Help Me Please Guys... How Should I Finish a Blow Job?

[Richo01]

I've had that done

While ago, a ex did that to me one morning I couldn't beleive I didn't wake up until it was all over !!

my FAVOURITE thing to do ( as long as I get the ok before ) is in the middle of the night is waking up and running my fingers between my partners legs over their lips and if the position is just right slide a finger between them and very slowly rub there making nice and wet !

Never been able to give oral while my partner is sleeping just something I will have to work on one day HEHE

 

[Laineforfun]

my FAVOURITE thing to do ( as long as I get the ok before ) is in the middle of the night is waking up and running my fingers between my partners legs over their lips and if the position is just right slide a finger between them and very slowly rub there making nice and wet !

Never been able to give oral while my partner is sleeping just something I will have to work on one day HEHE

I would love my hubby to do that but even after being together for 12 years I think of my self as being very comfortable with him but, I guess I am not because when ever he tries to touch me intamatly while I am sleeping I freak and jump awake who knows I am sure it is a confidance thing or something or it could be because I was abused when I was very young????

Laine

 

[oogieboogielove]

I would love my hubby to do that but even after being together for 12 years I think of my self as being very comfortable with him but, I guess I am not because when ever he tries to touch me intamatly while I am sleeping I freak and jump awake who knows I am sure it is a confidance thing or something or it could be because I was abused when I was very young????

Laine

I love it when my b/f reaches over and touches me when I am asleep. It's a nice thing to wake up to. And to add to it, he is usually asleep when he first touches me. Eventually he wakes up and we continue with everything. It's great...........

 

[Richo01]

from rich

I would love my hubby to do that but even after being together for 12 years I think of my self as being very comfortable with him but, I guess I am not because when ever he tries to touch me intamatly while I am sleeping I freak and jump awake who knows I am sure it is a confidance thing or something or it could be because I was abused when I was very young????

Laine

I could only suggest you bith talk about and he doesn't get to upset when you pull away in the middle on the night, he must be never understanding to be able to help you in that circumstance, not many men could do that !

Richo

 

[Laineforfun]

I could only suggest you bith talk about and he doesn't get to upset when you pull away in the middle on the night, he must be never understanding to be able to help you in that circumstance, not many men could do that !

Richo

Oh he is a very patient man thank goodness. He never gets upset with me or takes offense to this. Through the years he has helped me open up so much. I believe I am very open now but I guess when I am sleeping it is different I guess I revert back to lacking self confidance again. He never pushes me to do anything I am not comfortable with (whice is not much anymore I love just about everything now ) but I have to be awake I guess

Maybe that is why I have trouble sleeping



Laine

 

[softey]

LB & Laine

What I like about this is that I can tell you what makes me hot and you can relate which tells me you have been there or wanted to be. I have only had the mint taste on my cock and it was cool as a mint should be but to the pussy it made it jump which made me go for the gold, the finish was a shot on her tits that covered everything must now go for a cool down .

LB just you wait till I get back there hummmm

 

[Don K Dyck]

Cheer Up Kid, The Sky Has Not Fallen . . .

I wish I could help you there. My girl doesn't lick to suck dick. She does it once like every 4 months or something. And as much as I love to eat her out, she doesn't like that either.

I don't get it. I am jealous of you women who love it and envious of those guys who get it. But I suggest those women to keep on sucking until your guy can't take it anymore. The sensitivity is what makes it worthwhile I think. It's the exclamation point of a job well done. That's usually the point, when I get to go down on here - which really isn't very often at all - where my girl tells me to stop. She can't take the sensitivity. The downer of it all is that it takes her seconds to get to that point, which doesn't give me much time to truly enjoy it.

Hi Kid, Judging by your virgin status you have only just found Lit. Welcome!! You will find a wonderful group of open minded, caring people willing to share their wisdom on any matter that you'd like to raise.

From your very brief description of the situation I think you could learn a lot from reading all the How To . . . Board threads. This one deservedly has a five star rating, as does Mr GGGs "Try This and Report Back."

Excellent sensual stimulation has many aspects, some of which are common to both male and female, others, by necessity are unique to either. One over arching aspect is cultural attitude imposed by family and community values. This may be part of your situation.

When ever there is a problem between partners the best advice the couple can receive is talk about it - to exhaustion. There are many reasons for the social taboos, mainly to do with population control in a pre-pill society, but that doesn't mean that the sexual techniques are wrong or "sinful", it just means that fellatio and cunnilingus are advanced techniques which require education for each and both partners.

The fun is in the experimenting!!! Enjoy yourself - you have nothing to lose except your inhibitions!!

 

[Ozzie Buzz]

m'lady if you use icing sugar ..you will lighten not enlighten me......

 

[Ladybird]

m'lady if you use icing sugar ..you will lighten not enlighten me......

Ok.. I'm blonde.. I'm dumb..

..why would I want to do that?????

 

[Arden]

Interesting stuff, Ladybird.

When I was very young, givind a blow job did nothing for me personally, and although I did swallow, I didn't like to. Same with being kissed after receiving oral sex. I didn't want that stuff on my face.

Immaturity? That was 30 years ago - I just turned 45 and am hornier than hell now.

With my current SO, whom I am deeply involved with mentally, emotionally and physically, I've rediscovered the joys of oral sex. Maybe it has something to do with how deeply connected we are.

I love going down on my guy because it completely blows his mind, and I know he thinks about it for days afterwards. And, swallowing his come isn't even an issue. I enjoy it as part of the total experience for HIM. I always kiss him after swallowing, and he never complains. In fact, it turns him on because I'm so turned on. Then, he jumps right into pleasuring me with his own tongue. *grin*

The first time he gave me a very passionate, wet kiss after making me come in his mouth, I went absolutely wild! He was looking in my eyes very lovingly at the time, but holding me down very tightly, which may have been part of the turn on. Seeing how much I enjoyed it turned him on, too. Then he asked me what I wanted next, and I received the most exquisite pounding that I've ever had.

I feel sorry for those who can't let go and enjoy oral sex because of personal hang-ups. I would never, ever want to be without it!

Hon what you're describing isn't all that unusual. Remember that the people who post here are very open minded sexual people.

A lot of women don't like the the look, taste and or feel of mens semen. Tis sad, I know.

I have a friend who won't suck her husbands cock because "he pee's out of it".. she see's it as unhygenic.

And as for you licking her.. again, some women don't like it because of the taste and smell on your face when you kiss them next.

Can you keep a damp face washer about.. and maybe wipe your face when you've finished.

I know that none of the above are ideal.. but if it gets her used to this kind of sex... who knows, she may one day like it.

 

[aramera]

This is a real BLOW by BLOW thread.!!!!!!!

 

[Ladybird]

When I was very young, givind a blow job did nothing for me personally, and although I did swallow, I didn't like to. Same with being kissed after receiving oral sex. I didn't want that stuff on my face.

Immaturity? That was 30 years ago - I just turned 45 and am hornier than hell now.

With my current SO, whom I am deeply involved with mentally, emotionally and physically, I've rediscovered the joys of oral sex. Maybe it has something to do with how deeply connected we are.

Thanks for your post Arden. What a difference love makes to lovemaking.

With love we enjoy pleasuring our partner.. and pleasure from that in return.

It's lovely to hear that you have such a great relationship. All the best hon.

 

[Ladybird]

This is a real BLOW by BLOW thread.!!!!!!!

My goodness... how perceptive you are aramera!!

Love the avatar honey.. very cute.

 

[seth6138]

congrats LB

24 pages on BJ's, I love it.....only you could have done this LB

 

[ifitsfundoit]

Thanks for your post Arden. What a difference love makes to lovemaking.

With love we enjoy pleasuring our partner.. and pleasure from that in return.

It's lovely to hear that you have such a great relationship. All the best hon.

Lovemaking and fucking...are they 2 separate things?

Can 2 people who've just met make love?

Can 2 people who are in love fuck?

Just curious for your opinion LB.


Ifits

 

[Laineforfun]

Lovemaking and fucking...are they 2 separate things?

Can 2 people who've just met make love?

Can 2 people who are in love fuck?

Just curious for your opinion LB.


Ifits

Hay no fare so you only want LB's opinion??????


Laine

 

[softey]

YEA

cause I have thoughts on this, need the female and male side of this.

 

[Laineforfun]

I'm with you softey I have some thoughts on this too.

Laine

 

[Arden]

Lovemaking and fucking...are they 2 separate things?

Can 2 people who've just met make love?

Can 2 people who are in love fuck?

Ifits

Yes and Yes.

1) Two people who've just met can make love, I think the label you put on it varies with the degree of attraction. A one night stand seems more worthy of the word "fuck."

2) When you're in love, romantic sex seems to be the norm. Tender stuff, playing, experimenting. But oh, when the two of you are having one of those supremly horny moments, a wild animalistic fuck reigns supreme! Raw, hot, pounding sex. Even the screams seem a bit wilder. <grin>

 

[love2kiss00]

ummmmmmmmmm

Let's see how can Ladybird finish a blowjob....easy honey..by getting up close to me and letting me hold you in my arms...while i just enjoy you ...and what you have just done to me.........


kisses..

 

[Ladybird]

Re: congrats LB

24 pages on BJ's, I love it.....only you could have done this LB

Seth!! Good to see you here again.

Now are you going to tell me that bj's aren't important? Cos we all think they are, and want to make them the best!

Hey... did you know that tulip is coming over here? I'll get to meet her at last.

Why don't you come with her, and then I show you just how much I've learnt

 

[ifitsfundoit]

Hay no fare so you only want LB's opinion??????


Laine

Sorry Laine...I'd like your opinion as well.

 

[Ladybird]

Originally posted by ifitsfundoit

Lovemaking and fucking...are they 2 separate things?

Yes. Lovemaking involes love or at least deep affection for one another. There is tenderness and caring thought. Fucking is great, but it's mostly lust, and is all about gratification.

Can 2 people who've just met make love?

If it's one of those magical occassions where two people meet and the sparks fly immediately, then yes.. I do believe that they can make love. Because they have some affection for each other.

Can 2 people who are in love fuck?

Absolutely. Any relationship would be boring and mundane if there was no lust. Sometimes too, some love will be there, and that just adds to it I think.

[quoteJust curious for your opinion LB.[/quote]

Anytime hon... tis my pleasure.

 

[Ladybird]

Hay no fare so you only want LB's opinion??????

cause I have thoughts on this, need the female and male side of this.

Laine and softey... come on the, share your views please.

 

[Ladybird]

Re: ummmmmmmmmm

Let's see how can Ladybird finish a blowjob....easy honey..by getting up close to me and letting me hold you in my arms...while i just enjoy you ...and what you have just done to me.........


kisses..

Ohhhh love2kiss, that sounds about perfect.