Guys, is this true?

[dallas45daddy]

too intense for me...

Personally, I find that that it hurts to have a finger up my ass and cum at the same time. Here's what I like...to have the lady tease my asshole with her wet finger while she's giving me a hum job.

You women may like the same thing while your man is going down on you. Well, that's my humble opinion.

 

[on_the_verge]

Insert gently…here------>>>

Occasionally I finger myself in the shower for pleasure and to make sure I am clean in all the "right" places. Sometimes I will lick my fingers and apply saliva to it. Then I would work circles around the rim of my anus, while masturbating.

I have a lover that has fingered my ass for play and to give back what I do to her—eye for an eye, ha! —In addition, she has even inserted a cucumber there, although that was a bit painful my first time and has not been repeated since. There is something about the right moment(s) when she would lick my ass to my balls and then play with my rim before inserting *a* finger in. I do not believe it makes me orgasm, yet, but I am open to new experiences in our experimenting or sessions.

Does it make me gay or the perception of it? Hardly not, but most men who have enjoyed it are not so readily to admit it. Personally, I am waiting to fulfill a fantasy, as some have, to be taken by my lover with a strap on lavender dildo.

 

[Quisath]

Isn't it called Milking?

I am aware of this and I myself have not had it done, but done properly I've heard it gives tremendous orgasms in Men and Women. Massaging the prostrate is all that is being done, but like I said, it requires KNOWHOW.

 

[Guest]

Iv'e always found it to be incredibly erotic, though the first time I was a bit hesitant. I have found many women to have their most intense orgasms anally.

 

[on_the_verge]

Iv'e always found it to be incredibly erotic, though the first time I was a bit hesitant. I have found many women to have their most intense orgasms anally.

I can relate to that. I have a lover that never enjoyed anal sex, but she allowed me to pleasure her that way. <<skipping over cock size and foreplay for the sake of shortness in my post>> It was the fact that she enjoyed my cock in her ass, the moment and that I was entering her like a bull bucking—I also fingered her clit while I was sawing into her and she came like crazy, relatively typing.

 

[floridaguy64]

Only if..................

A friend of mine told me that ALL men like it when a woman is sucking a man's cock, she puts a finger in his ass when he is about to cum... Are there men out there who would be offended or disgusted by this practice....Or is it true, that they ALL like it?

And what is an acceptable way of finding out if a guy likes it? Do you just ask? Try it? If he likes it, will he ask me to do it? What is the proper protocall in that situation? Imput please...........

ONLY IF I AM COMFORTABLE WITH THE FEMALE AT THE TIME IT IS HAPPENING.

There have been times where that has happened and the woman was gently probing as I came............ very exiting indeed!\

Other times, the woman needed to trim her nails...... or was too into getting me back for past wrongs to her, by being WAY to insistent, for me to recieve any pleasure from the experience.

EASY ANSWER LADIES...................

Would you enjoy a forceful anal probe?

Neither do we!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[charlien]

I certainly do!

Sometimes, seldomly actually, I'll penetrate my ass while masturbating. It's just not the same as ones lover doing so, particularly unexpectedly. The forbiddeness, the intimacy it suggests adds tremendously to the moment.

I've engaged in ass play with most all my lovers over the past 20 or so years, most were receptive, a couple to the degree where my cock ended up where my finger or tongue had been.

Posted a story recounting a particular evening a couple of years ago, "Erin's massage", some slight embellishment but factually accurate. Written shortly after it occured and it's just sat in my computers memory for a couple of years now. After seeing this thread it seemed like time to share it. Other than Erin I don't think anyone else has read it.

charlie

 

[redblooded]

Bring it on...... love it

 

[RAPIDROY]

The question has been pretty well answered, but I thought I'd add my 2 cents worth of experience into the conversation. Everyone is different and enjoys different stimulation. And for sure the mind and what baggage a sex partner brings along will greatly influence their likes and dislikes. I think the key is communication either by talking or by responses. But one fact is for sure, the anal zone is loaded with nerve endings and if the giver is patient and works slow and makes sure they use plenty of lubricant just about every person I know learns to love anal play.My wife and I will normally start out by rimming each other and work up to penetration from there. And my wife can and has made me explode by just massaging my prostrate with her finger,and guys if you ever explore this you'll see what you've been missing. one word of warning , start small! the experience is supposed to be pleasureable, not a contest to see who can take the biggest object in their ass!

 

[eroticone_44]

not there!!!!

if a woman is going to give me oral sex, just keep doing it long....deep....slow....and look me in the eyes. No finger in my butt, I would prefer to touch the side of your face and hold onto your other hand..........

 

[truecelt2]

Fingers etc -back there??

I would have said no as a youth - hangups and all
but when pleasantly surprised my a roaming tongue -and then her finger once i was realxed -and in her mouth -
WOW - yes bring it on - still enjoy it many years yon.
it's all about pleasure -not labels.

 

[armyjim_2000]

An interesting question...

One with no real easy answer...

Personally, if she doesn't trust me to do to her what she wishes to do to me....then no. But (and in this case the pun is intended),maybe a little tip wouldn't hurt too much....I haven't tried it since I was overseas...that time, I was pretty drunk, and I won't go into it for brevity's sake.

It all depends on the situation.

 

[Silkluvr]

Only like it if it is in the shower and I am very soapy!

 

[Guest]

I like it, but not all the time. My wife has long slim fingers and is able to gently massage my prostrate. She can make me cum without touching my cock. It's not like any other orgasm, I just flow and flow and .....incredible really !

 

[on_the_verge]

A good manicure *doesn't* hurt either…make and female.

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Easy does it

A little digital stimulation is definately a turn on during oral...take it slow and easy and find out what you partner likes. But how do I get my lover to try it more often? hehehe

 

[Ekim321]

Absolutely ! I love it when a woman does that, but like someone else said, make sure you have a nice manicure before hand.

When lacking company, I've even done myself while masturbating in the shower. A soapy finger in the ass doubles the pleasure of my climax.

 

[on_the_verge]

Suds of fire

Absolutely ! I love it when a woman does that, but like someone else said, make sure you have a nice manicure before hand.

When lacking company, I've even done myself while masturbating in the shower. A soapy finger in the ass doubles the pleasure of my climax.

Having a soapy finger depends on ones' sensitivity to soaps and the kind of soaps. Please use a test strip before you find that your partner ends with a burning sensation that might need some jets of water to flush the irritants out. The anus *can* be a gentle area.

 

[xxsxx]

hi

Hi I tryed it a couple of times on my boy friend and the first time he said he didnt like it even tho it made him come inmediatly so I tryed it aagain like a week later and then he additted that he did like it aslong as it was one finger and only the tip. And he likes having his ass likked wich I once did on a dare seeing as we were doing a 69 with me on top and he kept poking my ass with his tongue wich I hate so he wanted to know what was so bad about it and dared me to do it to him. Anyway I think most guys do like it but just dont like admitting it.

 

[Ventoso]

Re: hi

Hi I tryed it a couple of times on my boy friend and the first time he said he didnt like it even tho it made him come inmediatly so I tryed it aagain like a week later and then he additted that he did like it aslong as it was one finger and only the tip. And he likes having his ass likked wich I once did on a dare seeing as we were doing a 69 with me on top and he kept poking my ass with his tongue wich I hate so he wanted to know what was so bad about it and dared me to do it to him. Anyway I think most guys do like it but just dont like admitting it.

Just one question, my dear xxsxx: Why do you hate having your ass licked? And do you like to have your pussy licked?

 

[GreenEyedGirl]

Most of my lovers have allowed me to do this for them and they all enjoyed it. Clipped fingernails are absolutely neccessary as is much saliva or some lube. If you put very gentle pressure on the prostrate gland while sucking their cock and using your other hand on the shaft, he will have a GRAND time and a Grand orgasm. But I do recomend that you discuss it and make sure that he washed. A finger full of shit does not turn me on.

 

[sexyspank]

We are all individuals with individual tastes.Get to know your lover and what you can do for them that excites them.







wendy

 

[Smiley777]

*raises hand*

I second what Wendy said.

 

[wildrose70]

this is something I have never done or really had done...for some reason I have this phobia....that hole is used for other things...I dont think I want my fingers in there!! Maybe I'm wrong...might be interesting but only if it was totally clean!!!!

 

[Jacqui]

Hi to everyone
I think if you are doubtfull, just start by tickling around the circumference of the ass and see the reaction...favourable will be a wriggling onto your fingers and an unfavourable would be a negative type of flinching..
My husband starts to moan and push back onto me so I guess in his case its nice.
Most men will allow anything once they trust you with their sexuality.