he just doesnt listen

[Kaito_Shinshi]

yeah,,,BUT the guy i wanted,,who doesnt want me is not an asshole...I know thats a knee-jerrk reaction to say hwen someone no longer wants you,..BUT I am trying to be fair.I love him with every cell of my being,he just doenst love me the way i love him....
I gotta stop being so nice about it huh?lol...nahhh

HUSBAND howver is a GIANT ASSHOLE,,,,
and yeah,,I am sure i will be single for quite a while...would not be fair to get involved with anyone right now......

I'm not saying the other guy is an asshole, I was more referring to me Sometimes guys just can't handle feeling for someone that's taken. I know I've felt the same way.

Don't worry to much about being single, you always have the 1,000's of Litsters that would drink your bathwater if you wanted em too lmao

 

[INeedLove]

THe other guy may have gotten cold feet when he realized you are truly close to leaving. Maybe he was excited by your marital status and cuckolding your husband. Sometimes the "untouchable" ones are more appealing so to speak.

Before you jump into the divorce boat, please do your research. I found some helpful articles on http://divorcesupport.about.com/. There is a forum for interaction too. Lots of knowledgeable people at that site (and some really bitter ones too). You need to fully understand your responsibilties and rights in the divorce process. Consulting with a lawyer is usually a good idea too (those blood sucking rodents).

Best wishes Sinn!

 

[sinnamongyrl]

THe other guy may have gotten cold feet when he realized you are truly close to leaving. Maybe he was excited by your marital status and cuckolding your husband. Sometimes the "untouchable" ones are more appealing so to speak.

Before you jump into the divorce boat, please do your research. I found some helpful articles on http://divorcesupport.about.com/. There is a forum for interaction too. Lots of knowledgeable people at that site (and some really bitter ones too). You need to fully understand your responsibilties and rights in the divorce process. Consulting with a lawyer is usually a good idea too (those blood sucking rodents).

Best wishes Sinn!

I dont know what to think about the other guy,,I told him I would wait for him...be his mistress,,anything at all...I just dont know...i did everything i thought he wanted.I would NEVER have asked more than he wanted to give.It just doesnt add up.....
BUT anyway.....have not clicked on that link yet,,,,i really dont want anything fron this marriage BUT OUT,,i dont want money,car anything....I want my clothes,books...music,,art supplies,,,thats IT..NOW,this JUST happend in the last 10 minutes of my life,,,now,,,,feeling like this may be harder than before..my husband is on the phone with his mother(she is hysterical...her 2nd husband(not my husband dad),,JUST left her,,,this morning,,,UGHHHHHHHH,,,,,,damn I wll seem like a cold hearted bitch if i leave now,,,ok,,i need a bit more time for money anyway,,,,,,,,,,,,,thanks once again!u guys are just so kind!

 

[Shadow Thief]

Thanks guys,,,I know I need to leave.I have been trying to save a liitle bit of money for a few months now.I tried last night,,one last time,,we were going out to eat.I thought it would be nice.I used some of the money i was saving(stupid girl)..and suggested we got out..get drinks,appetizers,,,the whole nine yards,,HE ENDS up SCREAMING at me on the way there.I kept my mouth shut,thinking it would help,,,and once we got home,,,he did it again...it is over,,,it is OVER,,NO MORE...I am fucking leaving.WHAT makes this an even harder time for me,,,I had met someone that I fell HEAD over heels for,,,MY GOD i wanted this man in ways i did not know were possible...physically,,,all of it,,,and he doesnt want me like that anymore.He says he cares for me,,,BUT we cnat be together as I had wished.I would have done ANYTHING for this man,,,and even he doesnt want me.I am not going to trash him or be mean.AND i wish i did not sound like such a whiney baby,,BUT I am just thinking how much more crap can i deal with right now?feel very much untwanted......unworthy,,unloved.....YES i have friends...but i need more than that.....i want the man i love,,i just cant have him....this sucks a LOT!

Damn, he sounds like he might be related to my ex. Not to be confused with my wife, who is generally a sweetheart, but not interested in sex these days.

I could tell you stories about my ex, but I'm already feeling a little nervous about the amount of personal info I've posted here. I know I haven't been here all that long, but if you want to talk, I'm only a PM away.

 

[In Anticipation]

I've only just seen this thread, I didn't know you had all this crap going on in your life. I have plenty to share about a marriage ending, like you I got to the point where I couldn't stand it any longer and didn't want any money, just needed to get out. However, in the end my ex agreed to go to mediation with me, and we worked out a fair agreement. As a result I have a home for my children . . .

So don't give up what's yours, I know there will be plenty of pain involved. Feel free to PM me, I really feel for you . . .