He wants to learn...

[lilevilpunk]

Please excuse me if I use incorrect terms, or onse that you find offensive. I am fairly new to all of this. My husband and I are very interested in the Master/Slave idea... I have alwasy wanted to at least try it so has hubby; however, we would like to learn more. My husband is in Iraq at the moment, he is supposed to come home in September. We would like to try this as soon as he comes home, or sooner if possible... So if anyone has any pointers can you please let me know.... Anything at all would be appreciated.

 

[graceanne]

Hello, and welcome. There are a billion and one threads about this, but I'd suggest starting at the BDSM Library, above. It's right above the 'Welcome to the BDSM forum' thread. It's very well organized. I'd also suggest you two fill out a limits list-type thing. I don't have a link for one, but I'm sure someone else does and will post it soon. Good luck.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hello, and welcome. There are a billion and one threads about this, but I'd suggest starting at the BDSM Library, above. It's right above the 'Welcome to the BDSM forum' thread. It's very well organized. I'd also suggest you two fill out a limits list-type thing. I don't have a link for one, but I'm sure someone else does and will post it soon. Good luck.

Yes, there are links to checklists in the library.

Catalina

 

[lilevilpunk]

thank you. I guess I should have paid a bit more attention to the rest of the forum.

 

[catalina_francisco]

thank you. I guess I should have paid a bit more attention to the rest of the forum.

Not at all....it takes time to get to know your way around, find things.....lol, even us regulars can't always find things we know are here sometimes. I think once more people are online you will get more helpful responses...and unfortunately my day is busy as well so I am not much help right now. You will find a lot though just by cruising the threads either in the library, or for even more, in the forum itself. You can go to the bottom of the forum page and select to see threads from the begining and they will al come up and you can read as much as you feel up to...it can be daunting in one big stretch, but there is a lot of good information there...and it often sparks more questions you might want to ask questions to. Enjoy.

Catalina

 

[His_pita]

I agree that the library is one of the best places to start with. I have learned so much through there and just doing lots of research at different sites through Google. Just remember its a very big topic so take what you like and leave the rest.