I'm having a hard time with this. I've been with enough people to know what I like and what I enjoy. I'm open minded and I'm willing to try new things but for some reason I very rarely have orgams that are not the result of clitoral work on my part. I'm not sure what I'm doing " wrong" but I would like to figure this out as I feel closer to my partner when I orgasm the other way too. Just recently it happened b/t myself and the man I'm currently with but I feel it was on a fluke as I do not know what I did or changed ( or what he did or changed) to make it happen. Any suggestions/tips?
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It is hit and miss, you will have the sensation almost like you are going to pee, but you are not. Hang in there and let it flow!
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I would agree with this "technique" -- seems to normally work pretty well from what i can gather!!
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this ALWAYS works for me while masturbating.....use the largest toy you have inside your pussy and use it hard and fast. I also put a vibrator on my clit and I have incredible orgasms that way.
Once you can do this yourself....you will recognize the signs...and can let things go from there!
this ALWAYS works for me while masturbating.....use the largest toy you have inside your pussy and use it hard and fast. I also put a vibrator on my clit and I have incredible orgasms that way.
Once you can do this yourself....you will recognize the signs...and can let things go from there!
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Try This
You might take a look at my TRY THIS thread here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
Many (MANY) women have posted similar problems getting there and there's plenty of advice from them as well as from partners who managed to get them there - sometimes the very ffirst time and sometimes after months of trying it now and then.
Part of the loss of sensation, I believe, comes from an inhibition to really let go. That can be a trust thing with a partner or just that it really is a new and more internally intense sensation than what you're used to with a clitoral build-up and orgasm. If you think this may be the case I suggest you explore yourself and then show your partner the TRY THIS thread or teach him to do what you've done to fully trigger your G.
One of the most important things to remember is that we all react differently. Some G almost immediately - the first time. Some really have to work at it. A few, sadly, never seem to be able to trigger this. I wish I knew why. Probably a mixture of physical and mental. This also CAN/MAY trigger the infamous SQUIRT ... or not. The way I see it if your partner can make you cum 20 - 30 - 40 or more times a night and you DON'T ejaculate that is NOT a failure. It's fun w/OUT the mess to clean up after.
Take your time and like SO MANY have discovered before you - it IS well worth the effort, patience and persistence.
You might take a look at my TRY THIS thread here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
Many (MANY) women have posted similar problems getting there and there's plenty of advice from them as well as from partners who managed to get them there - sometimes the very ffirst time and sometimes after months of trying it now and then.
Part of the loss of sensation, I believe, comes from an inhibition to really let go. That can be a trust thing with a partner or just that it really is a new and more internally intense sensation than what you're used to with a clitoral build-up and orgasm. If you think this may be the case I suggest you explore yourself and then show your partner the TRY THIS thread or teach him to do what you've done to fully trigger your G.
One of the most important things to remember is that we all react differently. Some G almost immediately - the first time. Some really have to work at it. A few, sadly, never seem to be able to trigger this. I wish I knew why. Probably a mixture of physical and mental. This also CAN/MAY trigger the infamous SQUIRT ... or not. The way I see it if your partner can make you cum 20 - 30 - 40 or more times a night and you DON'T ejaculate that is NOT a failure. It's fun w/OUT the mess to clean up after.
Take your time and like SO MANY have discovered before you - it IS well worth the effort, patience and persistence.
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I wish I knew where or how to stimulate my g spot myself! The only way I've ever been able to get masterbate was clitorally. Any suggestions?
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I sure do, sent you a PM to see if you'd like to chat about it. I'd love to help you out.
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This is how I have a gspot orgasm.. I cant cum with JUST a dick.. I have to have stimulation. So...
1. Get very excited.. have some oral, kissing etc.
2. Get in doggy style position and spread your legs far apart
3. Get a pillow and kind of hug it.. put your face on the mattress
4. Put your hand on your clit to give stimulation... using the pillow as a prop so your arm doesnt get tired
5. Have your boyfriend/husband put his cock in you slowly.. at this angle it is VERY easy to feel the gspot. But it is about 1 1/2 inches in the vagina.. so the head of his dick should hit it nicely
6. Have him fuck you slowly until you start feeling a little like you have to pee... the gspot is right under the bladder.. after you feel this sensation you will know where the gspot is.
And when you DO cum.... OMG it is freakin amazing!!!!! Its a clitoral AND Gspot orgasm at the same time.
1. Get very excited.. have some oral, kissing etc.
2. Get in doggy style position and spread your legs far apart
3. Get a pillow and kind of hug it.. put your face on the mattress
4. Put your hand on your clit to give stimulation... using the pillow as a prop so your arm doesnt get tired
5. Have your boyfriend/husband put his cock in you slowly.. at this angle it is VERY easy to feel the gspot. But it is about 1 1/2 inches in the vagina.. so the head of his dick should hit it nicely
6. Have him fuck you slowly until you start feeling a little like you have to pee... the gspot is right under the bladder.. after you feel this sensation you will know where the gspot is.
And when you DO cum.... OMG it is freakin amazing!!!!! Its a clitoral AND Gspot orgasm at the same time.
You could also try having sex in an armless chair (or bed, whichever...the chair is a faster angle for me) with you on top: toss an arm around his neck, grab hold of the chair back behind him, or wrest hold of his hair. Position yourself so that your pubic bone tilts upward. Utilize the kegel contraction to your advantage and thrust back and forth like you might on a swing. His glans is perfectly aligned with the g-spot, and the climax is fantastic.
If you're in bed, you can place your hands on his chest for support. If he's sitting up in bed with you on top, you can do the arm wrap (etc.) or use his arms for stability.
If you're in bed, you can place your hands on his chest for support. If he's sitting up in bed with you on top, you can do the arm wrap (etc.) or use his arms for stability.
It sounds as though it's becoming something that you're starting to think/worry about while you're in the moment & that's what's killin' the moment.
Squirting when is cum is something I've been able to do since I started playing with myself...& it can be obtained either through clitoral or G-spot stim - there's alot of different things that go into having this happen & mind set it huge. So is positioning...a guaranteed angle for me can be leaning against a stool/countertop & having him kneeling below me licking, lapping away at my pussy while sliding something deep into me. Doggie style with legs spread wide & ass in the air...it's all about the angle
It does feel like you're going to pee, but it's not & this is truly an unbelievable orgasm. Try to just let yourself get truly lost in what's happening & not worry about what the end result will be. Lose yourself in what your partner's doing to you & keep a little fantasy going in your head that's compatible with what he's doing to you...just to distract you from focusing on what you want to happen. I know...it's easier said than done, but don't get frustrated with yourself - that'll just make it harder. Best wishes for a juicy & amazing orgasm.
Squirting when is cum is something I've been able to do since I started playing with myself...& it can be obtained either through clitoral or G-spot stim - there's alot of different things that go into having this happen & mind set it huge. So is positioning...a guaranteed angle for me can be leaning against a stool/countertop & having him kneeling below me licking, lapping away at my pussy while sliding something deep into me. Doggie style with legs spread wide & ass in the air...it's all about the angle
It does feel like you're going to pee, but it's not & this is truly an unbelievable orgasm. Try to just let yourself get truly lost in what's happening & not worry about what the end result will be. Lose yourself in what your partner's doing to you & keep a little fantasy going in your head that's compatible with what he's doing to you...just to distract you from focusing on what you want to happen. I know...it's easier said than done, but don't get frustrated with yourself - that'll just make it harder. Best wishes for a juicy & amazing orgasm.
And see, the bottom is a fruitless sexcapade for me because the front vaginal wall tends to get little stimulation. Unless he does the double-time clit rub on the penis outward stroke. Probably, it's mental as well. The gushing orgasms are fine, but they aren't as intense as the normal g-spot gasms I usually have--those are brought on by intense stimulation to the front of the vaginal wall.
The cervix plays a role also, as I use it in conjunction with the kegel to "trap" the glans between the cervix and the frontal vaginal wall. This positioning allows for a perfect placement of the clit and rectum as well: clit finds a nice grind on the "root" of the penis, and the rectum gets a good testicle massage. Orgasms born from this area, for me, transverse the uterus and through the rest of the body.
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It sounds as though it's becoming something that you're starting to think/worry about while you're in the moment & that's what's killin' the moment.
Squirting when is cum is something I've been able to do since I started playing with myself...& it can be obtained either through clitoral or G-spot stim - there's alot of different things that go into having this happen & mind set it huge. So is positioning...a guaranteed angle for me can be leaning against a stool/countertop & having him kneeling below me licking, lapping away at my pussy while sliding something deep into me. Doggie style with legs spread wide & ass in the air...it's all about the angle
It does feel like you're going to pee, but it's not & this is truly an unbelievable orgasm. Try to just let yourself get truly lost in what's happening & not worry about what the end result will be. Lose yourself in what your partner's doing to you & keep a little fantasy going in your head that's compatible with what he's doing to you...just to distract you from focusing on what you want to happen. I know...it's easier said than done, but don't get frustrated with yourself - that'll just make it harder. Best wishes for a juicy & amazing orgasm.
I agree with you 100% if you start thinking about how you can't Orgasm you won't be able to. It is all in your mind, I have had issues where I was nervous and at times could not get it up, the moment I relaxed and didn't think about it, I was raging to go. I have made most girls that I am with squirt and I find it to be one of the hottest sexiest things possible during sex. I am sure you are right about having the right angle, I am pretty well endowed and I think that can also help but I am not sure. I would love to try sometime with you Arenya
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