giving head

[Guest]

hey guys i just wanted some advice on how to give good head. i dont think that my boyfriend thinks im very good because i "dont go down far enough". could i get better/go down farther through practice? how far down should i go? and any other tips would be appreciated! thanks guys!!
<3Liana

 

[lickboxer]

As long as you love what you're doing, give it lots of tongue, and are willing to bring him off, I wouldn't say he should complain, if he does, find another guy, you never know what kind of demands he might put on you after that. You need to feel comfortable with what your doing too. There are threads here that explain how to deep throat if your willing.

 

[horny_giraffe]

Use your hand, as well.

Deep throat is overrated, IMO. I'd rather my girlfriend use a combination--mouth on the head and hand on the shaft. Best blowjob I ever got.

Gotta admit it felt good to cum in her mouth, though--disgusting though it might be to contemplate on the recieving end. I suppose one could get accustomed to it.

Some guys don't like it. If your guy doesn't like it, do something he likes, right? On the other hand, maybe that's the idea--you'd prefer to give head and he really wants to fuck?

 

[peachykeen]

disgusting, h_g? delightful, more like...

 

[Lust Engine]

hey guys i just wanted some advice on how to give good head. i dont think that my boyfriend thinks im very good because i "dont go down far enough". could i get better/go down farther through practice? how far down should i go? and any other tips would be appreciated! thanks guys!!
<3Liana

This isn't meant to sound like a cop out or anything but seeing as how you've got your mouth full at that particular moment, have your BF tell you what he likes. If he wants you to deep throat (which I too also agree is over rated and much more a visual thing than a sensory thing), have him communicate it to you some how. Every guy is different; so please be up front and ask him. And also realize that there might be more than just going down on the shaft too; try the tip, the balls, his anus (if he's okay with it) and just about anywhere else. But again, let him communicate it to you- it could be as simple as something like moaning a bit more to let you know he likes it.

I applaud you for wanting to please him more too. I hope he's as thoughtful towards you too.

 

[Cirrus]

As was said before, try using your hand if you can't deepthroat. I'm one woman who has NEVER been able to deepthroat and probably never will be able to.

If you feel you must do it, position can play a big role and make it possible for some people. Try having him lay on his back, and position yourself so that your feet are toward his head. No 69ing, but so that you can angle your head to get his penis as far down as possible.

I had to essentially learn how to give head to my current boyfriend. For the longest time, he just COULD NOT cum in my mouth...then I figured it out. More suction was what he needed, and less tongue. First guy I've ever been with that wanted LESS tongue.

Ask your man what he likes, or try something for a few seconds, then ask him what he thinks. Then try something else and do the same thing until you hit on it. You gotta talk...if you can't talk, why are you having sex?

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Gotta admit it felt good to cum in her mouth, though--disgusting though it might be to contemplate on the recieving end. I suppose one could get accustomed to it.

DISGUSTING???!!
Funny, I've never found cum to be that. I must admit that I have found some more pleasing to the palate than others. But then again that could have been because of the relationship too. All in all though, I must say that a man's cum is most welcome in my mouth.

 

[vengefulvixen]

If you don't get the replies you want on this one, try doing a search. There are about a billion and one threads on this very subject, some of which I know have excellent responses on them. I can't help you with your question, but I bet on this one that search button will be your best friend.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

My number one tip when I give advice on giving head is this:

Tell you man that you want to please him, but that he has to communicate what he likes. Any guy loves to hear that you want to please him. He'll enjoy that. And then ask him, once he's smiled, to give you tips, or to guide your head, or to lightly hold your hair, or something.

Also, explain to him that you're learning with him,a nd that it might take some time, but you'd like to end up giving him the best head he's ever gotten.

 

[Lust Engine]

My number one tip when I give advice on giving head is this:

Tell you man that you want to please him, but that he has to communicate what he likes. Any guy loves to hear that you want to please him. He'll enjoy that. And then ask him, once he's smiled, to give you tips, or to guide your head, or to lightly hold your hair, or something.

Also, explain to him that you're learning with him,a nd that it might take some time, but you'd like to end up giving him the best head he's ever gotten.

GREAT advice! It's so nice to be asked!

Given the scenario you've described here I don't think any guy could be pushy or lose patience.

Again, excellent advice!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

you dont have to deepthroat to make a man happy from oral sex. i can't deepthroat, never will either (i start to gag and then bite down hard... so i dont even try). but i have yet to get a complaint from any man i've gone down on (except telling me to do it faster or whatever).

here's a few suggestions.
(1) your hand works well too. his penis is not the only thing to pay attention to. he has balls, a prostate, legs, ass, chest, stomach, and lots of other things to caress, lick, suck, nibble, bite (you get the idea). pay attention to all of him and not just his penis. you'll prolly get better results.

(2) if you dont like the taste of cum, you can do 2 different things. first, ask him to eat more fruits and vegetables. it will really help it taste better. then, maybe consider bringing in the foods to play with. my personal faves are whipped cream and honey. the only things with these is that you have to make sure he's all clean before intercourse.

(3) if you really want to distract his attention from what you're doing, ask him to do a 69 with you and have him perform oral on you while you're busy with him. keep him occupied, either his mind (which should be anyways) or his tongue and hands.

and lastly, there's a story by Naked_Hunny that gives good step by step instructions on how to give great oral somewhere on this site.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

wow...

You women are all over this one

I think they are right on though.

Just be careful not to bite down hard. Have him communicate what he likes. Try some light nibbling or biting. Try using your tongue in different ways.

Maybe suck or lick his balls while stroking him. There are a ton of things you can do with his cock while giving a blow job that will be marvelous, I'm sure

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