Girls are so complicated

[nel1991]

So I met this one girl before summer started and we flirted alot and she taunts about my size being chubby and everything. I was around 180lb i look alright just a little fat there and there so during the summer...i began to workout and now im down to 150 im fit and dont have a 6 pack but..im slim looking now. we havnt seen each other during the summer but we constanty flirt often. Now i see her and she's shocked to see me and ends up with a guy with a 6 pack. lifes not fucking fair..anyways im done ranting..


hows everyone's day?

 

[Cozoko]

You've done well to lose the weight, you should be happy about that at least. Forget her and find someone who appreciates the effort you put in.

 

[bigbritish]

^^ what they said, not worth your time.

 

[CayleeBug71]

congratulations on the weight loss, that should open up new doors in your life to feel better and be healthier. As far as the lady goes, plenty of fish in the sea and you would do well to find someone who better appreciates you.

 

[Smittenkitten_]

congratulations on the weight loss, that should open up new doors in your life to feel better and be healthier. As far as the lady goes, plenty of fish in the sea and you would do well to find someone who better appreciates you.

I second that.

 

[Dawgluver]

Some girls and some guys just suck....and not in a good way. Good luck, you will find her.

 

[Bretaign]

Don't align your sense of self with other's approval. What she thinks has no resonance. As said above: "you've done well to the lose the weight" and I'll add ~ if it means something to you.

Now skip the thoughtless wench and find one who appreciates you.

Best,

Bretaign

 

[vampwrrr]

Did she specifically tell you that she'd date you if you lost the weight? If so, she's a manipulative hose-beast.

If not...you really had no reasonable reason to expect that she automatically would.

Unless you have it in writing, of course.

 

[nel1991]

Thanks for your support fellow lit peeps.
im trying to still work on these abs handles...2-5 miles a day of running and school. thats just a total bitch. But im working on it. Just a healthier life style and hopefully met new Lit people too.

 

[bigbritish]

dude you don't need abs to pick up women. you'd be ashamed of the filth your next fling has fucked. that sentence flowed, go me

 

[nel1991]

haha it does..it does

 

[nel1991]

bumpz..

 

[TxBookGirl]

.....

 

[Gankhuu]

It saddens me that you only lost weight to attract a girl. Don't take this the wrong way, ladies- what I mean is... you should have enough respect and care for yourself first before you can care and 'love' others. That, and the confidence you gain from knowing what you have done and what you are yet able to do is a bonus with the women that you apparently are attracted to. I feel you should be happy first- then share your happiness with someone else.

Trust me- confidence and a generous show of power and influence will win more women over than not. Unless, I'm totally off base- women correct me if needed.

 

[nel1991]

It saddens me that you only lost weight to attract a girl. Don't take this the wrong way, ladies- what I mean is... you should have enough respect and care for yourself first before you can care and 'love' others. That, and the confidence you gain from knowing what you have done and what you are yet able to do is a bonus with the women that you apparently are attracted to. I feel you should be happy first- then share your happiness with someone else.

Trust me- confidence and a generous show of power and influence will win more women over than not. Unless, I'm totally off base- women correct me if needed.

I know that, but hey in a way, i feel that losing that weight is good. =]

 

[Gankhuu]

I agree. Losing weight and becoming happier is definetely a good things. WTG

 

[XdOu™]

not every girl is complicated, you just gota find the right one like they all say.

- but anyways, my day is going great.

 

[nel1991]

bumpzzz