GF and I at nudist resort

[CuckGuy89]

Hi So my gf and I have recently talked about going to a nudist resort. For those of you that have been to places like this, what can we expect in terms of the guests there? Is everyone nude, or just sometimes? Do guests keep to themselves or is there a lot of socializing? Should we be on the lookout for creeps with cameras? Just general information for first time visitors

 

[crazychemgirl]

Where do I find a nudist resort … that’s what I want to know

 

[CuckGuy89]

Where do I find a nudist resort … that’s what I want to know

Gooogle "nudist resort near me"

 

[crazychemgirl]

Ok captain obvious

 

[CuckGuy89]

Ok captain obvious

Don't know what kind of response you wanted. Ask obvious question and you'll get an obvious answer

 

[crazychemgirl]

I know how to use google .. im not a moron

… I was putting in a response to this thread because I’m interested in the discussion about it, obviously

 

[CuckGuy89]

I don't know if you are or not since Ive never met you. Just answered the question

 

[crazychemgirl]

Good grief …

 

[thør]

Good grief …

LOL!

 

[jehoram]

Hi So my gf and I have recently talked about going to a nudist resort. For those of you that have been to places like this, what can we expect in terms of the guests there? Is everyone nude, or just sometimes? Do guests keep to themselves or is there a lot of socializing? Should we be on the lookout for creeps with cameras? Just general information for first time visitors

Well, I've been to a few, all on the west coast. Your local scene may be different.

First, almost all the guests are nude except when the weather isn't hospitable. Some women wear bottoms, particularly if they're on their monthlies, but otherwise the scene is nude. Some resorts require that you have some sort of clothing in the dining areas, although it's usually just a robe or sarong or the like. There are resorts that are "clothing optional" so first-timer guests with nude companions can stay as clothed as they feel comfortable with. After that, the guest either shucks their clothing after a while, or they just figure that it's not their scene and don't return. It's up to the resort to state what their policies are.

The guests do keep to themselves, like any social circles, although it's not hard to strike up a conversation. It may take a couple of visits, or a couple of days there, before you feel that you're fitting in. Don't worry about being self-conscious. Nearly everybody you meet will have been a first-time nudist, and they understand your jitters.

Cameras are strictly forbidden. If you have a cell phone or a tablet, they want you to put stickers over the lenses or just keep them out of sight.

Finally, clubs vary widely in their attitudes about sex, from family resorts that frown on any PDAs to "adult only" resorts that may or may not condone more intimate relationships, depending on the owners. (Some adults aren't looking for sex, they just want to get away from kids.) Ask beforehand if you have any concerns about this.

For more information, go to the websites for the American Association for Nude Recreation, the Naturist Society, or British Naturists. They'll give you the lowdown and also list the resorts in your area.

 

[TonyF862]

Well, I've been to a few, all on the west coast. Your local scene may be different.

First, almost all the guests are nude except when the weather isn't hospitable. Some women wear bottoms, particularly if they're on their monthlies, but otherwise the scene is nude. Some resorts require that you have some sort of clothing in the dining areas, although it's usually just a robe or sarong or the like. There are resorts that are "clothing optional" so first-timer guests with nude companions can stay as clothed as they feel comfortable with. After that, the guest either shucks their clothing after a while, or they just figure that it's not their scene and don't return. It's up to the resort to state what their policies are.

The guests do keep to themselves, like any social circles, although it's not hard to strike up a conversation. It may take a couple of visits, or a couple of days there, before you feel that you're fitting in. Don't worry about being self-conscious. Nearly everybody you meet will have been a first-time nudist, and they understand your jitters.

Cameras are strictly forbidden. If you have a cell phone or a tablet, they want you to put stickers over the lenses or just keep them out of sight.

Finally, clubs vary widely in their attitudes about sex, from family resorts that frown on any PDAs to "adult only" resorts that may or may not condone more intimate relationships, depending on the owners. (Some adults aren't looking for sex, they just want to get away from kids.) Ask beforehand if you have any concerns about this.

For more information, go to the websites for the American Association for Nude Recreation, the Naturist Society, or British Naturists. They'll give you the lowdown and also list the resorts in your area.

Thanks for the detalied response. Like @CuckGuy89 I have been wanting to take my wife to one. I'm the exhibitionist, but she has recently expressed a desire to meet "like minded" couples for "play". I think a swingers club would be too much for her as a first time attendee - as that is ALL there is at a swinger club - ie everyone is there for sex. As opposed to a clothing-optional resort, where there are so many other reason people are there.

My hope is after a couple of days we find a couple who is interested in exploring, and do so after a night out of partying. @jehoram Do you think that's reasonably possible (to meet a couple to play with? have you?

 

[Lifestyle66]

... I think a swingers club would be too much for her as a first time attendee - as that is ALL there is at a swinger club - ie everyone is there for sex. As opposed to a clothing-optional resort, where there are so many other reason people are there.

My hope is after a couple of days we find a couple who is interested in exploring, and do so after a night out of partying. @jehoram Do you think that's reasonably possible (to meet a couple to play with? have you?

I've researched (in real life) a lot of things like this for my stories.

In ref to the other detailed post, the American Association for Nude Recreation will guide you to nudist or clothing optional resorts, but not to swinger resorts. So, any potential hookups at those nudist places would be VERY discrete and would be difficult for newcomers to find any sexual adventures. Those are mostly people who just go without clothes.

My wife and I did once buy a day pass to spend time at Caliente near Tampa, Florida, which has a reputation as a "swinger" resort. The majority of that resort during the day was merely nudists hanging out at the pools, as they would at any other nudist resort. We didn't go to the night club that evening, but the restaurant was a clothed area, and just as good as any other non-nudist restaurant. Their gift shop had sex toys and other adult material and sexy clothing, but otherwise the resort was similar to other nudist and clothing optional places we've seen.

The MAIN difference we saw was in the evening when we ventured there at what was known as the "conversation pool", an area which had several inground hot tubs and a long serpentine pool with more vegetation to seclude portions, and at least in the evenings that area had more open sexual PDAs. There was no pressure for us to join in to play, and everyone had an attitude of "whatever" toward sex.

You could feel more comfortable bringing it up sex in conversations and not get a judgmental reaction. You might ask "Hey, do you want to go somewhere to play?" and they wouldn't be creeped out. If you're a guy asking a woman, she might merely decline with a polite "No, I don't feel like it," she might say "Sure, why not," or she might even just grab your cock and start playing with it right there. But be aware that if you're a guy, you might have another guy approach you and ask those same questions, so don't freak out! If you're straight, a simple "Sorry, but I don't go that way," would be the polite way to decline.

And don't be surprised to find trans and any other sexual preferences there. Take the opportunity to TALK to people and learn more. One of my most interesting conversations was a discussion my wife and I had with an M2F trans, who explained why she did it, and it made perfect sense to us that she was right in doing so.

But my recommendation for first-timers for what you describe is that you should do a web search for "swinger web site" and set up an account on one of those to find more compatible couples near you, and try meeting some of them at "meet & greets" in local bars or restaurants to find discrete playmates to explore, and many might be more patient in respecting reluctance and boundaries.

DO NOT invite someone you meet online via messages or e-mail to your home or give out your contact info until you meet them in person elsewhere. There are predators and dishonest people on those sites, too.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Good grief …

Amazing drama made from kindness. Lordy.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Thanks for the detalied response. Like @CuckGuy89 I have been wanting to take my wife to one. I'm the exhibitionist, but she has recently expressed a desire to meet "like minded" couples for "play". I think a swingers club would be too much for her as a first time attendee - as that is ALL there is at a swinger club - ie everyone is there for sex. As opposed to a clothing-optional resort, where there are so many other reason people are there.

My hope is after a couple of days we find a couple who is interested in exploring, and do so after a night out of partying. @jehoram Do you think that's reasonably possible (to meet a couple to play with? have you?

Definitely possible

 

[live4thebj]

Hi So my gf and I have recently talked about going to a nudist resort. For those of you that have been to places like this, what can we expect in terms of the guests there? Is everyone nude, or just sometimes? Do guests keep to themselves or is there a lot of socializing? Should we be on the lookout for creeps with cameras? Just general information for first time visitors

Let me be blunt. It doesn’t match people fantasies. If you are okay with that then go for it. But if are expecting hot perfect body woman and hung men good luck.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Let me be blunt. It doesn’t match people fantasies. If you are okay with that then go for it. But if are expecting hot perfect body woman and hung men good luck.

Always a few!!

 

[live4thebj]

Always a few!!

The ones I been at nope. But there are those perfect body men and woman but they are always wearing bathing suits.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife and I have been to the nude beach in New Jersey a few times. We’re going to try a nude resort in Palm Springs when we’re at the desert Southwest in the spring.

We are looking forward to it as well.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

The ones I been at nope. But there are those perfect body men and woman but they are always wearing bathing suits.

Been surprisingly decent at the ones I’ve visited.