To each their own IMHO. A lot of men here does seem to enjoy their significant one's oast experiences ummmm I included but if your husband hates it let's just say dislikes hearing anything about yours then that shows he's human and unlike the usual perverted minds here haaaaaa
Seems like he might be a little jealous. I was the same when I was younger, but I’ve matured (or maybe just got more kinky) and I love hearing her sex stories when we’re making love. Like to hear what turns her on, her favorite experiences. Maybe we can duplicate them. I want to hear what makes her a satisfied lover.
My thoughts exactly. When i was younger I was jealous and would have preferred she was a virgin when we got together. Over the years, I've become more secure and kinkier and would prefer that she was much more of a slut in the past and would love nothing more than an endless string of sexy tales from her past. In my case it was everything to do with my comfort and security in our relationship.
Perhaps i'm stating the obvious, but for some guys (me included,) the thought isn't "her pussy is physically stretched," but rather more emotional...the intimacy she's shared with other guys. Because for some men, sex is as much (or more) emotional than physical. Some men would say (as you have) "get over your insecurities." That's probably easier said than done, and I wouldn't judge guys who are insecure and have struggled with jealousy. Your comment "...enjoy your parnter....(that's) what made her that way" is a very valid comment. It's just a more difficult place for some to get to than others.
My wife does not tell me about her sexual past I ask her I would love to hear it would be so hot but she will not I start to tell her she also gets mad
Really? The guy has mental health issues because he doesn't want to hear about his wife fucking other guys?
So get over it.
As perverted and twisted as I am, and those I chat with on here would attest to that, this is one of the most appalling posts I've ever read. If you really think of your partner as just a "used" pussy, you're the one who needs help.
I wasn’t talking about fucking anyone or a past relationship. As I said.
At first, I did not want to hear about her past lovers. After awhile, I decided to go for it and listen to them. After 31 yrs of marriage, it really turns me on thinking about her past lovers. Some of them are eye openers!! Give him some time, hopefully not 31 yrs, but soon.
Oh, I agree with you 100%. That is disgusting in my book also. However, many men, no make that little boys, think that way, and need to be told in a language they understand, that it is totally irrelevant how many partners your spouse or lover, or fiancee' has had before you. Remember, we are dealing with immature males here, for the most part. We both know that who we are is the sum total of our experiences, both good and bad, and the person he is in love with, or married to, is the sum total of that. Men who do not understand that are living in a fantasy world.
My G/F and I have been together for 17+ years. Both are divorced with two grown adults each. She is 100% Vanilla which is fine with me, so we have never discussed our past sexual adventures. Recently while on an anniversary vacation trip with WAY too much alcohol involved, I got her to blow me on the balcony of our hotel room around 1:00 AM. She sucked me like a twenty dollar whore and swallowed very drop, something usually reserved only for my birthday!
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