Guys, Haven't done anal yet but want to....Fears?
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cubbyfire04
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My biggest fear, despite plenty of experience, is being on top. No matter how clean I know I am, I have a hard time enjoying it for fear of an accident. You know... It's the only position where gravity isn't on your side.
I've had surgery there years ago and the experience was so painful, I am so afraid of anal. I know that I would enjoy it. I want to know what a woman feels when she takes in a cock or another man's feeling when he gets fucked. I really want to experience that.
The advice I always give newbies is get yourself a dildo and some lube so you can practice by yourself. The sphincter muscle needs to learn to handle incoming traffic. After that you can graduate to the real thing.
I don’t have any fears except the fear of not seeing my girlfriend for a while. I miss her lovely cock and the nice creamy cum she gives me.
You can make it happen, I am sure.
CuriousMind68
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Lots of fears, disease and injury top the list. Very curious too though.
nassauguy_2001
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It's similar to getting to Carnegie Hall... Practice, Practice, Practice. Get a few different sized vibrators / dildos and lots of lube!
Well said. By the time I took my first real cock, my ass was ready for service.
pepperjacket1
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Looking for guys to give me anal too, been way too long since a had a nice hard cock in me.
Astroman72
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Never been with a guy, but I've used dildos and toys for many years. My experience:
Trying to insert something too big, too quickly, without enough lube = awful and unpleasant
Going very slowly, gradually, and with LOTS of lube = awesome and pleasurable
Trying to insert something too big, too quickly, without enough lube = awful and unpleasant
Going very slowly, gradually, and with LOTS of lube = awesome and pleasurable
tattoosandyoga
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my fear is that i can’t relax enough to open up. i’m super tight
tattoosandyoga
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easier said than done lol
creative1772
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i am by no means an expert...
but my advice would be to make sure you are very clean, very relaxed, very lubed, very patient, and very well practiced...
if those bases are covered, your natural excitement should be more than enough to make sure that you have an enjoyable time
but my advice would be to make sure you are very clean, very relaxed, very lubed, very patient, and very well practiced...
if those bases are covered, your natural excitement should be more than enough to make sure that you have an enjoyable time
tattoosandyoga
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that sounds amazing
Really? Haven’t bigger things than a regular sized cock come out of your ass? It’s just a matter of training the sphincter muscle to accept incoming traffic.
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tattoosandyoga
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i haven’t really thought of it like that
writerzblok92
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Being clean enough and diseases are always fears that scare me...
However, the urge to be inseminated is growing to hard to ignore
However, the urge to be inseminated is growing to hard to ignore
You can make sure that you are clean by using a bulb syringe to squirt water into your rectum. Once it comes out clear you are good to go.
As for diseases, there are always STD tests. My girlfriend and I were tested years ago and we only have sex with each other so it is possible.
writerzblok92
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The syringe is definitely the best way to go.
My wife isn't into sex, much less anything kinky, so for me, I'm going to have to find the right, clean partner
tattoosandyoga
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that is awful. i’m sorry she is t into sex. i’m sure a lot of guys would love to play with you
writerzblok92
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There is always hope for that
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I confess, I used to be seriously concerned about the state of my ass. Even now I’m shy to actually admit it. When I was first taking cock up my bum I’d heard such stories, you wouldn’t believe! That it would result in me having a fat girlie bottom, that it would leave my bum-hole permanently loose. When my friend had fucked me hard, and then left to go home to his wife, I’d get a mirror and contrive it around so that I could see my little butt-hole to best advantage. And yes, it was very much ‘open’. Oh Dear... would it ever return to normal? Of course, it is very flexible. It does. I did have one very well-hung friend who insisted on fucking my poor little bottom on a very regular basis, and naturally I was too polite and obedient to ever refuse him. Well, I didn’t have time to actually measure his cock. But the first time I saw it I was both mesmerized and intimidated. And the first time he fucked me he really took my breath away... There’s that wonderful moment of delicious anticipation when he presses the tip of his cock against your tight little puckered bum-hole for the first time, you steady yourself, bracing to receive him, ready, while relaxing your anal muscles the best you can... and you hold your breath... Yes, Yes, please Yes.... He very near wrecked me, I was sensitive and sore for some time afterwards, it took me a considerable time to recover. But I’m sure we’ve all done those things to satisfy our men...? I was very respectful, and always just a little scared of its awesome power. Which is – of course, the way it should be when a Sissy serves a more dominant man. I felt eternally grateful to him for gifting me the pleasure of being fucked orally and anally by such a magnificent cock. To be really good, anal sex should always make you wince... A sissy is always so lucky to have a man with a huge cock. And I agree it should hurt some. I’ve been fortunate on a number of occasions to be pleasured by very generously-endowed gentlemen. And I always say a little prayer of thanks to the gods of Gay sex that I am so blessed... These are precious memories that we cherish. A warm bellyful of fresh cum is such a wonderfully satisfying feeling. I purr with pleasure...
