Hearts of concrete.

[Aquila]

Heres another wonderful question from you friendly inquisitive neanderthal.

I've noticed over the years, that it seems break ups seem to be less and less emotionally taxing on the people involved.

Im not saying that it is for all people, it just seems to be more common. for relationships to end, and the two parties.. just not care. as if, nothing happened, they lost nothing. by the end of the day they have already picked someone new out the herd.

Perhaps I'm a fool, but has emotional attachment become so dangerous now a days, that people don't even bother?

I don't know, maybe I just associate with people who don't form emotional bonds to the people their dating.

Have you noticed this? can you explain this? from your point of view. Or am I witnessing something unique.

 

[Guest]

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

I have had my share of break ups. I said "never again!" But one should never say never right? I trusted him. We moved half way across the country to start our lives together. Then, three months later he said he didn't love me like he thought I did and wants me and my children to move out. Long story short, I was CRUSHED! I love this man. I gave him my heart and soul. And now he tells me that his ex-g/f is moving in. What a blow that was. I was not even out of the house a week and he tells me that. Sorry I'm just a little upset over all this. The hard part is that he is the one who is showing no emotion about it. It's like Oh fucken well. It didn't work. Get over it. Hard to just get over someone you really love and want/ed to spend the rest of your life with. I have to agree with you. I think many people are turning off their emotions. I find that very sad. What a world they are missing.
Lil_mama

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

hanns

Damn Hanns, cant you just shut the fuck up for once!

 

[Guest]

Re: hanns

 

[Aquila]

Re: hanns

Damn Hanns, cant you just shut the fuck up for once!

Don't worry about hanns, he's/she's just a little prick that likes to speak shit behind the mask of anonymity. A truer coward never was before.

 

[Chuckus]

I can only speak from my personal experiences. So with that.....

IF I have to come to a place in a relationship where I decide it is time to cut bait and move along, I do that. I am cold hearted about it, albeit I do show that I did care and have respect but only to an extent. I am going to take care of me. Sorry if I piss you off but apparently it didn't get thru to you the first FIFTY times I ask you to do x, y or z or to not do x, y or z or that x, y or z are NO NO's. Once I have come to the conclusion that it is time to move along, I do. Usually out of the fact that I have been "out" of the relationship long before the actual breakup of said relationship.

I don't think it is any less taxing today than it was when I was 15, however I have learned how to cope and deal with it much better and quite honestly more efficently and effectively.

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

Hanns I do appoligise to you. Maybe I was a little harsh on a sack of shit like you. Hmmmm Why do I even bother with you.

 

[Guest]

 

[SpiceCake]

Re: Re: hanns

It was a question asking for opinions


On a public forum


It's my opinion, and I gave it

Step down


And shut your trap

C'mon Hanns - you didn't need to add the last sentence! You are entitled to your opinion, but there is no need to blast someone for theirs.

 

[Aquila]

SpiceCake your AV .... mmmmmmmmmmmmmm yesssss

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

lust?

Not even in your wildest dreams Hanns.

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

Spice Cake

It is rather tasty looking...Your av that is.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: hanns

 

[perks]

I have to agree with HS on this one.

You either exist or you live.

You don't stop doing something just because of a little growing pains. It means you're growing.

He's right, you know.

You either live life or you're just dying.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Huh...I think I've been dying all day then.

 

[perks]

Huh...I think I've been dying all day then.

does that mean you're not going to get emotionally attached ever again? because of the hurt? nooooo, that's not you, rainpie.

The fire burns hot both ways.

 

[Guest]

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Hanns baby I'm just fine.

Everything is just fucking fabulous.

I've fucked something up...hurts...but I'm gonna fix it.

Funny y'all think ya know the story...cause it isn't always the same.

 

[Guest]

 

[Aquila]

Im not speaking of growing pains...

It just amazes me, someone I've known for years, just up and left her boyfriend.. that by all accounts she was doing great with. for some guy she met over the weekend., didn't bat an eye.. confused the hell outa me.. specially when she used to coo over him like he was some sort of baby or something... I dunno.. I never liked the guy and Im actually kind of glad she dropped him, but Hey, doesnt mean it doesnt surprise me to see how she dumped him.

 

[alexandraaah]

Funny y'all think ya know the story...cause it isn't always the same.

Yeah.

I know how that happens.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I'm a potty mouth like that I can say I'm sorry...been doing it all day.

 

[HannsIsMyBitch]

Re: lust?

Not even in your wildest dreams Hanns.

You're so right. Hanns wildest dreams are of me giving it to him up the pooper hard and dry.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Yeah.

I know how that happens.

I've been thinking about you.