Help Me Please Guys... How Should I Finish a Blow Job?

[Gil_T2]

Please Sir I want some more.......

All you need is to give a little hint

 

[Ladybird]

You started a winner here LB and I think one of the big things a guy on this thread should be watching for is how the subject of blow jobs impacts his partner. You need to be sensitive to her needs and wants even while she is taking you to heaven.

Of course since I have been priveleged to be here from somewhere near the beginning I know you and I would be a perfect match for oral sex both in givin and gettin. For now I will just live the fantasy LB. You are one sexy lady and share many of my dreams.

Syn, you have good advice for us as always. With every aspect of sex and lovemaking, it's important I think to be sensitive to each other and each others needs.

I keep buying lotto tickets my friend, with the dream that maybe one day I'll be lucky enough to take you into my mouth and give you the pleasure that I long too.
We are alike in many ways, and I'd love to explore them all with you, sexy man.

 

[Synnerman]

Here is a bit of wisdom I read and am happy to share. This can pertain to anything from Life itself to a subject a little closer to our hearts or crotches .

Stay alert, keep your mind and eyes wide open and you may discover treasures where others see nothing unusual.

 

[Ladybird]

Wise words, with many applications my friend. Thank you.

 

[Arden]

A friendly bump for a wonderful thread...

Of all things sexual, making love to his cock is what I crave the most. Taking his cock in my hands, guiding it to my waiting lips, running my tongue around the head while lapping up his precum... I love how his cock glides over my tongue, stopping when it can go no farther. Spending up to an hour just enjoying the experience is something we do all of the time. He posesses incredible self control, and enjoys it as much as I do. It's almost like a beautiful dance playing out between us. (Lavishing my love and attention on him also makes me incredibly wet) The longer we prolong his orgasm, the harder he cums in the end. We often wind up fucking like crazed animals after a long oral sex session. And I do mean crazed.

I have a special pillow for the times when he wants me to make love to his cock while kneeling. It's about 30" square, and overstuffed. I can kneel for a long time on it... and I have to admit that I love being in that position for oral sex. My mouth is at the perfect level for him to slide all the way in as he stands in front of me. Mmmm....

 

[Ladybird]

Arden, it's so lovely to see you here.

Like you I prefer to be on my knees while enjoying my mans cock. I find it easier to move down to his balls so that I can lick and suck them, and then straighten up to take just the head of of his cock into my mouth.

I love to feel his hands on my head as he guides my movements. And I really love to pleasure him. After all, isn't that what lovemaking is all about?

 

[Arden]

Arden, it's so lovely to see you here.

Like you I prefer to be on my knees while enjoying my mans cock. I find it easier to move down to his balls so that I can lick and suck them, and then straighten up to take just the head of of his cock into my mouth.

I love to feel his hands on my head as he guides my movements. And I really love to pleasure him. After all, isn't that what lovemaking is all about?

Wrapping my arms around him, sliding my warm fingertips over his sexy butt, pulling him into me physically as he gently pushes to the back of my throat... pure heaven!

Having the ability to caress his balls with my mouth or tongue while kneeling is so wonderful. My bed is metal with a straight canopy frame at the top. Perfect for him to hold onto, relax, and enjoy the ride as he stands beside the bed facing me on my pillow.

At other times, I love feeling his hands stroking my hair as I make love to his cock. Pulling my head gently towards him as he pushes into my mouth. Mmmm...

When I was young, I didn't especially love having a man's cock in my mouth. It was awkward and very frustrating at times. When I look back on those times today, I see young guys that wanted to fuck someone's mouth as they'd seen it done in edited porn movies. They were so eager to experience it, yet all they knew how to do was fuck someone's mouth like a woman's pussy. No wonder most of us started out not caring for it. They didn't know how wonderful it could be if they would only relax and allow themselves to receive pleasure.

It's not about fucking someone's mouth... it's about letting her lavish her love and undivided attention on your cock. Serious mouth fucking should be reserved for those that are well experienced and know how to do it. Also, it's not much fun to have a cock in your mouth when your lips are dry. Let her massage some flavored lube onto your cock before you start. Not only does it feel good, but your cock will become nice and hard as you anticipate what's left to come.

You know, I can't think of any other sexual act that is more intimate, or more beautiful than having his cock in my mouth. I often think that I get as much out of it as he does... or even more. Knowing how much he enjoys feeling my lips and tongue on him makes me want to live in that moment forever.

 

[Luv2GetUWet]

Great thread here! For me personally, I think the most erotic thing about getting a blowjob is maintaining constant eye contact with my partner. I love looking into her eyes and watching everything she does. That's much more arousing to me than whether or not she swallows. Nothing sexier than that eye-contact. Just my .02

 

[Gil_T2]

WOW...LADYBIRD & ARDEN if my loverly lady hadn't given me another fab BJ earlier i'd be dragging her to her knees in front of me after reading your posts.

BANDIT is still very new to the BJ but with patients & lots of practice we are both enjoying the exploration into it.

 

[ahooohgah]

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I've spent a lot of time here reading today, and I am getting somwhat desensitized......until I read this from Arden ...

...It's not about fucking someone's mouth... it's about letting her lavish her love and undivided attention on your cock. Serious mouth fucking should be reserved for those that are well experienced and know how to do it.

Geeze, that took my breath away!

 

[Arden]

Great thread here! For me personally, I think the most erotic thing about getting a blowjob is maintaining constant eye contact with my partner. I love looking into her eyes and watching everything she does. That's much more arousing to me than whether or not she swallows. Nothing sexier than that eye-contact. Just my .02

Eye contact can be very hard at times

I know that he would like to do the same. If I'm paying attention to what I'm doing, though, eye contact can be very difficult. I know that you often see eye contact in porn shots... but aren't most of them staged?

If there is a way to maintain eye contact, tell me how. In real life, I can only seem to accomplish eye contact if I come up for air, lol... Is there a particular position that you have found that allows more eye contact?

Tell me. I'm usually so preoccupied that I don't think about it.

 

[Arden]

WOW...LADYBIRD & ARDEN if my loverly lady hadn't given me another fab BJ earlier i'd be dragging her to her knees in front of me after reading your posts.

BANDIT is still very new to the BJ but with patients & lots of practice we are both enjoying the exploration into it.

Learning how to do things with a kind, patient man makes all the difference in the world. In a way, you are lucky that you have had the opportunity to teach her how you like to be pleased. How much better could it get?



We miss seeing the two of you around, but I'm SO happy that you are together! Take good care of that special one...

 

[Arden]

Well crap, Lit just ate my last post. I have to hit the hay now... 'Night, all.

 

[ahooohgah]

yep

Arden asked:

If there is a way to maintain eye contact, tell me how. In real life, I can only seem to accomplish eye contact if I come up for air, lol... Is there a particular position that you have found that allows more eye contact?

Have him lie down on the bed rather than stand up. Provide something to support his feet if they don't hit the floor, and you stay where you are on your pillow.

 

[Ladybird]

Re: yep

Arden asked:

Have him lie down on the bed rather than stand up. Provide something to support his feet if they don't hit the floor, and you stay where you are on your pillow.

My favourite position is on my knees in front of him... with him sitting on the edge of the bed. That way I can lick and suck to my hearts content, and still look up .... usually to see him watching me (which in itself is a big turn on for me).

Eye contact is so sexy, and it's a two way thing too. I love to see his face, watch it contort as he gets closer. It's yet another indication that I'm pleasuring him well.

 

[Carnus]

I love a lingering mouth, being slightly larger than average it is tough for me to find a woman who can take all of me in her mouth (only had 2 ever do it) so after I cum I love for her to keep sucking as i soften, taking more of me in her mouth, her tongue teasing me until i squirm then taking me deep in her mouth, swallowing against the extremely sensitive tip of my cock as I look down at her, feeling her tongue reaching out to tease my spent balls as she takes me as deep as she can. So in answer to hte question, stop when you feel my hands lovingly pulling you away, pulling you up to kiss me, wanting to taste your mouth, wanting to feel the lips and tongue that just gave such incredible pleasure.

Carnus

Serious question.

I love to suck cock, and yes, I swallow.

But I'm never sure when to take my mouth away from his cock once he has cum.

I don't want to move too quickly, I want his experience to be the very best I can give him.

But on the other hand, if his cock is sensitive, I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable either.

How do I know when it's time?

Help me please guys.. I want to get it right.

 

[Gil_T2]

Learning how to do things with a kind, patient man makes all the difference in the world. In a way, you are lucky that you have had the opportunity to teach her how you like to be pleased. How much better could it get?



We miss seeing the two of you around, but I'm SO happy that you are together! Take good care of that special one...

We are enjoying our journey of exploration into each others pleasures & desires.

BANDIT

 

[ahooohgah]

Ladybird asked,

My favourite position is on my knees in front of him... with him sitting on the edge of the bed. That way I can lick and suck to my hearts content, and still look up ....

How do you look up without breaking your neck? Or do you just glance up from time to time?

And one more thought for Arden, I said "bed", but it could be any comfortable surface; the hood of the car, the picnic table, the kitchen counters, the stairs, on a float in the pool, in just the right depth water.....etc, so on, and so forth.

 

[Ladybird]

How do you look up without breaking your neck? Or do you just glance up from time to time?

Yes, I just glance.. I don't want to break my neck or my concentration.
Sometimes he'll sit at the foot of my bed so that he can watch me in a full length mirror I have to the side of us. He can then see clearly what I'm doing and how much I'm loving it. It's very sexy.

 

[Ladybird]

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So in answer to hte question, stop when you feel my hands lovingly pulling you away, pulling you up to kiss me, wanting to taste your mouth, wanting to feel the lips and tongue that just gave such incredible pleasure.

Carnus

Oh Carnus, what a lovely way .......... thank you.

 

[Gil_T2]

I've had a wonderful day of researching BJ's with my lady & pleased to say I enjoyed it But have to wonder how wet she gets without being touched by me ! Have I discovered a hidden "G" SPOT....

 

[Arden]

I've had a wonderful day of researching BJ's with my lady & pleased to say I enjoyed it But have to wonder how wet she gets without being touched by me ! Have I discovered a hidden "G" SPOT....

No hidden G Spot needed... it's called desire.

Hugs to both of you!

 

[Arden]

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How do you look up without breaking your neck? Or do you just glance up from time to time?
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Yes, I just glance.. I don't want to break my neck or my concentration.
Sometimes he'll sit at the foot of my bed so that he can watch me in a full length mirror I have to the side of us. He can then see clearly what I'm doing and how much I'm loving it. It's very sexy.

The mirror sounds like a wonderful idea, LB!

ahooohgah's post made me stop and think... I may be avoiding looking 'up' because I have two bad discs in my neck. That's why kneeling is the perfect option for me, as it places no strain on my neck. Crouching over him on the bed while making love to his cock never lasts long enough because of the pain it brings on, causing me to shift positions often. (Damn old age, anyway!) But still, I endure... I could never give up on something that gives him so much pleasure just because my neck hurts.

 

[Arden]

Re: Re: Help Me Please Guys... How Should I Finish a Blow Job?

I love a lingering mouth, being slightly larger than average it is tough for me to find a woman who can take all of me in her mouth (only had 2 ever do it) so after I cum I love for her to keep sucking as i soften, taking more of me in her mouth, her tongue teasing me until i squirm then taking me deep in her mouth, swallowing against the extremely sensitive tip of my cock as I look down at her, feeling her tongue reaching out to tease my spent balls as she takes me as deep as she can. So in answer to hte question, stop when you feel my hands lovingly pulling you away, pulling you up to kiss me, wanting to taste your mouth, wanting to feel the lips and tongue that just gave such incredible pleasure.

Carnus

What a beautiful post, Carnus.

I love holding him in my mouth afterwards... making sure that I don't miss a single drop of his cum. Feeling him soften inside of my mouth is so very erotic... ever so gently using my tongue and lips on him until he can't bear it any more. Crawling up to kiss him, and feel his arms surround me. Heaven on earth.

 

[carrie-on]

Wow..LB I have no idea how I have missed this thread for so long!!
I absolutely love to give BJ's. I prefer to start with my man soft and feel him grow in my mouth as I suck. It seems that I can deepthroat him much better if he starts out soft and swells to fill my throat. I also like to kneel between his legs as he is sitting somewhere...the bed,the sofa...etc. MMMM maybe I will have to go wake him up right now!!