Getting a spark back in a relationship

[cherrylips_au]

Ok I'm asking for help here for a series of stories I'm writing.

They are about a couple that have been in a longterm relationship, happily married with kids but just lacking the spark that they use to have.

I don't want to include any other person/s in their sex life just wanting some fresh ideas.

So if anyone can suggest something please do. I know your all a creative bunch of people and will be thankful for any suitable suggestions.

 

[mokum13]

Maybe they must explore pulbic or 'dangerous' places to get the spark back again.

 

[LadyOfTheMist]

Oh geez, they could see a counselor who could offer some helpful ideas. She could have some friends suggest things to jump start them. (I wonder if men have those talks with each other). She could start changing herself, that usually spurns all sorts of changes, like she could join gym. I did that once, when I was a married housewife, and I actually met an ex stripper close to my moms age. Oh she enlightened me to a great many things! And actually it changed a lot of things for me and my whole outlook on sex. Hmmm.......

Well, I hope that gives you some idea and thanks for letting me strut down memory lane!

Good luck!

Lady

 

[millieteases]

A tantric weekend seminar?

A visit to a nudist resort? (From personal experience, you have to be ready to see your grandma naked, but just the freedom of wandering around naked is very pleasant and can be arousing - maybe they have to take care of his erections so often that...)

A mutual visit to literotica and a decision to act out some of the stories?

 

[MR.GGG]

GSpot

From personal experience there is NOTHING better for turning a girl on (and keeping her turned on too) than "discovering" her GSpot for the first time. A couple who thought they'd tried everything and were lacking that extra fire in their lovemaking will flip out if the discover her GSpot for the first time.

Read the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread.

 

[cherrylips_au]

Mokum13 thanks for your input, in the first part they are exploring slight exhibionisim, so I think it would fit to continue along that line.

Lady of the mist, I do like the idea of a consellor, but it's basically over a weekend that I'm looking at, will keep it in mind for possible other stories. Maybe going to see a sex therapist could turn into an interesting time.
Your other suggestions are good too, I might come back and pick your brains for more info if your willing to share.
Glad you were able to relive some good memories whilst helping me.

Millieteases, sounds like you had a good experience at the nudist resort, thanks for sharing your ideas. I think you have given me something to work with for later stories, maybe I need to do some more research first.

Mr GGG, I will read it again, I have read most of it before but not lately so will re-read the whole thing when I get some time. Thanks for your suggestion.

 

[LadyOfTheMist]

Feel free to pick my brain any time you would like, Cherry. I have all sorts of juicy little morsels floating around in there. ::

I think honestly that sometimes we women get caught up in daily life and stressors and we forget our sexual selves. In long relationships it is easy to forget each other and the "us" part as well. Those are the things that need nurturing and attention. If you feel beautiful you will radiate beauty. And anyone worth their salt knows that there is nothing sexier than a woman who feels she is beautiful to herself and the man she loves.

What if the female in the story went away to a spa for a few days and found some flamboyant older women who was attractive and maybe a little out of shape? They could strike up a conversation and this woman could teach your wife that size and looks really don't matter, its more how sexual and senual you are. Wifey could then take this home to hubby and teach him some of what shes learned. Eh, its just a random thought.

Have a good evening.

Lady

 

[cherrylips_au]

Lady, you sound like a lot of fun. With lots of great stories.

If you like I'll let you know when the stories are finished, I have the first part done but want to submit all of the parts together, so hopefully I'll get them finished in the next week or so if RL allows it.

It's so true that women do often put aside their sexual side to concentrate on their other roles, such as mother, worker, housewife etc.

Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.