GET the FUCK OUT!

[Summery]

I have had this discussion with both, Calypso and Juicylips in the last week. I had mentioned about it being a New Year, and how it was time for myself to do a little house cleaning, overall make some much needed changes. Which led into Caly's input about things more specific, whether it be emotional or physical.

Are there things in your life you want to clear out or change?

Thoughts, dreams, current involvement's, the decor in your home, your future, your job, your closet?

It can be about anything at all.

 

[Rhys]

I know I need to change something, else this shit will never end

unfortunately it requires something drastic and I can't make that sacrifice yet

maybe I will never have to...we shall see.

 

[calypso_21]

I have had this discussion with both, Calypso and Juicylips in the last week. I had mentioned about it being a New Year, and how it was time for myself to do a little house cleaning, overall make some much needed changes. Which led into Caly's input about things more specific, whether it be emotional or physical.

Are there things in your life you want to clear out or change?

Thoughts, dreams, current involvement's, the decor in your home, your future, your job, your closet?

It can be about anything at all.

yes there are things I want to change. Quite a large number it seems right at the moment. I've got two major ones nearly completed...oh three...no wait four...hmm...More than I thought. I think I need to put more thought into this!

 

[Rubyfruit]

I've been embracing the word, "no."

No.

No!

Absolutely not.

Forget it.

Nope.

Uhuh.

 

[Summery]

I've been embracing the word, "no."

No.

No!

Absolutely not.

Forget it.

Nope.

Uhuh.

You sound like my soon to be 5 year old.

Seriously, I understand what you are saying.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Are there things in your life you want to clear out or change?

Thoughts, dreams, current involvement's, the decor in your home, your future, your job, your closet?

It can be about anything at all.

Yes, I have noticed I have been changing somethings, especially when it comes to eliminating certain people out of my life. I realized that they are not good individuals and essentially they are just wasting my time. So I am cleaning out those sort of individuals ....

And, I am also changing some little things , when it comes to health ... and all that stuff ...

So far ... so good...

 

[juicylips]

Chickie...you know what I need and want. I whine and bitch to you enough about it.
Peppermintrish gets my inane ramblings, too.

What Ruby mentioned is probably top of my list. Maybe if I wrote the word NO five hundred times it would seep into my self conscious.

 

[Smiley777]

Lately, I have been cleaning up memories. Chucking out the pain of past relationships, the guilt of missed opportunities...etc.

Also I have been making changes in how I approach things. I am slowly scraping away the person I was and making real progress towards being the man I really want to be.

 

[juicylips]

SMILEY!!


LOVE your av, darlin'

Makes me smile.

 

[Sillyman]

Celibacy, which would be a big one for many here.

Get the hell out.

 

[seXieleXie]

i think i need to change schools, and that idea is breaking my heart.

 

[MissVictoria]

I need to grow some balls. Ermm... figuratively speaking.

 

[Shadowann2]

I need to make a lot of changes in my personal relationships, but I'm not sure if I'm ready yet.

I want to get all this junk the fuck out of my house so I'll have more room!

 

[Guest]

Yes, I do.

 

[Pixie]

I know I need to make a few quite drastic changes.
But as they'll make a huge difference in my life,
both internally and outwardly (did that make any sense?)...
I'm taking the slow and steady approach.
It's an ongoing process, has been for a while now,
I hope this is the year I'll finally manage to make a few
of the more significant changes

 

[sterlingclay]

I never 'pick' a day, such as New Years to make changes. It's and ongoing process that will continue until the day I die. Got nothin better to do. Every day I look back on the previous thinking how naive I was and thankful I learned something new.

 

[fuzzel]

Downsizing my household this year and clearing out LOTS of stuff.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I decided that this year I wouldn't make any 'resolutions'. I just break 'em by the end of January anyway. This time I have some goals in mind. For me, 'goals' seem more attainable for some reason.

My biggest one is that I'm going to stop being a 'doormat' for some of the people in my life. It's OK to say NO and it's OK to put ME first once in awhile and there are certain things in my life that will have to be on MY TERMS.

Juicylips and I have had this conversation already, haven't we sweets? And you're ramblings are never inane ......... I always know exactly what you're saying and how you're feeling.


Good luck to all of you that are working to make changes in your life.

 

[Guest]

I need to change a few things.

I need to stop thinking that people are going to do what they say they are. It does nothing but cause extra pain and suffering that I already have too damn much of in my life.

Next, I am going to let go of people who can't seem to squeeze me into their life, because they are busy with other people or just don't give a damn.

And finally...I am going to get off my ass and meet people that I have put off meeting for far too long.

 

[Guest]

Just skimmed through.

 

[Carp]

I am going to open up more to the people around me.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I'm seriously considering having sex again...maybe even starting to date again. I took last year off, to clear my head, and now I'm ready for the good times to start.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Oh, the things I need to 'clean'.

I'm going to be more selfish this year, learn to say no, learn to make sure I have time for me. I'm not going to arrange my life around everyone else's anymore. Not just here and in my marriage, but in other relationships too.

I told my sisters to stop calling me to bitch about each other and mom. I'm no longer playing mediator for the whole world.

I spent the morning physically cleaning my house. I'll probably spend the evening doing it too. I'm going to make more of an effort to maintain the cleanliness, but only so far as it makes me happy. I'm giving up guilt cleaning.

I started back onto my low carb diet. I hope to drop 60 pounds by June, and I know that it's possible. If I don't accomplish it, I'm not going to beat myself up about it though. I'm just going to try again.

I've decided to honestly try and clean all the resentment and hostility out of my marriage. If I can't do that by the end of May, I'm ending the marriage so we can both move on.

It's going to be a hard year, but I woke up New Years Day and realised that I'll be 30 this year. It's time for me to grow the fuck up and make myself happy.

 

[DarkAngel]

Should I change my socks that I have been wearing since three years ago?

 

[celiaKitten]

Are there things in your life you want to clear out or change?

Thoughts, dreams, current involvement's, the decor in your home, your future, your job, your closet?

It can be about anything at all.

I did this back in October/November, remember? I basically wiped my entire life clean of everything but my family, my car, my lover and a few possesions.

I'm a free wandering gypsy-like 21 yr old girl with few ties and a whole lot of time ahead of me .. with no one to decide what I do with tomorrow but myself.

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