Girls, can you orgasm without moaning?

[crazybbwgirl]

I'm going to have to pay closer attention I think. I know I usually make LOTS of noise (they moved our hotel room once..... cough***) but do I scream/moan right THEN? - I'm really not sure. I think some experimentation is in order! lol

 

[Meat Whistler]

I'm usually quite loud, but I, too, began masturbating at a very, very young age. I can be quiet if I bite pillows or have a hand covering my mouth.

 

[SlickTony]

I was with a man once who demanded I stay silent thru the entire act. With my eyes wide open looking in to his. It was the most erotic thing in the world..........

Eh...depends on what you like. My first husband, if I made any kind of noise at all, even appreciative noises, would hush me up. Did you know that Iranians don't say "Shhhh"? They say "Sssssss". I ended up adding that to my list of grounds.

 

[phoenix1224]

And I just read Phoenix's post about how a woman NEVER screams when she orgasms... thank god you specified there were exceptions! I mean, some men grunt, some are silent, some scream or talk when they cum... aren't women the same? I moan and sometimes scream during my orgasms even though I can be quiet if need be.

That's where the mistake lies... Men and women AREN'T the same... While MOST men exhale while orgasming, MOST women either inhale or hold their breath.

But, again, there ARE exceptions...

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I paid attention yesterday afternoon. I alternately hold my breath and make noise. I'm pretty sure more research will be necessary though. ohhh - the things we do in the name of science~!

 

[phoenix1224]

I paid attention yesterday afternoon. I alternately hold my breath and make noise. I'm pretty sure more research will be necessary though. ohhh - the things we do in the name of science~!

Yeah.

"Science".

Suuure.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I was with a man once who demanded I stay silent thru the entire act. With my eyes wide open looking in to his. It was the most erotic thing in the world..........

WOW, THAT would be INCREDIBLE. I can totally get off looking into a guy's eyes, especially if I can see the lust, that "in the moment" I'm so fucking hot for you, look.

I'm normally VERY LOUD when with someone, but relatively silent when alone, I sometimes NEED the noise to get off, it can really send me over the edge, whether I make the noise myself or my partner does.

 

[Azalea]

I am so used to having to be very quiet during sex because of children in adjacent rooms, that even when we are alone somewhere, I still tend to be pretty quiet when I climax.

I have gotten a bit noisier over the past couple of years, though.

 

[SlickTony]

One of the things about western porn/erotica that is said to astound people in Asian cultures is the noise. When you have--or used to have--large numbers of kids in small apartments, with dividing walls that were rice-paper screens--it tends to militate against noisy sex.

 

[Munachi]

i don't think i am very loud... I get somewhat loud during sex, but when I masturbate or also during oral I don't get loud at all... I tried to be a bit louder during oral, kind of to encourage the guy, but I noticed it actually distracts me...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I agree!

And I just read Phoenix's post about how a woman NEVER screams when she orgasms... thank god you specified there were exceptions! I mean, some men grunt, some are silent, some scream or talk when they cum... aren't women the same? I moan and sometimes scream during my orgasms even though I can be quiet if need be.

I can definitely say ditto to this one. Although I've been one to inhale and I cant exhale again really until I need to breathe, and in that whole quick breath thing is where all my noises come from when I'm in the midst of an orgasm.

 

[Cherokee Rose]

I can. But it's much more fun to be able to make noise .

 

[SlyKitten]

I'm going to have to pay closer attention I think. I know I usually make LOTS of noise (they moved our hotel room once..... cough***) but do I scream/moan right THEN? - I'm really not sure. I think some experimentation is in order! lol

crazybbwgirl and I seem to think alike, again. I masturbated and experimented with my breathing and vocal chords. I whimpered and moaned throughout and literally screamed when I climaxed, like my voice was in tune with my pussy; each spasm brought a scream.

Do some women really inhale when they cum?
Oh, I just reread Willingandunsure's post. I guess some women do inhale.

 

[chris9]

I don't think I ever get really loud, though I couldn't swear it as I don't focus on my auditive abilities right at the moment. I do know that even without moaning, screaming, whatever my breathing gets so that people around will hear if not deeply asleep. Maybe I should ask my boyfriend what kind of sound I make DURING orgasm...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Do some women really inhale when they cum?
Oh, I just reread Willingandunsure's post. I guess some women do inhale.

to elaborate on my earlier post here, I inhale mainly because I usually cum hard every time. And I mean so hard that my whole body just kinda curls up into a ball since most of my muscles (legs, stomach, and sometimes even arms, among all the usual ones) are contracted that it actually hurts to try to breathe and holding my breathe is really the only thing I can do. I dont even think about it, it's just something that happens subconsciously.

 

[SlyKitten]

to elaborate on my earlier post here, I inhale mainly because I usually cum hard every time. And I mean so hard that my whole body just kinda curls up into a ball since most of my muscles (legs, stomach, and sometimes even arms, among all the usual ones) are contracted that it actually hurts to try to breathe and holding my breathe is really the only thing I can do. I dont even think about it, it's just something that happens subconsciously.

Orgasms are amazing! So different from one person to another. I feel like I’m expanding, exploding almost. The sensations begin in my pussy and flow all through my body with my toes, fingers and nipples tingling and I ‘hear’ the blood pump in my ears.

 

[miss_kate]

Psssshh.... No Way Could I Pull Off A Silent One

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

meh.... quiet lovers are boreing lovers... i louder the better i say. PASSION!!

 

[tiedmuse]

my first orgasm with a partner, wayy back in the day, was a silent one..

not silent because I didn't want to make noise, or because I wasn't making noise, but rather because I was biting into the corner of a pillow..

we were in his parent's house, in his bedroom, his bedroom didn't have a lock on the door, and the act itself was in this constant "are we going to get caught" heat that made it intolerably hott..

so, to answer the original question.. I can have a mostly-silent orgasm, but not an actual quiet one...

besides.. with the gasping, and the release of the cumming, I can't really regulate my language or my level of sound..

 

[MrWolf55calif]

my wife wouldn't moan she didn't want the kids to hear her,, or she grab a pillow cover her own face and scream, grunt, yell into it.....
But i got to let hair down some, told so what if they did heard her,,so she did more so,, it would help me to get off when she did.

PS kids are Gone,, scream Bitch!

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I can by myself, but not with a partner.

exaclty

 

[Darkknight2010]

meh.... quiet lovers are boreing lovers... i louder the better i say. PASSION!!

I second that. I can be very loud if my lover is, too.

 

[dixie50]

It just happens

I'm like Willing and Unsure, I think. It's not something that I've really analyzed, but I do know that I will suddenly realize during an incredible orgasm, muscles EVERYWHERE contracting, that I haven't been breathing. Also wonder if the orgasm would be even stronger if I did breathe through it more. Seems like I've read something about that.

For me, though, I know I do groan, have bitten down on pillows, covers and towels, not necessarily to be more quiet, but just because things are so intense. Will also squeeze something tightly in my hands.

We're all just different.

 

[YinandYang]

My SO likes me to look into his eyes at the point of no return....didn't realise till then how difficult it was to actually do that! (bit like trying to sneeze with your eyes open lol)

 

[Dumpling]

Yikes, thats a tall order I usually have to stuff a Washcloth or someting in my Mouth then! But then the orgasm still isnt quiet the same as with the loud MOANS