guy(Dom) on girl(sub) sitting?

[barcaboy]

I started off, years ago, as a sub (now I'm primarily a Dom). One of my favorite treats in those days was to be sat on, every which way: Vanilla sitting like lap sitting, human furniture variations, pony play, and, of course, face sitting. The comforting presence, giddy breathlessness, the gorgeous vistas of Mistresses, it was all great.

As I gradually metamorphosized into a Top, I experimented with doing unto others (my female subs) what had been done unto me (by my Mistresses). I found, to my surprise, that many female subs like the weight, symbolism, and experiential rush of being sat on, too.

It helps, I think, that 1) I keep myself trim, 2) that I wear latex pants that would look sexy on either sex, 3) I ease into this phase of play after lots of "warming up", and 4) I keep things "interesting" while sitting. But the ardor and delight is definitely there.

It's an incredible rush (and a true honor) when a sub takes me on her face for the first time. And without my own experience as a sub I don't think it would ever have occured to me to do it.

You don't see a lot of discussion about this variation on an old theme. Any of you played around in this sandbox?

 

[Etoile]

Those who know me will expect this but I just have to mention that not all couples are heterosexual.

Okay! That said, I've never tried this. I definitely love the weight of a lover on top of me, though, in a full-body sense.

 

[JoseIsWild]

I do love to sit on a girl! I like it when she lays back on a weight-lifting bench, then I straddle her belly.

 

[bound]

I absolutely adore being furniture.

 

[deezire1900]

I always thought that it was because I am a lesbian, but I love to have a woman sit on my face. I also like to have my chest sat on (above my breasts, but below my neck) maybe it is deeper then i thought???

 

[MissTaken]

Yes, I have been in that particular position.

I believe face fucking does two things. It feeds a need for humiliation and degradation as well as clearly places the Dom in control of a highly charged sexual situation.

Or at least, that is what it did for me. I was completely helpless under the weight of a Dominant while being force fed his shaft.

 

[A Desert Rose]

.... I was completely helpless under the weight of a Dominant while being force fed his shaft.

You have such a lovely way with words... LOL

 

[MissTaken]

You have such a lovely way with words... LOL

I must have skipped dinner!

 

[barcaboy]

Thanks, everyone, for sharing your own take on the subject of "submitting to sitting".

A fair number of women I've dominated have been bi/switches (true, also, for the women who have dominated me). & some of my best times have been co-Dom experiences with a Domme and a subbe. Seeing a woman sit on another woman's face has to rank in the upper stratosphere of earthly visual treats.

Speaking of which, here's a parlor game you might try at home:

needed: 3 Dom/mes, 1 sub/be

a bench

a blindfold

The sub/be lies on the bench, blindfolded. The Dom/mes take turns lowering themselves onto the sub/be's face.

The name of the game: Who's that Dom/me?

 

[cellis]

Yes, I have been in that particular position.

I believe face fucking does two things. It feeds a need for humiliation and degradation as well as clearly places the Dom in control of a highly charged sexual situation.

Or at least, that is what it did for me. I was completely helpless under the weight of a Dominant while being force fed his shaft.

adding you to the stalking list!

 

[Etoile]

MissT, you are just too cool.

 

[Never]

Etoile:
... I just have to mention that not all couples are heterosexual."

That's a lie and you know it!
I've missed you, by the way.

 

[Etoile]

Ah, Never, you bring a smile to my face! But I have to break it to you...our torrid lesbian love affair is not particularly heterosexual. http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/youloveme.gif http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/kissyface.gif

 

[Never]

What are you talking about? I sit on your face on the time. We're perfectly heterosexual.