Help Me Please Guys... How Should I Finish a Blow Job?
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bharman4102
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Ladybird said:James, I'm going to confess something to you, and I know you'll keep it to yourself...
I've often thought how vulnerable a man is when I have his cock in my mouth. It would be so easy to bite him, and really do some damage.
Oral sex for a guy is a real trust thing isn't it. Perhaps something they should think twice about with a one night stand etc.
Thats exactly why those glory hole things scare the hell out of me...I've never heard about it happening, but I know for sure that I don't want to be the one time where it does!
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Honestly, after the guy cums...keep your mouth on the end of his penis. Don't do anything, just hold it in your mouth. After about 20-30 seconds after his orgasm itself has susided, you can probably let it out of your mouth.
Just that extra 20-30 seconds of when my penis is really sensitive is mind blowing to have the feeling of being inside her mouth.
Just that extra 20-30 seconds of when my penis is really sensitive is mind blowing to have the feeling of being inside her mouth.
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Thank you for your advice OnlyInTheMind. How often do we find that the simplest things are the best and most effective.OnlyInTheMind said:
That's the technique I prefer, especially if I'm unsure. I just hold him until I feel his penis begin to soften, and then let it slide from my mouth, gently.
Your words have reassured me. Thank you.
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Hehe I had an experience tonight too, I gave my friend a blow job and when he came it hit the back of my throat and I gagged and choked. I did manage to swallow some but the rest ran down my chin and ended up all over his stomach. His reaction?? "Oh sorry love" 
and he started laughing and so did I
I mean, ya gotta laugh......but I got my own back later with some lube and a couple of fingers in his ass......
and he started laughing and so did I I mean, ya gotta laugh......but I got my own back later with some lube and a couple of fingers in his ass...... 
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Bandit58 said:Hehe I had an experience tonight too, I gave my friend a blow job and when he came it hit the back of my throat and I gagged and choked. I did manage to swallow some but the rest ran down my chin and ended up all over his stomach. His reaction?? "Oh sorry love"
I hope you were giving him a blow job while fingering his butt as this hightens the buzz for the guy too.
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Gil_T2 said:
Gil I didn't need to....he was on his back, me sitting between his legs, two fingers in his butt and the other hand just stroking him.....poor guy was incoherent
and he was leaking precum everywhere. He'd never had that done to him before I did it a few weeks back.....
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Bandit58 said:Gil I didn't need to....he was on his back, me sitting between his legs, two fingers in his butt and the other hand just stroking him.....poor guy was incoherent
HeHeHe try it you might have to aim into the side of your mouth to save the gaging but bet he cums extra hard.
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Well I've learned quite a lot since I first posted on this thread 18 months ago......which is when I gave my first blowjob 
Still haven't managed to deep throat but I got someone I can practise on now whenever I want. Sometimes I almost get it but other times I gag....it does depend on how aroused I am I think
As for finishing......I love when he cums in my mouth and I hold it there for a few seconds, take his cock out and swallow and then take it back in and play for a little bit longer.......
Still haven't managed to deep throat but I got someone I can practise on now whenever I want. Sometimes I almost get it but other times I gag....it does depend on how aroused I am I think As for finishing......I love when he cums in my mouth and I hold it there for a few seconds, take his cock out and swallow and then take it back in and play for a little bit longer.......
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Great News
Thanks so much for sharing. Sounds like you've taken right to the art of fellatio. What you're doing to finish your practice partner off is hot, hot! Only wish I could help you practice...
Thanks so much for sharing. Sounds like you've taken right to the art of fellatio. What you're doing to finish your practice partner off is hot, hot! Only wish I could help you practice...
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Finish it with a great big smile!
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Oh I always finish with a BIG smile while licking my lips
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Bandit58 said:Well I've learned quite a lot since I first posted on this thread 18 months ago......which is when I gave my first blowjob
As for finishing......I love when he cums in my mouth and I hold it there for a few seconds, take his cock out and swallow and then take it back in and play for a little bit longer.......
In time with lots of practice 
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Bandit, Gil_T2, wild-thing, stuffandjunk1, zhukov1943, Laineforfun, horny_boi and gracie59... thank you so much for your responses here.
I started this thread with a genuine desire to find out how to finish a bj and make the experience as memorable as possible for the man I was with. I'm so glad I asked the question... because I've had so much help and positive response from the posters here.
I've learnt a lot.. and I hope that anyone reading the thread will walk away with a little more knowledge also.
And guys... if you have anything more to add, then please do. We will all benefit..
I started this thread with a genuine desire to find out how to finish a bj and make the experience as memorable as possible for the man I was with. I'm so glad I asked the question... because I've had so much help and positive response from the posters here.
I've learnt a lot.. and I hope that anyone reading the thread will walk away with a little more knowledge also.
And guys... if you have anything more to add, then please do. We will all benefit..
No way can I read this whole thread before posting! I probably can't add much that hasn't been said already, but I gotta say it anyway.
I don't get frequent BJs, and I never get to cum in her mouth, so I can only share the way I'd like it to be. K? The head of my dick is supersensitive right after the ejaculation, so it would be best to limit the movement for about 20 seconds. I can still feel the warmth of the breath, though, or the touch of fingers or tongue on my balls. I'd like to have my balls cupped softly about then. After the sensation has died a bit then I'd like to have her take me back in her mouth to come down gently the rest of the way, No movement needed! Just comfort. Rub my thighs, hug my legs, lick my balls. Sort of like foreplay in reverse.
I'm about ready to start foreplay in the forward direction about now. It never ends.
What I don't like is rolling over and going to sleep. Just stopping? No way!
I don't get frequent BJs, and I never get to cum in her mouth, so I can only share the way I'd like it to be. K? The head of my dick is supersensitive right after the ejaculation, so it would be best to limit the movement for about 20 seconds. I can still feel the warmth of the breath, though, or the touch of fingers or tongue on my balls. I'd like to have my balls cupped softly about then. After the sensation has died a bit then I'd like to have her take me back in her mouth to come down gently the rest of the way, No movement needed! Just comfort. Rub my thighs, hug my legs, lick my balls. Sort of like foreplay in reverse.
I'm about ready to start foreplay in the forward direction about now. It never ends.
What I don't like is rolling over and going to sleep. Just stopping? No way!
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Ladybird said:Bandit, Gil_T2, wild-thing, stuffandjunk1, zhukov1943, Laineforfun, horny_boi and gracie59... thank you so much for your responses here.
I started this thread with a genuine desire to find out how to finish a bj and make the experience as memorable as possible for the man I was with. I'm so glad I asked the question... because I've had so much help and positive response from the posters here.
I've learnt a lot.. and I hope that anyone reading the thread will walk away with a little more knowledge also.
And guys... if you have anything more to add, then please do. We will all benefit..
You started a winner here LB and I think one of the big things a guy on this thread should be watching for is how the subject of blow jobs impacts his partner. You need to be sensitive to her needs and wants even while she is taking you to heaven.
Of course since I have been priveleged to be here from somewhere near the beginning I know you and I would be a perfect match for oral sex both in givin and gettin. For now I will just live the fantasy LB. You are one sexy lady and share many of my dreams.
