Guys, is this true?

[Guest]

I would hate that. To me 1/2 of sex is emotional. Emotionally I have pre-conceived notions of masculine and feminine roles. I'm a dominant male by nature, having anything up my butt would totally wreck my groove.

And why do gay/bi men always call it homophobia and make you feel like being a man is just a feeling you'll get over?

Dude this is me, that's you. This is my concept of manhood and womanhood. I really resent that whole argument that "if you've never taken one in the butt, you're not open minded."

Don't put people down for enjoying traditional gender roles, some of us are old fashioned and like it that way.

That would be like me saying you're a girly man for liking it in the keister. Of course I think it, but I'm polite enough not to say it. Perhaps you should extend totally straight males the same courtesy, whether or not you think they'll "get over the macho guy charade."

Believe it or not, for some of us it's not a charade.

My name is Greg, I'll register later.

 

[jamor9]

Don't know about all guys, BUTT...

I enjoy it when a woman puts her finger in my ass, before and during head. It enhances it for me.

 

[chewbacca71]

My wife has done that for me a few times and I have to say that it is very pleasurable. It made me cumm like there was no tommorow. Just my two cents. Chewey

 

[eroticfiction]

Thanks for the imput guys....

 

[clamtickler]

Finger in ass during oral!

Absolutely the best! This makes me cum twice as hard and shoot out twice as much cum! The best when cumming on my lovers face!!

 

[rambling man]

I love having a finger pumping my ass, it gives me a very submissive and vulnerable feeling that is wonderful

 

[Jewelz]

Im a bit reserved about putting my finger in his ass but I know it is a turn on for him. It is close to their g-spot and makes an orgasm very intense. So the other night, I was giving him a yummy blowjob...when I decided to try my vibe on him....just the tip of it while I went down on him....he came sooo hard...it was the first time I swallowed him too....wont be the last now! I like my ass played with if he is gentle!

 

[Space Wrangler]

jumping on the butt bandwagon

Oh yes... both from personal experience and physiological knowledge, getting a finger inserted into my ass prior to cumming is both an incredible turn on and makes me cum much harder and more. The prostate gland is part of the semen production system and is also surrounded by muscles, so a little prodding of the glad just before cumming in essence "primes the pump" and send the load screaming down and out... and who amongst us wouldn't like a little extra power in the piston... lol

I hope that wasn't too clinical to detract from the overall intent of this thread...

maybe it would help to finish this by saying...
having a finger stuck up my ass turns me into a raving maniacal fuck machine that cums like a goddamn steam engine...

 

[thonger]

I am a male who has a love for panties and anal sex. I love it when my girlfriend dresses me in panties had plays with my ass. She even bought a strap on and has used it on me. Sometimes we have to experiment alittle and try new things before we really know what out limitations are.

 

[cherrylips_au]

I don't think all men enjoy it as I know when I first tried it with my partner he had no interest in it at all. Now he enjoys it as part of our sexual repertoire not only during oral sex either.
I found if you go slow to introduce it, use lots of lube and be gentle it can be enjoyable.It's the same with women an anal, not everyone will enjoy it.
Find out by asking or talking about the subject beforehand helps, or just gentle caressing during sexual play without any penetration will give you an idea of if the other person would enjoy it.

 

[dizzy]

Talk about it....

I've had several women try that on me but I've been uncomfortable everytime. I guess I'm just old fashioned but I'm cumming around to the notion because I like to study sex and I know I'll get a much more powerful orgasm. IMHO though, everybody should talk about sex before you have it for the first time (or introduce new ideas to a mature relationship) and that includes asking the guy if he'd like to try it first. I also agree you have to be quite comfortable with your partner. Hope this helped.

-Dizzy

 

[Falkieri]

I enjoy it immensely when I'm in the mood for it. Which is probably true for most things with most people. I wouldn't say that having a finger in there makes it better, just different.

 

[increase]

I would'nt have it any other way.put that digit in from the start ,please. Head goes good with everything,but taken it up the ass is the best.

 

[tb123]

Up for it, too

Finger over here, too, please!

It's a nice sensation, wouldn't want to miss it.
I'm glad to have found a girl that likes to do (and receive it) it too.

 

[toysrfun]

I love it!

I absolutely love having my ass played with. One of my favorite lovers is very good at it. She will lightly run her wet finger up and down the crack of my ass teasing me a little. Usually I will arch back trying to get it inside me. She has also used a small vibrator, a dildo and of course a strap on on me. I love them all! She goes absolutely crazy when I lick her ass. She also like me to insert a well lubricated thumb in her ass when I am fucking her doggy style.

She never asked me about it before hand but the first time she came near my ass she knew (from my moans) that I loved it.

Toys

 

[eroticfiction]

Y'all, Thanks for the imput.

 

[Daeth_Harrick]

As with anything new and out of the ordinary realms of "Normal Sexual Activity" (IE what the Catholiuc Church considers acceptable Sex) needs to be approached with consideration for everyone involved. Think back ladies to the first time some horny guy brushed your anus for the first time... how did you react??? Did you tense up some??? Well Same goes for guys... Take it slow and easy and let them get used to it a bit at a time...

 

[Rumwoman]

I have used a small vibrator in guys ass while sucking their cock and they cummmmmmmm forever..........mmmmmm nice big loads

 

[Mike2697]

For me I do enjoy a finger in the ass while receiving head. It helps me in my orgasm. Also when we do it 'doggie style' and I'm close I like her to push the heal of her foot against my ass. Really helps for a more powerful orgasm for both of us.

Mike

 

[eroticfiction]

Thanks Mike

 

[Linedrive]

Raising our hands

Fans of ass play here.

 

[Rumwoman]

For me I do enjoy a finger in the ass while receiving head. It helps me in my orgasm. Also when we do it 'doggie style' and I'm close I like her to push the heal of her foot against my ass. Really helps for a more powerful orgasm for both of us.

Mike

I have never heard of the heel thing but can't wait to try it. I love a man secure enough in his own sexuality to experiment and try new things!

 

[Screenwriter]

I would love it if my woman tried that. I've hinted for her to try it, but she is too puritan about it. I say,... Go for it!

 

[girlincrisis]

i think a lot of straight men are inhibited in the area of ass play. probykl cuz they' ve been sent the message that to like it, is to have your masculinity questioned. now of course this is pure bunk, but i have a lot of guy friends who would NEVER let a woman touch them there. it's too bad really cuz that's where the male g-spot is!!!
i had one boyfriend who LOVED having his ass played with and he told me that one of the best orgams he ever had was when i used my fingers on him while we were fucking. so i dunno...i think more guys should give it a go. i mean it's hard to find it pleasureable unless you relax. i say, don't knock it til you've tried it.

 

[eroticfiction]

Thanks gor your imput.

Thank you