Guys... how do you feel about your current SO's exes?

[LucyH]

Some straight guys in online forums that I read say that they don't like to think of their girlfriend or wife with their exes. Like if she's really fantastic at something in bed, he just doesn't want to know where she learned to do that. I'm sure that's not always the case, but I see it a lot in the corners of the Internet that I visit.

Anyway, I'm curious - Is the same true of gay guys? Or what about bi guys? Any difference between how you feel about it re: women vs. men? And hey, any women want to weight in while we're at it?

It is important to me to collect sufficient data so that my evil alien overlords can infiltrate human civilizations effectively, so any insight would be appreciated.

 

[pcarp]

Well Lucy, since no one else will answer your question, I will.

First of all I am secure enough that I do not care about any of my current or past girlfriends ex's. I have ex's. My ex-wife had ex's. My ex-g/f had ex's and my current g/f has some too. So what? If someone is that insecure they probably don't have a SO to begin with.

Now, having said all of that. My g/f and I have engaged in several threesomes in the past. We started with FFM and progressed along to MMF. Our current regular male partner is an ex of hers. In my case I guess you could say I don't have a problem with her sleeping with her ex......since she only does it with my permission and my participation.

I hope this data will assist with your alien infestation.

 

[Chrissi]

How do I feel about my BF's exes?

Well, he was married to a woman at one time, I don't mind that, but for obvious reasons we just don't care too much about discussing it (very acrimonious divorce, not related to his sexuality).

As for some of my exes and some of his male exes....well we have slept with some of the more normal and stable ones that we are still friendly with if that helps answer your question. So any techniques get shared first hand, or....well you get the idea

The other exes that were a bit clingy or less stable, well, we just disassociate with them and really don't discuss anything.

To be complete in answering, the topic really never comes up for discussion.

hugs
Topher

 

[Etoile]

Like Topher, many of the gay guys I know have slept with each other's exes and stuff.