good looking............?

[TigerClaw]

I was torn between Kinda and Not Very.

If the woman seems to be perfect to me I steer clear of them. Too many problems to over come.

I admire beautiful ladies. But it is the attraction that gets me. If there is no attraction then it does not matter how pretty they are. One woman at work is knock out drop dead georgeous. She has the personality of a Bazooka. I dont need to talk to her.

Good looks do attract first but it is personality that makes me want to get to know them. Some women are not pretty but the way they carry themselves can be extremely attractive.

So I chose Not Very.

I want to add, if a woman doesnt seem down to earth and is very materialistic it is a big turn off.


What? Picard?
Wasnt he Fishing with the Mice and Stitch

 

[lark sparrow]

out of curiosity.....again

seeing as BDSM is a much smaller pond to fish in than vanillaville are you more likely to compromise on looks?
or...another way...are you less shallow and more interested in personal and sexual compatability?

xx

Being immediately physically attracted is less important than personal and sexual compatability. Play partner or life partner would also have different qualifiers, but attraction on as many levels as possible is always sought.