Having doubts????

[Guest]

I met this guy I really like online. We met and we hit it off sexually and I thought wed see each other again. The first week after I left I assumed hed wanna see me again also. When I discovered he was talking to someone elce. Who he ended up flying out to see him for a weekend. Anyhow I ended up getting jealous and going on a date with someone elce. Which ended up to be a bad expierence for me. When I got home there were messages from him on my machine. He called me the next day and wanted to drive down to see me. I really like him and wanted to see him again so I did. The thing is he mentioned the date he had several times. Told me about how she wants it to be if she was in a relationship. And today I heard about how they made love. I know I have no reason to be jealous its just so did we. He told me he was gonna tell her were seeing each other. but of last night he hadnt and even if he did or didnt I never know. Am I being foolish or am I right in having doubts?

 

[Wiggles]

In my opinion, this dudes a jackass. You don't need to put up with that. Even if you have no commitments or deals worked out he shouldn't be telling you about all this stuff. That's just in bad taste.

Just imagine what he's telling her.

If I was in your situation I'd have his number blocked off my telephone, and his emails sent back. I couldn't deal with being an option. I'd just explain the situation to him once, and that would be it.

Of course by this point you've led him to believe it's ok for him to behave this way. I guess it's all about what you're willing to put up with.

 

[thumbs2_ca]

yes

Add another vote to the jack ass column.
I agree with Wiggles, even without a committment telling you about his love life is not just bad taste it shows no respect for your feelings.
How affectionate and caring do you think he will be if it turns out that you do have a long term relationship if he is that thoughtless over this.
just my two cents.

 

[LukkyKnight]

You always have the right to be jealous, the question isn't about your rights. Being jealous is a manifestation of what you find threatens a relationship - right or wrong it's how you feel.

As for the guy, he's being pretty up front it seems, but he's not somebody who sounds well-matched to you based on what you've said. Dump the jackass, he's already made it plain that he wants to have his Kate and Edith too (sorry, bad pun, but you get the idea.)

 

[newmember]

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