Girls: What kind of girls are you attracted to?

[curiouslez84]

Sorry if this has already been posted somewhere else...

I obviously have a g/f that I'm very in love with and have been very happy with for several years. However, my question to you ladies out there is: what kinds of women attract you? I met my g/f at a party at a friend's house, and I really liked her because she was so outgoing and had such a free mind, she'd talk about anything even if it was taboo. LOL She wasn't pushy, just confident. We hit it off right away, and we did about a half-dozen dates and a couple make-out sessions before we got into bed together. That was only my second experience with a woman, so it was weird...but we've been together ever since. She always knows how to make things fun and exciting...like in the last week of August, we're going on vacation together.

Anyway...

If you've got g/fs currently, what attracted you to them? If you don't, what kinds of women are you attracted to?

The guys have their thread, so I thought I'd start one for women. ^_^

 

[crosserswife]

Yummy

Those were great pics of you. Anyway and to answer your question, I have always been impulsive about the women I have loved. I usually am attracted to a woman who is very self confident and assertive.
I enjoy someone who takes control and tells me what they want. I guess I like being pursued rather than being the pursuer. Age usually is secoindary or a non issue.

 

[curiouslez84]

*Nods.* Yeah, my g/f's the really confident type. It makes for great fun. But she loves me, too, so it's not just sex, y'know? Although she really knows how to use those fingers and that tongue. But yeah. She's the more aggressive one in our relationship, and that often turns me on. Next?

 

[Linyari]

Very feminine girls generally. I don't necessarily mean make-up is a necessity. I love to sit and look at girls with natural beauty. But I like long hair, fine features and healthy curves. I don't want a socialite, but what fun would there be in dating a girl if I could share clothes. *grin*

Interestingly enough, in men I prefer very masculine men. (I'm bi.) I like them hairy, with facial hair and I like them to be a bit on the stocky side. I like them to be as physically "male" as you can stereotype.

It's like I prefer the extremes.

However, no matter what I prefer both genders to be dominant and have a bit of an ego. That's one thing that attracts me no matter what you have between your legs.

 

[curiouslez84]

Interesting...but we're not discussing the boys here.

 

[crosserswife]

Boys!

LOL...That's right, We only want to discuss women here. Sharing clothes can also have a downside. They can get ruined very easily by a person who hasn't invested the time or money in finding them. Also, they can some times become evidence of your affairs if you are trying to be discreet. My husband recognized one of my bathing suits being worn by a female freind of mine. He was curious because he knows I don't like to borrow clothing that has had skin to skin contact. I had to come up with a story. Afterward, I made my girlfriend wait a long time before I let her cum.

 

[Chicklet]

I'm interested in a very wide variety of women. And I know we're not discussing men, but I do think it's odd that I'm only attracted to one type of man, but several types of women. I wonder if that means I'm more flexible because I'm less likely to want a relationship with a woman, or that it's more ingrained in me to have an idea of what kind of man would make a good provider, so I'm more free to be attracted to all sorts of women? hrm. Just curious about my own sexual instincts.

 

[curiouslez84]

Good questions.

And yeah, you've got a point there. I'm not really discreet so much as I am non-flashy. I mean, my g/f and I kiss in public all the time, we hold each other in public, but we don't flaunt our sexuality like some people do. Yes, we watch gay parades and be in them if we can, but we don't go around shouting, "HEY! WE'RE LESBIANS! PISS OFF!" LOL But yeah...the ruining thing can definitely be a problem. My g/f and I don't share clothes, but that's just because we're totally different sizes. LOL Like she had b-cups, for example, and I have c-cups. She's a bit more slender than I am; I'm a bit stockier than she is. Basically, she often wears smaller clothes than I do, if only by a size or two. Sometimes she'll wear one of my t-shirts or something, but that's about it.

So, what else girlies? Who else ya attracted to? ^_^

 

[UptheRiverFemme]

My g/f and I met at work a few years ago. It took a while to get things off the ground, probably because I spent all my time with my head buried in work. But I think the first thing I noticed about her was her gorgeous smile and sarcastic personality (like mine!). She hates her smile and I don't think I'll ever understand why. But that was the first thing that attracted me to her, and the more I learned about her the more I found I loved- here we are several years later and it still happens almost everyday.

 

[sally_ja_hawkins]

I'm attracted to women who...are intelligent and funny. Who make me laugh, and make me think. A woman who I can have a proper conversation with, who I can share fun with.

I'm also attracted to women who look like women...feminine, sensuous, and elegant. A woman whose eyes make me melt, whose pretty face I can gaze at...a woman who smells nice, whose velvety voice soothes me,

Sexually...I have a real weakness for women with large breasts...I just find them so erotic. And I like women who actively enjoy sex, who embrace their lesbianism, and want to take a journey to true sexual fulfillment.

 

[Kumani]

Typically I am attracted to girls who are very androgynous looking. I tend to like girls who are masculine in appearance but not too butch however I do still have an affinity for feminine looking females but it is a must that they exude confidence, not an arrogant confidence but just confidence. This is a huge turn on.

 

[1stTimeTreat]

Feminine

I like beautiful women - beautiful on the inside, that is... intelligent, funny, outgoing.... I like a woman who is curvy. I like beautiful breasts, large nipples... Pretty faces with a nice smile are wonderful, too...

 

[sally_ja_hawkins]

Hmmm, yes...large nipples. Forgot to mention those. Yum!

 

[curiouslez84]

Nipples are the best. ^_^

 

[1stTimeTreat]

I find

That I am totally turned on by just seeing breasts.... which can be a bother when I go to the gym and then get myself all worked up! Who do you think on Lit has really great breasts?? I like ~~Amy~~'s.... the look so soft and supple....

 

[BiBunny]

I'm only attracted to a certain type of man (the big gay bear type, only of the straight or bisexual persuasion with a brilliant mind and a witty sense of humor) and a certain type of woman. I'm picky enough about men, but I'm even pickier about women. My girlfriend, Bi_Kitty, posts on this site occasionally, and she's the epitome of "my type." She's very feminine and sweet, but not the high-maintenance type. Kitty has a good heart and an adventurous soul. She looks like the innocent girl next door, and she's got the brilliant mind and witty sense of humor I have to have in both friends and lovers.

 

[curiouslez84]

That I am totally turned on by just seeing breasts.... which can be a bother when I go to the gym and then get myself all worked up! Who do you think on Lit has really great breasts?? I like ~~Amy~~'s.... the look so soft and supple....

I like Bi_Bunny's tits myself. ^_^ @ Bi_Bunny.

Assuming that's you in the av, of course.

 

[BiBunny]

I like Bi_Bunny's tits myself. ^_^ @ Bi_Bunny.

Assuming that's you in the av, of course.

Thank you. And, yep, that's me. The pic's a little old, from this time last year, but I look basically the same.

 

[DeadlyFemme]

I'm still new to openly being Bi but I generally like girls who have some curves and are very confident. I want someone who isn't going to be afraid to be herself and she definitely has to have a great sense of humor. also tall girls really turn me on cuz you can't help but want those legs wrapped around you while you're pleasing her.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I'm with deadlyfemme
curves are a must
to spend hours exploring them, wandering and getting lusciously lost.

I also like confidence, humor, and, of course, absolute adoration of moi

 

[curiouslez84]

*Adores Vail.*

^_^

And Bi: *Drools and gives her all the attention she wants on those wonderful blossoms.*