Help Me Please Guys... How Should I Finish a Blow Job?

Laineforfun said:
Oh yes and for the closed minded thing it is here:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=99685&perpage=20&pagenumber=2


I believe it is the 8th post down from the top from Covertness
:rolleyes:

:devil:

OK, I had to go and make a comment on that thread. I know they are speaking out of their pain but there really isn't any difference between the size anxiety experienced by men or women. It is very real to them and that is all they can think about. I guess they need to learn that pleasing your woman is more like playing a fine violin than beating on a kettle drum.

All right Syn, get off your soap box. Now where was I? Oh yes, I was just about to give Laine a good tongue lashing. Take a grip on your pillow girl, I am hungry tonight. :p

Kisses to you LB, this is a fun place you have here. :kiss: :kiss:
 
Laine

Went to the other site about the size, I was always told it did not matter about ths size it was the way I got on & off that they like ,of course thats another story.I feel average 7" and could not enjoy more getting the lady off which , todate, has never failed.
 
Synnerman said:


:devil:

OK, I had to go and make a comment on that thread. I know they are speaking out of their pain but there really isn't any difference between the size anxiety experienced by men or women. It is very real to them and that is all they can think about. I guess they need to learn that pleasing your woman is more like playing a fine violin than beating on a kettle drum.

All right Syn, get off your soap box. Now where was I? Oh yes, I was just about to give Laine a good tongue lashing. Take a grip on your pillow girl, I am hungry tonight. :p

Kisses to you LB, this is a fun place you have here. :kiss: :kiss:

Just went and read it :D :D


Oh a tongue lashing what ever did I do? (telling self: Oh shut up and enjoy) Gripping pillow very tight all ready for the ride:D :D Pure magic Syn pure magic
 
Re: Laine

softey said:
Went to the other site about the size, I was always told it did not matter about ths size it was the way I got on & off that they like ,of course thats another story.I feel average 7" and could not enjoy more getting the lady off which , todate, has never failed.

I bet you have never failed Softey your simply wonderful:p and any size is perfect when you know how to pleasure a woman:D :devil:
 
Laine

Don't know why butt to have her reach the top is the most satisfaction I can have, either or both oral/cock , for I will surely be right behind her, in more than one way. Love to wallow in both our cum and feel each other which brings everything back again. What a great way to wake up, messy, but great.
 
Sounds great and when it's messy then you both jump in the shower together:D And that will probably just lead to more mess:devil:
 
Oh yeah.... I love messy sex.

I love the feel of his cum and mine all mixed up on and in me. Sex that is neat and tidy isn't for me.
 
Ok... I have another question to ask.

How to go about a blow job when a condom is being used.

What is the sensation like for a fella?

Is the finishing off technique the same as it would be if he weren't using a condom?

If a man is using a flavoured condom... say peppermint, does the flavour work thru to his cock? Is it pleasant?

Please, if anyone can answer there questions, and maybe give some advice, it would be great. After all, condoms are being used more and more these days.

Thanks....
:kiss:
 
Ladybird said:
Ok... I have another question to ask.

How to go about a blow job when a condom is being used.

What is the sensation like for a fella?

Is the finishing off technique the same as it would be if he weren't using a condom?

If a man is using a flavoured condom... say peppermint, does the flavour work thru to his cock? Is it pleasant?

Please, if anyone can answer there questions, and maybe give some advice, it would be great. After all, condoms are being used more and more these days.

Thanks....
:kiss:

i've not had many blowjobs with a condom, so all I caan tell you is that it's basically like wearing earmuffs to the opera.

Still, better that than an STD.

My best guess is therefore to increase the strength of the actions.

Not much help really.
 
Ladybird said:
Ok... I have another question to ask.

How to go about a blow job when a condom is being used.

What is the sensation like for a fella?

Is the finishing off technique the same as it would be if he weren't using a condom?

If a man is using a flavoured condom... say peppermint, does the flavour work thru to his cock? Is it pleasant?

Please, if anyone can answer there questions, and maybe give some advice, it would be great. After all, condoms are being used more and more these days.

Thanks....
:kiss:

I have never done a blow job with a condom on and I don't think I will. So I am not sure on your answere but to me it's just pointless and yes I do understand why it is important but still no thank you:D
 
A condom BJ

Umm !


It's been a while since I've had either !!
From what I can remember ( must be a age thing ) HEHEHE :D
It did reduce the sensitvity the the act, never used a flavoured condom so I can't help there either:(

I sure LB if we got together we could try both ways and see :D :D :rose:

Richo
 
Originally posted by ifitsfundoit
i've not had many blowjobs with a condom, so all I caan tell you is that it's basically like wearing earmuffs to the opera.
Still, better that than an STD.
My best guess is therefore to increase the strength of the actions.
Not much help really.

Everything is a help thanks ifits.. as you say, a condom is better than STD's.

So I guess a bj with a condom is similar to intercourse with a condom.. the sensation isn't as strong.

have never done a blow job with a condom on and I don't think I will. So I am not sure on your answere but to me it's just pointless and yes I do understand why it is important but still no thank you

But Laine you're in relationship, so condoms just aren't an issue for you, you lucky woman... LOL

Umm !
It's been a while since I've had either !!
From what I can remember ( must be a age thing ) HEHEHE
It did reduce the sensitvity the the act, never used a flavoured condom so I can't help there either
I sure LB if we got together we could try both ways and see
Richo

Richo it occurs to me that we could look at this as a scientific experiment. Then hopefully the government would pay for your ticket to come over here for our 'research work'.

Doesn't that sound like a good idea?

:D
 
Ladybird said:


But Laine you're in relationship, so condoms just aren't an issue for you, you lucky woman... LOL

Oh ya I guess your right there. Thanks for the reminder:rose:


:devil: Laine
 
condoms

Oh cum on now guys, why in the hell would you want a condom on for the ultimate, a BJ, it is like putting a glove over the pussy and trying to lick it. Damn the best part is the feeling of the warm mouth either on the pussy or cock. Then when things blow the sweet taste of the jucies as they flow now I'm all worked up, sorry.
 
Richo it occurs to me that we could look at this as a scientific experiment. Then hopefully the government would pay for your ticket to come over here for our 'research work'.

Doesn't that sound like a good idea?

:D [/B][/QUOTE]


Now if only I could talk them into it I think i would be very happy to do the research in the name of all the blokes out there, and of course in the name of the thread !!


Richo
 
If I have to have a shower with a raincoat on ....why have a shower at all.......total waste of time and effort...:confused:
 
aramera said:
If I have to have a shower with a raincoat on ....why have a shower at all.......total waste of time and effort...:confused:

What aramera said, haha. My thoughts exactly.
 
Just wondering !!

I must say I'd prefer not to use a condom, but you can never be to careful, and well when it comes to oral sex, you should be able to tell your partner when your about to come anyway so if she doesn't want you to come in her mouth, she hasa some warning !


Richo
 
Don't forget the problems we face with STD's though people.

Personally, if I'm with someone I don't know well enough to trust, or if I have any doubts... then it's a condom thank you.

I plan on having a long and healthy life.. and I'm not going to let what could be a short term relationship change that.
 
GOMBA said:
I was reading the Peppermint idea that sounds good......I think the best that I've had involved toothpaste .....my god that felt absolutely fantastic....so ladies please give that one a go
:p

GOMBA... I am pleased to advise that I finally got to try this today.... and my partner assures me that everything you said is right.

There was little sensation at first... but then it started to build into a hot tingle... he loved it. Even when I took my mouth away he could still feel a very pleasant burning sensation.

Thanks for the tip... it's one I won't forget..:p
 
What I want to know, Ladybird is, since when does a man have any problem whatsoever with telling a woman when to start and when to stop? That goes for everyday life as well. I've been told that I give the best blowjob that a guy has ever had (by every guy who's had the pleasure). Here's my secret:

1) kiss my way down to the shaft

2) lick and kiss the length of the shaft

3) move down and gently suck the balls, operative word being 'gently'

4) take the head in my mouth and gently suck on it, flickering my tongue across it

5) suddenly take the whole thing in deep throating it

6) stroke firmly with my hand as I follow it with my mouth

7) when paying oral attention to his balls, gently stroke the shaft

8) repeat 2-7 over and over

9) when he is ready to cum, I gently suck the head to take the nectar into my mouth

10) after he has cum, continue to gently suck, lick, and kiss the head, give it all kinds of attention

11) constantly look up into his eyes for approval

12) no need to be hush, he loves listening to you savour his cock

13) you should be able to tell when to stop by when he comes real close to falling asleep, his moaning becomes very faint, his breathing becomes shallow, and he begins to lose his erection (losing his erection is a dead giveaway).

14) hopefully, after a little while, he'll be able to go for round 2, or 3, or 4 (a girl can hope, can't she?)

Here are some very important tips:

a) the both of you should ALWAYS get tested for ALL std's and hiv before engaging in ANY kind of sex. Oral and anal are the most risky when it comes to contracting an std. Believe it, I was surprised to hear that oral was that risky, but it is.

b) if you must have sex before you get your test results, ALWAYS use a condom. If he isn't willing, he isn't worth it!

c) beware of your teeth! they should never be a part of a blowjob

d) communication is key, it's the only way to know for sure what your partner likes most

*e take him to the edge and back. when you sense that he's about to cum, stop. let him cool down a bit, then go back to business. do this several times. when you finally do allow him to cum, it'll be that much better. same goes for when he's sucking you off.

which brings me to my most important advice:

f) ALWAYS make sure he gets you off too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope this helps you and everyone else who reads it. I'd love to hear what you and your boyfriend think of my Mind Boggling Blowjob.

Happy orgasming everyone!!!!!!!!!!!




Yesterday is history. Tomorrow's a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why we call if the present.
 
:) If in doubt.........don't do it.
Condom or no condom, S T D's can be transfered in more ways than one !!
 
:devil:

Pretty heavy stuff here at this point.
I can't speak for anyone else, but for myself, I stay tested for STD's. Especially HIV. I hate using a condom but if in doubt, whip it out. You really can't live with the consequences of unsafe sex. It would be nice if there really was a way to tell if someone was infected. Reality is such a downer but you can live with it.
 
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