the eye, or whatever, so I take full advantage.
However, I've read where some people consider that your man trying to have sex with you while you're asleep is a sign of an abuser. I dunno about that. Sounds a bit Andrea Dworkinish to me.
