Hairpin Trigger

[Dracona]

I was having a discussion this morning on the quickness of a person's orgasm and the relation to how long it's been since their last one. I have a theory that the longer it's been between orgasms the less time it takes to reach one.

For instance, some men say that if it's been a while since they've been with a partner that they will masturbate before actual sex so that they will last longer. The same can be said of women. I find that the longer I go in between orgasms the faster one comes on when I actually get to have sex, or even if I go long periods of time between masturbating (normally three days would be a long time in my book!)

So I wanted to conduct a poll and see what other people thought. Here are the options:

1. It takes longer to reach orgasm if I have sex/masturbate regularly.

2. I have a hairpin trigger and orgasm quickly if it's been a while since I've had sex/masturbated.

Feel free to add an explanation of your answer, or comment even if you don't vote on the poll. I really am scientifically curious.

 

[00Syd]

Both options imply the other. They are complimentary opposites. Essentially, they mean the same thing. similar to "heads I win, Tales you lose."

I would assume that both options are true for anyone for whom a single option is true.

Can you re-word what exactly you mean?

 

[rosco rathbone]

I reach orgasm quickly at all times. I'm a champion of that.

 

[Dracona]

well crap...can't edit polls?

Okay....scratch this one and let's see if I can get this worded right the second time around.

 

[the captians wench]

If it's been a while, I tend to hang on to the feeling and not allow myself to cum quickly. When I talk a while, I'm talking weeks (sometimes giving orgasm control to a sadist can bite you in the ass).

But then, I also have a trigger. I've been programed to cum on comand, this too has bit me in the ass a few times.

I remember one playdate, it had been over a month since I'd been touched by another, and I'm not allowed to play by myself. While this playmate was working me, I got to the edge, and I was really enjoying that feeling of riding the edge. He instructed me to tell him when I was ready to cum, sensing that I was riding this wave I imagine, and I agreed. A few minutes more and he pulls my trigger word and I'm a pile of orgasmic goo.

If I know I'm going to get to cum again in a short amount of time, I'm a quick cum. If I know it's going to be a while, then I tend to ride the edge and fully enjoy every moment of the act as well as a killer orgasm. But then throw in my trigger and I can have a 3 from a "dry start" or a 10 with a little build up so I'm potentially a quick cum all of the time.

jounar says the reason he keeps me with weeks between orgasms is because he wants me to enjoy them more. And I guess it's worked. I didn't used to ride the wave, I'd go right for the goal.

 

[Sayyid]

It's not when I had sex last but when I orgasmed last. If I've masturbated recently, I can last quite a long time. I'm pretty good at that from lots of practice.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I've found the more I masturbate or have sex the quicker I orgasm. Without either for a long time it takes a while to warm up.

 

[CurlyKat]

I've found the more I masturbate or have sex the quicker I orgasm. Without either for a long time it takes a while to warm up.

Yep, most definitely.

 

[WriterDom]

With condoms I can last a long time. Might not even cum. My ex could make me cum with her mouth even if it was the 6th of the day. So I kind of enjoyed fucking her until she came and then cumming in her mouth. An orgasm is an orgasm to me no matter what hole I cum in.

Back in high school I didn't last long with a condom on. Made up for it with oral skills.

 

[kitten_candy]

I've found the more I masturbate or have sex the quicker I orgasm. Without either for a long time it takes a while to warm up.

totally agree with this. which is why i'm a big fan of the ruined O. deny me that orgasm, please, so it will go on and on. and on.

 

[SimonBrooke]

I was having a discussion this morning on the quickness of a person's orgasm and the relation to how long it's been since their last one. I have a theory that the longer it's been between orgasms the less time it takes to reach one.

I think you're just wildly wrong. I think you are thinking of young men, and of young men only.

For a lot of women, their first orgasm in a session takes a bit of work, but each successive one comes quicker, so that if she can handle it and her partner puts the work in eventually it just becomes a drumroll and she can't tell where one ends and the next starts.

Older men (that's me, I know what I'm talking about here) come much more slowly anyway and are unlikely to orgasm more than once or twice in a session. But I really don't think that it makes much difference how long it is since I last had sex or masturbated.

 

[YourCaptor]

Actually for older people it appears sexual desires dissipate if not exercised.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Can't say I've seen much of a correlation. It depends far more on my/our mood and the nature of the scene.

Incidentally, how is this a BDSM question?

 

[SimonBrooke]

Actually for older people it appears sexual desires dissipate if not exercised.

Speak for yourself

 

[kiss_of_sin]

well, i orgasm more quickly by playing with myself if i havent in awhile. but when it comes to sex and penetration i orgasm just as quickly if i have or havent been playing with myself.