help me please!!

[sinful10008]

I am a bi male, Ive only had 2 experiances with guys and both times turned out to be pretty unpleasurable for me and probably the guys also. The problem both times was when it came time to get the cock up my azz it hurt soooo bad, i couldnt do it. So my question to the board is this; Is there anything I can do to make it not hurt so bad, or is there just something wrong with me???

 

[thickspear]

you probably just need to relax...take your time and of course use plenty o' lube..

and if you don't know how to relax use a dildo and learn....

 

[sunnyday666]

you probably just need to relax...take your time and of course use plenty o' lube..

and if you don't know how to relax use a dildo and learn....

i was just about to say the same thing.
just slowly stretch your ass out
or find a guy that is smaller than the two you were with.

i may be a girl but i know the pain of an ass fucking especially if your in the middle of sex in the heat of it all and then all of a sudden have a 10inch dick half way up your virgin ass
that hurt like a motherfucker.

 

[John Doe]

What they said.

Too much lube is not enough. Make sure you're relaxed. Soothing music and/or a massage might help. Start with a finger and work your way up, so to speak.

Perhaps the most important thing is make sure you're with someone you trust. It'll make relaxing that much easier.

 

[janisjoplin197888]

There's your winner!

i was just about to say the same thing.
just slowly stretch your ass out
or find a guy that is smaller than the two you were with.

i may be a girl but i know the pain of an ass fucking especially if your in the middle of sex in the heat of it all and then all of a sudden have a 10inch dick half way up your virgin ass
that hurt like a motherfucker.

You have GOT to be relaxed! That is the most important thing. Then of course, there's the Lube issue, Don't be stingy with that. After he is in, muscles become lose, All is GOOOOOOOD!

 

[B20civic]

relax. go slow. you will enjoy it

 

[kjken]

Lots of good tips here. I also have to say:

1. Lube - helps get it in easier.
2. Relax - Just let it happen.
3. Go slow at first.
4. Enjoy it at your pace.

 

[DirkPryde]

Dildo's are the best for learning to relax, fingers first maybe.
I did not have my first experience untill sometime after playing and experimenting with *sly grin* a number of dildo substitutes.

There are a number of web sites, also a list in the "How To" forum about this kind of thing.

Having a hot lubed dick is better than any dildo, IMO

 

[mystic_maiden32]

Lots of good tips here. I also have to say:

1. Lube - helps get it in easier.
2. Relax - Just let it happen.
3. Go slow at first.
4. Enjoy it at your pace.

ditto