Help me, I don't know how!

[BarrysSlut]

My Master has told me I must pee for Him in th eshower. I cant'!! I try and try adn my bladder is so full. But with Him standing in front of me I just can't make myself pee. He has ordered me to do this for Him but its just not happening. HOw can I train myself to pee for Him on His command?

 

[heckle]

It sounds as if this is something that you may have to slowly work up to. You are probably ashamed of doign this in front of him (or anyone else). Try starting off slowly by not closing the door when you use the bathroom. Then you can work up from there.

 

[CreativeSubmissions]

In general with the girl I am kinda dating,sometimes she had wanted me to piss in the toliet in front of her....even when she turns her back to me I feel uncomfortable...on doing so...Because one is so used to doing so with the door closed...I agree with the advice previously given to you.

 

[s'lara]

The primary restraint on this particular act is mental. While it may not be possible to let loose a stream of urine under the watchful eye of your Dominant, it might be possible to work up to it as has been suggested by others.

Try urinating with your Dominant in the bathroom. i think the main mental barrier is someone else seeing the urine leaving your body. If sitting on the toilet, it might be possible to allow the stream out. From there, steadily progress to the shower urination scene.

If your Dominant knows that you have trouble with it, i'd hope He/She would work you up to the final frontier and rejoice in your accomplishment once you've completed the task. Good luck.

lara

 

[MissTaken]

You could also try closing your eyes and forgetting he is there.

Or he could walk in on you while you are mid stream, so you get used to the idea.

Modesty can raise hell with a Dominant's wishes!

 

[Dstorage]

I think the first thing you need to work on is being able to pee standing up in the shower stall or bath tub with no water running. Start t do ALL your peeing that way. When you are able to do that comfortably you can work on doing it in front of your dom.

Right now it sounds like you have too many new variables going on to allow you to relax.

 

[Kajira Callista]

My Master has told me I must pee for Him in th eshower. I cant'!! I try and try adn my bladder is so full. But with Him standing in front of me I just can't make myself pee. He has ordered me to do this for Him but its just not happening. HOw can I train myself to pee for Him on His command?

Im thinking you shouldnt be training yourself to do anything. HE is trying to train you to do it so.....just do it? Seriously...remembering who you are doing it for and why you are doing it while you are trying will probably work. Drop whatever other thoughts or hangups stuck in your head at the moment and think of his wants.

 

[CreativeSubmissions]

I don't have much experience,but how does one trust her dom enough at a beginning in the relationship to know he is doing the right thing? I know once she submits completely...the trust shouldn'e be questioned,but what before hand?

 

[Kajira Callista]

I don't have much experience,but how does one trust her dom enough at a beginning in the relationship to know he is doing the right thing? I know once she submits completely...the trust shouldn'e be questioned,but what before hand?

i dont think peeing in the shower requires a whole lot of trust... maybe her Master wants to see if she responds to him commanding her to do something?

 

[CreativeSubmissions]

I can see both points of views,but to a newbie like myself...it may be kinda...tough and the submissive may be shy,...I know to a point it would be hard for myself. In my eyes a dom would have to be understanding about the needs I have involved within....I don't know both of the two people so I have nothing to be said.

 

[Etoile]

Ahhhh. Just over four years ago, I was in the same situation as the person who started this thread. For me, the shower is easy, I've peed in the shower my whole life and in front of my gf and Daddy and everything.

My challenge was to pee in a big plastic cup. (It's probably about 32oz.)

Daddy wanted me to do with em holding the cup, but I couldn't do that at first. In fact, I couldn't even do it with me holding the cup and em watching. So e let me hide behind a chair so e couldn't see, but e could hear. Even that was difficult - no matter how much I had to go, it would take more than 5 or 10 minutes to start the stream.

s'lara is right, it's a mental block. No matter how many times I told myself just pee dammit I could not do it. But finally over time, we worked up to it. I would say it took about six months (seeing each other only one or two weekends a month) for me to really be free of my inhibitions. Now, when I have to pee at Daddy's house, I fetch my cup and bring it for em to hold. E has told me that even if e's asleep I should wake em up for it. (E usually manages to hold it, but if not then I just hold it for myself.)

There's no hesitation now. It's a mental block that can be overcome.

As a bit of amusement, once e made me pee in my cup out in the hallway of eir apartment building. I was already used to peeing in front of em, but I was so nervous that time it took me a minute or two to start!