Girls, can you orgasm without moaning?

[Munachi]

The guy I was going out with until coming back home was several times telling me I am too loud. He was worried about my neighbours hearing us - even though they were my neighbours and he didn't even know him, but then, he even had similar problems when we were in hotels... I don't think I am all that loud though... But appearantly all the girls he had been with before made no sound at all...

 

[covariant]

Since Lit, and in particular the HT forum, is an equal opportunity BB, I will add to the present discussion even though I am not now, nor have I ever been a girl. For me, the arrival of a climax is generally accompanied by vast and inarticulate noises which sometimes persist for as much as a minute or more. Paramedics have come to my hotel rooms quite uninvited, in fact.

However, it's also possible for me to remain silent. I just have to live with a very sore throat for a while afterward as the noise suppression takes its toll on the soft tissues there.

I usually don't make noise when I masturbate (well, maybe some heavy breathing), but I typically make plenty of noise with a partner. It was something I had to be taught (Emily, thank you sweetheart, wherever you are), but I now find that it's even more fun with some incoherent moaning added.

Oh, yes, I was never a girl either.

 

[ShaunaM]

I can be quiet when I am alone.

I can also be quiet with a partner - though it is harder.

I enjoy hearing my SO moan, talk dirty, etc. The last girl I was with didn't do either, you could tell she was cumming by her body shaking and her pussy clenching - that's about it. She very often put her hand over my mouth to keep me a lil quiet (which I love!).

With me - I tend to breathe very inconsistantly and loud, moan before orgasm, but during I am almost like a rock - I inhale and freeze, my whole body kind of being in slow motion. It's a weird feeling to describe. But during orgasm - no, very rarely do I make any noise, until calming down.

 

[jadefirefly]

Well, okay, maybe 'freaked out' isn't the right phrase... I was posting on insufficient sleep.

A large part of my tendency towards silence is a self-confidence issue, where I pretty much feel that any noise I do make sounds really stupid, and how could he possibly think that's attractive? The remainder of it is just a preference towards being quieter.

For the sake of a partner who'd prefer some sort of reassurance that what he's doing is effective, I'm learning to overcome the confidence issue, but I'm still never -terribly- loud. If the choice is making noise, though, or having my partner be unsure if he's getting anywhere, I'll take the noise any day, just so long as he keeps doing what he's doing!