Guys, Is this a Myth?

juicylips

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Blue Balls syndrome.

What I had always heard is that you can become extremely discomforted and even in pain if aroused and unable to cum.

I always thought guys just said that so they could fuck me, but I have wondered if that is true?

Any stories? :D
Cassidy
 
No, blue balls is not a myth. It occurs when a man approaches orgasm, and then it doesn't occur. Excrutiatingly painful as it may be, it does happen. Not all men will experience this, and I feel for the men that do.

Quickest way to give a man blue balls, if you're malicious enough, is to bring him to the edge, and then just walk away from him.
 
well don't know if that's blue ball syndrom casue it isn't the balls that hurt.

but yes if too arounsed hurts like hell.

but I don't think fucking some girl is the only answer. cause i've yet to.

I think you've been tricked Juicy. but if it works. come over my place I don't want to get blue ball syndrom eather :D
 
BlkPnthr said:
No, blue balls is not a myth. It occurs when a man approaches orgasm, and then it doesn't occur. Excrutiatingly painful as it may be, it does happen. Not all men will experience this, and I feel for the men that do.

Quickest way to give a man blue balls, if you're malicious enough, is to bring him to the edge, and then just walk away from him.

Well...damn. I think I must have caused that a few times.:devil:

I never thought of myself as malicious, though. I think a man gets hard way before a woman even knows if she is interested in sex with him. That opinion has been debated on here before. :)

Cassidy:kiss:
 
My worst case of 'blue balls' ...

was in college. A group of us was travelling back to school after the winter break. We went to see Saturday Night Fever if I recall. The gals were staying in a hotel room, and I was sleeping in the camper shell of my pick-up. So, this friend claims that the girls are being too noisy to sleep, so she comes out to the camper so she can get some rest. Well, she was looking for more than rest, but less than a home run. Somewhere after rounding third base, she put the brakes on. I pleaded and begged and cajoled, but to no avail.

I could hardly walk for two weeks. LOL. Oh what a night....
 
While my posts on informative threads are based on facts, not everything I say is factualy. SOmetimes it's opinion, and you're more than welcome to do a search on it :) As far as I can tell, what I stated above is one way to cause blue balls. The cure for it is simple release. Ejaculation will relieve the pressure and ease the pain, though it can be extremely difficult while in such agonizing pain.
 
juicylips said:
Blue Balls syndrome.

What I had always heard is that you can become extremely discomforted and even in pain if aroused and unable to cum.

I always thought guys just said that so they could fuck me, but I have wondered if that is true?

Any stories? :D
Cassidy

I guess it depends on the guy. It happened a couple of times in high school to me, but it wasn't what I would call "painful". Just....frustrating :)

And the need to jerk off becomes pretty strong :p
 
Re: Re: Guys, Is this a Myth?

gleam said:


I guess it depends on the guy. It happened a couple of times in high school to me, but it wasn't what I would call "painful". Just....frustrating :)

And the need to jerk off becomes pretty strong :p
What you experienced wasn't blue balls, I assure you. When you get it, you'll know it. It hurts like a bitch.
 
I conceived my first child at 17 because I fell for the blue balls thang. He said that if he didnt get relief he would get this condition. :rolleyes:
 
BlkPnthr said:
While my posts on informative threads are based on facts, not everything I say is factualy. SOmetimes it's opinion, and you're more than welcome to do a search on it :) As far as I can tell, what I stated above is one way to cause blue balls. The cure for it is simple release. Ejaculation will relieve the pressure and ease the pain, though it can be extremely difficult while in such agonizing pain.

Cumming helps but it doesn't always relieve the pain. The pain can last for several hours afterwards.
I know.
 
naughty girl

Yes blue balls are real.
They can last from a few minutes to a few days

In one respect a woamn that causes them is naught.

In another respect a man that has not learned control is missing a world of pleasure.

I would suggest tantric.

Richard
From Michigan
 
navarre said:


Cumming helps but it doesn't always relieve the pain. The pain can last for several hours afterwards.
I know.
I said it'd ease the pain....not take it away :p
 
Re: naughty girl

Richard49 said:
Yes blue balls are real.
They can last from a few minutes to a few days

In one respect a woamn that causes them is naught.

In another respect a man that has not learned control is missing a world of pleasure.

I would suggest tantric.

Richard
From Michigan

A man who believes in controlling himself? Wow. I am impressed. Feel free to tell me more.:)

Welcome to Lit.;)

Cassidy:kiss:
 
A man that believes in self control

Cassidy

I sent U a PM.

I can onluy speak for me...no other males or anyone else in the human race <smile>.

1) How can U build and empire......be a Dom.....enjoy maxium pleasure...including sexual if U can not control yourself?

2) This male has learned...thanks to some very wonderful women that have been in my life...that a male cn cum without ejackulating

3) Tantric helps <grin>

Richard
Michigan
ask@gtii.com
 
Blueballs are not a myth.

I get it all the time. Last time was yesterday afternoon while reading e-mail.

The worst cases for me are after prolonged make-out and petting sessions. Driving home, feeling every goddamned bump in the pavement.

I wonder if this is the same kind of ache women get in their breasts when full of milk?
 
All I gotta say is that blue balls hurts like hell when you get it.
 
*psst Richard*

Just a small word of advice ...

It's best to spell out words fully and use proper grammar in this forum. Unlike chat, the short cut approach might impair your credibility.

You seem to be a knowledgeable person, and your thoughts will be welcome here. I would hate for you to be invalidated because of disliked technicalities.

Welcome to Lit.
 
Spelling

Cherry,

Thank you for the advice.

I am working on making the transition to the culture of these boards. <smile>

Spelling..well...that is another issue.....
There was study done of 4th grade boys....it found that those boys that has issues with spelling either became criminals as adults or entrpreneurs.

I was founder and three term president of the National Asso of Entrepreneurs <smile>

My typing is worse than my spelling <bigger grin>

Thank you for the welcome and advice.

Richard
 
Of course, we all make typos and spelling errors (especially when tired or aggravated).

Keep in mind, a lot of the posters on this forum are also authors ... so the "U" thing (etc) becomes a bone of contention for readers.

Glad that you decided on the "entreprenuer" thing ... hate to see that cute <smile> in stripes!
 
Back to subject ...

question ...

Are "blue balls" really blue? Do they look that way? Or, is that just an expression?
 
Maybe

Some of the posters have said that they have experienced "Blue balls", However I have not so i guess I'm not much help. However I have experienced painfull ache if I have cum too often in a short period, say 4 times in a 12 hour period.

Hope that helps.
 
Re: Maybe

Tim1 said:
Some of the posters have said that they have experienced "Blue balls", However I have not so i guess I'm not much help. However I have experienced painfull ache if I have cum too often in a short period, say 4 times in a 12 hour period.

Hope that helps.
Damn, that sounds like a handicap Tim. I pitty you...sincerely. I've never had blue balls either, but looked into it as to decrease the possibility of it ever happening.
 
Re: Back to subject ...

Cherry said:
question ...

Are "blue balls" really blue? Do they look that way? Or, is that just an expression?
I believe it's a figure of speech Cherry :D
 
Re: Re: Maybe

BlkPnthr said:
Damn, that sounds like a handicap Tim. I pitty you...sincerely. I've never had blue balls either, but looked into it as to decrease the possibility of it ever happening.

It's ok I rarely have the problem. I've been married 25 years. Cuming 4 times in 12 hours hasn't happen in quite a while...lol
 
LMAO I hope that doesn't happen to me when I finally marry the woman I am with :D

*Shudders at the thought*
 
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