Girls, do you enjoy humiliation?

[G-Lish]

I have seen/read alot of stuff online that I find VERY arousing, things that involve a great deal of humiliation towards a female partner. Agressive bj's (facefucks), bondage, ball gags, pissing, etc. Do a lot of women actually enjoy this stuff, or would the adult industry be trying to convince me that they do...I am often to shy, or try to avoid offeneding girls when I am in a sexual situation...but would love to participate in all of the above mentioned, so please let me know!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I think in this forum you'll find a fair amount of girls (and guys) who enjoy being humiliated. In the real world, however, it might be wise to ask first...

 

[FurryFury]

For me, it's something I fantasize about. Communication, respect and trust would have to be in place in a relationship though, for me to allow anyone to play that way with me.

Fury

 

[Quint]

Hard for me to be turned on by playing nice nowadays. But yes, it's something to feel out with other partners rather than assume, unless you're also turned on by the humiliation of rejection.

 

[lilslutslave]

I love to be humiliated. It takes someone who knows you really well to be able to do it right. Anyone can call you a dirty whore or the like but it takes someone special to have you on your knees begging for mercy just by the words they say. My Master doesn't need to touch me as long as he humiliates me i can get off.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I love to be humiliated. It takes someone who knows you really well to be able to do it right. Anyone can call you a dirty whore or the like but it takes someone special to have you on your knees begging for mercy just by the words they say. My Master doesn't need to touch me as long as he humiliates me i can get off.

ohhhh - this is soooooo true! Hard to be humilated by a stranger in the same way someone who knows how to push all your buttons can...

 

[lilslutslave]

there is nothing that gets me off quicker than being sufficently humilated

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I don't know that you can call this humiliation as the feelings I get when subjected to it are not humble but I thrive on being treated with indifference when deep in a scene. For example I nearly burst with passion when a Dom I used to see would lay back on the bed, tell me to "get busy while I read this." He would read while I worshiped his cock. I would be so wet by the time he came I could be violated...easily.

 

[cfuhrer]

Communication, respect and trust would have to be in place in a relationship though, for me to allow anyone to play that way with me.

Fury's got it right. However, that being said I love a good throat fuck, to have my pussy slammed, to be tied and gagged. My boyfriend, lover that he is, says that to treat me that way makes him feel like an ass... but he is willing to do it for me.
Now if you will pardon me... I need to see if he is available

 

[Bandit58]

Certain things mentioned I do enjoy, e.g. face fucking, being called slut....others leave me cold. I have a hard limit on face slapping for instance.

I think I am too emotionally vulnerable to enjoy much in the way of humiliation. A lifetime of being bullied at school and then by the domineering ass I married means I don't want to feel bad about myself like that again.

 

[High-Tied]

I don't know that you can call this humiliation as the feelings I get when subjected to it are not humble but I thrive on being treated with indifference when deep in a scene. For example I nearly burst with passion when a Dom I used to see would lay back on the bed, tell me to "get busy while I read this." He would read while I worshiped his cock. I would be so wet by the time he came I could be violated...easily.

Not sure if I would call this humiliating. Hot, indeed, but not humiliating.

 

[BeachGurl2]

Because of a very emotionally abusive marriage, humiliation is not something I enjoy at all. In fact, it's a huge turnoff for me. Just as indifference doesn't work for me. Too much baggage, I guess.

 

[jadefirefly]

Hmm... that's waffly for me.

As Fury said, it's a hell of a fantasy. And a fantasy goes a long way when one's SO is half a world away.

But in actual practice... to an extent, yes... I enjoy it. But I think not to the extent the porn industry would like you to believe. I'm fairly mild on some things, this is one of them.

 

[pink_love]

only in private

i doubt anyone would be interested in being humiliated in public. In private as a BDSM play definitely.

now, i prefer paddles rather whips something like this.

http://www.discreet-romance.com/11-slapper-adult-sex-toys-25154.html

 

[FurryFury]

i doubt anyone would be interested in being humiliated in public. In private as a BDSM play definitely.

now, i prefer paddles rather whips something like this.

http://www.discreet-romance.com/11-slapper-adult-sex-toys-25154.html

After what I saw last night I'd have to disagree with no one liking to be humiliated in public.

Fury

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

After what I saw last night I'd have to disagree with no one liking to be humiliated in public.

Fury

Miss Fury what did you see hunny ? Ohhh did you go to the play party already ?

Seperate Note :

I really hate it when he insists on Vintage Champagne when NV would be fine , its so showy and well ...............

 

[FurryFury]

Hi Miss Rebecca!

I will tell all in the First Munch Tips thread, or at least I will tell a lot, (time and computer access permitting.) For the purposes of this thread I'll just say I think some absolutely enjoy being publicly humiliated, I certainly enjoyed watching them become so. *winks*

I don't know what NV refers to. The best I've personally had was Dom Perignon.

Fury

PS, I can't seem to spell anything right today a sure sign I haven't had enough sleep in a couple of nights.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Hi Miss Rebecca!

I will tell all in the First Munch Tips thread, or at least I will tell a lot, (time and computer access permitting.) For the purposes of this thread I'll just say I think some absolutely enjoy being publicly humiliated, I certainly enjoyed watching them become so. *winks*

I don't know what NV refers to. The best I've personally had was Dom Perignon.

Fury

PS, I can't seem to spell anything right today a sure sign I haven't had enough sleep in a couple of nights.

Ohhhhhh goes over to munch thread..........

NV ...........Non Vintage and Dom Perignon would be accurate.

Oh wouldn't get to concerned about GLish he started an incest topic thread before this one which ummmn 'disappeared'.

 

[FurryFury]

Ohhhhhh goes over to munch thread..........

NV ...........Non Vintage and Dom Perignon would be accurate.

Oh wouldn't get to concerned about GLish he started an incest topic thread before this one which ummmn 'disappeared'.

Ah, thanks for the clarification!

Fury

 

[raven2]

Miss Fury what did you see hunny ? Ohhh did you go to the play party already ?

Seperate Note :

I really hate it when he insists on Vintage Champagne when NV would be fine , its so showy and well ...............

I know but it does depend on the NV. Personally I prefer Pol Roger. Excellent NV year in and year out.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I know but it does depend on the NV. Personally I prefer Pol Roger. Excellent NV year in and year out.

Oh very nice indeedy ................. ( ie I'll take your word for it ......smiles )

Then there was this time he humiliated me by insisting we shop at Graff when I would have been happy at Tiffanys ..........cries

 

[FurryFury]

Oh very nice indeedy ................. ( ie I'll take your word for it ......smiles )

Then there was this time he humiliated me by insisting we shop at Graff when I would have been happy at Tiffanys ..........cries

*pats gently*

It's okay, you'll survive. *L*

Fury

 

[Wanton and wet]

Mind games

Erotic humiliation, the notion of being forced, the idea that you are vulnerable (yet safe), and the feeling of being under someone's control . . . all are exciting if performed by someone you love and trust. It's a mind game, really, and if a lover is good at it, it is the most thrilling sex imaginable.

WW

 

[crazybbwgirl]

i doubt anyone would be interested in being humiliated in public. In private as a BDSM play definitely.

now, i prefer paddles rather whips something like this.

http://www.discreet-romance.com/11-slapper-adult-sex-toys-25154.html

Public humiliation can be very very awesome. I had to pick a Dom up from the airport once. Wearing a very short skirt, a see thru top and nothing underneath. The stares were enough to get me hot. Then the plane was an hour late so I had to hang around forever waiting. Trying to sit on those hard plastic seats without getting my wet cunt stuck to it. When he finally got there, he grabbed me, kissed me, and pulled up the back of my skirt and put his hand full on my bare ass. Needless to say, I was red from head to toe. Older people were glaring at me. It was heavenly.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I'm not one for public humiliation, but I'm not shy about "displaying" myself. One time, my guy and I did it in the garden of the building where the frat guys were. It was actually my idea, spontaneous and he went with it. Just doing it on the grass, skin on skin. Bareback. Rough. Just the way I love it. It was awesome.