4bidnfruit
Really Experienced
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- Sep 1, 2009
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When I married my husband, I trusted and believed that he would never betray me. If he comes to me tomorrow and tells me that he wants an open marriage, I will be gone but I won’t hate him for breaking my spirit with lies.
I don’t know if an open marriage is capable of surviving but it might be easier than learning that the person I trusted the most, betrayed me. There are plenty of people that “work’ on their marriage after a secret affair because of the commitment but if I had to make the choice, I think I’d rather be in an open relationship. I can leave a relationship at any time but if I choose to stay, I’d like to make the decision on facts rather than my delusion of love.
I don’t know if an open marriage is capable of surviving but it might be easier than learning that the person I trusted the most, betrayed me. There are plenty of people that “work’ on their marriage after a secret affair because of the commitment but if I had to make the choice, I think I’d rather be in an open relationship. I can leave a relationship at any time but if I choose to stay, I’d like to make the decision on facts rather than my delusion of love.
