G-spot!?!

[Cordae]

(my very first post, long time "guest" lurker tho...)

My hubby has recently decided that I need to have a g-spot orgasm. I don't know if he's doing it wrong, or if its all just a mental thing, but I just can't have one. We bought one of those g-spot stimulating vibrators, with a curved bulbous end, it feels good for a few minutes, but then all I feel is pressure. UNCOMFORTABLE pressure. I think I've been told that it's normal, but I just can't get beyond the pressure. At the same time, it almost makes me feel like if I let him continue, I may pee!!

Help! I would love to experience this, but am in dire need of help!

 

[taolanes]

Well I've heard this many times, that "feeling you have to pee" sensation means you finally hit it. Let that feeling go and you will be quite satisfied when you realite it wasn't pee it was a g spot orgasm....or so i heard

 

[Marcus2]

exactly, my girlfriend is able to eject her own cum. She has told me it feels like she needs to pee and when it happens, its one of the best things she has expereienced, so yes, he is doing it right.

As for the pressure, just try and pass it, it may be because all the female juices you gspot has soaked up has a tremendous amount in it. So, just let it go and trust me, you'll feel amazed

 

[Cathleen]

Welcome out of lurkdome.

Read this thread....

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

Enough said.

 

[Cordae]

thank! that thread was quite helpful!

It looks like I'm just going to have to grin and bear it when it comes to the pressure and the "pee" feeling until I get used to it.

... maybe I stayed in that darn lurking tree too long.

 

[hillblazer]

My sweetie has not been able to stand the pressure yet either. We will just have to keep trying.

 

[RavenousRae]

I couldn't get over the weird feeling either - it always felt like it might lead to something but never did. It was such an odd sensation, it was hard to tell whether I liked it or didn't. But I always loved my clitoral orgasms so why mess with what you know works! Although experimentation is fun!

 

[Cordae]

I think the experimentation is what (so far) I'm liking about it. Sure a good clitoral orgasm is great, but my issue is making everything stay exciting, ya know? We call it adding "spice" to our sex lives.

I'm glad that the "pressure" thing isn't just me. I'm anxious to try some of the things explained in that thread in the link above!

 

[dixie50]

"Stay with it" and you won't be sorry. I love it when I have an orgasm from this kind of stimulation. It was kind of hard at first not to stop, but I was really glad when I kept going.

 

[GenesisMan]

I was dating a girl and i know I found her g-spot. The issue was she never wanted me to finsh her. I was so frustrated. I tried to convince her to let it go but for some reason she wouldn't.

 

[Cathleen]

Isn't it a great thread? I think it is one of the top three of Lit.!!

I actually had my first g-spot by myself...I had a new vibe and it must have all been right. I thought I had tinkled at first but...

It was incredible! Keep trying

 

[Cordae]

ya know, i was thinking about doing that... I figure if i try it sitting in the bathtub, that might take away some of my "peeing" fear, or even lay a garbage bag and a towel on the bed. If I try it solo first, it could help dissolve some of my fears once I try it with my SO, right?

 

[Cathleen]

I do think that is a good idea. Whatever is most comfortable for you and then let the 'process' begin.

 

[evildwarf]

ok, firstly... the gspot is easily found first with fingers and ears... i'm certain most of you know the general location, but as this differes from woman to woman... you need to feel to find each one's spot... feel up inside with two fingers toward the stomach wall... the gspot is the muscles that control the urethra... this is why you get the sensation of needing to pee... this can be controlled or let go of... and feel free to let go... yes it's messy, try the shower first if you feel badly about it... but the liquid that is excreted from the urethra through g-spot stimulation is NOT PEE!... NOT PEE... thought that worth saying twice... it is a clear liquid that builds in the urethra... like a semen without the sperm... do not fear this feeling, embrace it... and men... if you cannot appreciate a woman standing before you, at her feet, and having her hot come flow over you while you please her so fully, this is your loss... it is a most wonderous feeling... be sure to tune in later when i tell you how to achieve g-spot stimulation during intercourse...

 

[miss_kate]

I heard a shocking statistic the other day- only 30% of all females can orgasm from penetrative sex (G SPOT), only 70% can orgasm at all!

That is horrendous...

The best way to find the g spot is to find it yourself. It my take a little time so bear with me.

Everyone will tell you to beckon with your finger and to scan the centre wall of you gooey bits.

I personally think that the best approach is crouching with legs apart so your muscles are tightened. Lean back a little and you may not have to bend your finger/s.

Have a 'fiddle' and see where you get too. If you feel like peeing (shhh) you know that you are probably at the right place. Stick with it and pleasure will definately follow.

Then, show your hubby how it is done and draw him a map!

Waaallaaa

 

[Guest]

I heard a shocking statistic the other day- only 30% of all females can orgasm from penetrative sex (G SPOT), only 70% can orgasm at all!

That is horrendous...

The best way to find the g spot is to find it yourself. It my take a little time so bear with me.

Everyone will tell you to beckon with your finger and to scan the centre wall of you gooey bits.

I personally think that the best approach is crouching with legs apart so your muscles are tightened. Lean back a little and you may not have to bend your finger/s.

Have a 'fiddle' and see where you get too. If you feel like peeing (shhh) you know that you are probably at the right place. Stick with it and pleasure will definately follow.

Then, show your hubby how it is done and draw him a map!

Waaallaaa

Ah, but it's much more fun having the man find it himself. It should give him a real ego

 

[merrygoround88]

Would it be better if you have a clit orgasm first? I think then it is much harder to pee then ,right.
In regards to peeing,I think I started something that doesn't help. Before I know we will be having sex I usually go to the bathroom When I was younger I would apparently push on this spot( didn't know about it then) and feeling the urge would work with it and ened up emptying my bladder more. So my issue is I'm afraid I will pee. I also did not get any feeling from it. Any suggestions? thanks

 

[evildwarf]

the area of effect is denoted by ridges inside the vaginal wall, above the pubic bone and toward the stomach wall... the exact area varies by woman... but that will help you find it generally... its function is for birth purposes... the birthing baby's head would stimulate the g-spot, causing a sever raise in pain threshhold, as well as more lubricant and convulsions to assist in the birth and to help relieve the mother of severe pain... and they're fun for dad's too

 

[aphi]

so youre saying that the g spot isnt for pleasure at all? Or did I read that wrong?

 

[Guest]

PLEASURE!!!!!

 

[RedSoreBottom]

I can't get beyond the pressure either. I get the strong sensation of wanting to urinate, and it lasts forever.... How long does it take for the sensation to go away?

 

[Guest]

I can't get beyond the pressure either. I get the strong sensation of wanting to urinate, and it lasts forever.... How long does it take for the sensation to go away?

Girl, I'm fighting the same.

I'm trying not to think about squirting, and want to so badly. I was told to stop thinking about it, and it should just come naturally, when you're relaxed.

This happened the other night where I was so close (so I thought), and I just emptied my bladder for the 2nd time, and he begin to tickle my fancy
God, did I feel I had to pee, and after he took his finger out, the feeling went away. Damn, made me so frustrated! But I really enjoy the feeling now. Unlike, at first, it almost felt a little painful. Now I just love it!! I just want to squirt, damn it!

 

[mikeofokc]

I heard a shocking statistic the other day- only 30% of all females can orgasm from penetrative sex (G SPOT), only 70% can orgasm at all!

That is horrendous...


Then, show your hubby how it is done and draw him a map!

Waaallaaa

Miss Kate gave some good advice. Realize folks that we dont learn about sex except by practice and listening to the experiences of others. Realize also that we all think we know it all about sex at various stages of our lives. I for one knew about the G-spot and how to stimulate a woman to mulitple orgasms but I never knew about the pressure issue of the G-spot and would not have even considered trying this technique if I hadn't read it here. So you may have to show your man how to do it or even better let him read the thread. Remember just like when we are driving a car, we wont ask directions but give us a map and we will find our way.

Regarding the issue of high number of women who havent orgasmed or cant orgasm. Its sad but true. I dont know percentages but I know I have heard a very large percentage of female freinds admit that they didnt have an orgasm until late in life (30's). They thought they did but they just didnt think if that was all it was that it was that great. I think it is again about education of our bodies and also understanding that great sex and orgasms occur because of what happens between our ears and not our legs.

 

[MR.GGG]

Read

There's still a whole bunch of questions being asked in here that have been answered long ago and in more detail in the TRY THIS thread. I kow it's a long read and there's too much fluff at times but if you get past that you'll have a better understanding of how, why, how hard, how long, how deep, how many etc etc than ANY book I've ever seen on the subject.

https://forum.literotica.com/...ead.php?t=70892

 

[evildwarf]

so youre saying that the g spot isnt for pleasure at all? Or did I read that wrong?

sorry aphi, away for a bit...the function of this spot as far as i've been able to research and gain from reading and educational channels... is that the gspot stimulation does a few different things... it raises the pain threshhold for child birth, generally considered that the cranium of the newborn would hit the g-spot before crowning, raising the pain bar, and also, causing what can be, almost like an electrical convulsion in a woman... i advise caution in the use of such a powerful tool... i've broken three beds stimulating g-spot orgasms... as others have said... it's great and worth the effort... as to the pleasure aspect?... i don't know... i've been told by several women they orgasmed during child birth...who is to know?... mother nature is full of wonder... ain't it grand?