Fresno Men..Ya scared of a woman with kids??

[funnygurl1953]

This 51 year old bbw is lookin for a man in my life that is willing ..( and able) haha..to share a full sexual life despite the kids.....ilmao..serious tho......Isnt there anyone out there that dosnt have a record........not a alcoholic...dosnt owe 10 million dollars to child support...dosnt have the irs on their back threatoning jail ????
Im a older woman with young children lookin for a life partner ...Someone to talk to and explore the options we have to live our lives to the fullest...
It seems since my divorice that I find men are scared of a woman with children...........Is it true???

 

[Warmslide]

This 51 year old bbw is lookin for a man in my life that is willing ..( and able) haha..to share a full sexual life despite the kids.....ilmao..serious tho......Isnt there anyone out there that dosnt have a record........not a alcoholic...dosnt owe 10 million dollars to child support...dosnt have the irs on their back threatoning jail ????
Im a older woman with young children lookin for a life partner ...Someone to talk to and explore the options we have to live our lives to the fullest...
It seems since my divorice that I find men are scared of a woman with children...........Is it true???

Nah...not scared....have three myself....but kids are friggin scary.....lol

Not in your area...am married...but good luck hun....not every man is scared of kids...what they are scared of mostly is a life with someon elses kids...and having no control over them....

 

[funnygurl1953]

No control over kids...

Yah i hear ya..Havin no control cause they not your kdis has to be rough..Before you get together..you have to decide together how to disapline or you lose control and give it to the kdis..for sure.........

 

[WickedEve]

This 51 year old bbw is lookin for a man in my life that is willing ..( and able) haha..to share a full sexual life despite the kids.....ilmao..serious tho......Isnt there anyone out there that dosnt have a record........not a alcoholic...dosnt owe 10 million dollars to child support...dosnt have the irs on their back threatoning jail ????
Im a older woman with young children lookin for a life partner ...Someone to talk to and explore the options we have to live our lives to the fullest...
It seems since my divorice that I find men are scared of a woman with children...........Is it true???

I can relate. 40 and 2 small children. The ex left a few years ago. But it's not just men who are afraid. I'm afraid of who I may expose my children to. So far, I'm still alone, but I don't have to worry about my kids. Being single has its pros and cons. I do like being the head of the household. I love the freedom of doing as I please (as long as the kids say I can. ) Anyway, good luck.

 

[funnygurl1953]

poimz..

Omg gurl.............Long as the kids say we can..That was funny..Yes..we cannot take men home with children here..My boy told me not to date men my age because I dont act like 51...I thought it was cute that th ey even thought of me..MY kids are 8..10...10..and 12..I also have a 24 year old young man that I have conservatorship of . He has a nurse with hiim durin the day because of his disablities ...................four cats..a spoiled azz dawg and a sisterllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

 

[OneSublimeGuy]

Omg gurl.............Long as the kids say we can..That was funny..Yes..we cannot take men home with children here..My boy told me not to date men my age because I dont act like 51...I thought it was cute that th ey even thought of me..MY kids are 8..10...10..and 12..I also have a 24 year old young man that I have conservatorship of . He has a nurse with hiim durin the day because of his disablities ...................four cats..a spoiled azz dawg and a sisterllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

Hi. Not bein' sarcastic here at all but I'm wonderin' if you should go for a "I'll live at my place and you live at yours" arrangement? I say that because with all that goin' on, unless the guy has 6 people to bring with, he'll get outvoted on everything!!

I think the scariest thing about any relationship is that if the other person decides to make you miserable that day, you can't go home cuz you're already there!!

Besides, if it's not her house then the girlfriend doesn't put a face full of cold cream until she gets home!! heh heh

Just some desultory thoughts.

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[ratatoskov]

kids

not that i dont like kids, i do
but i dont want to get serious with someone who already has two or three kids of their own. i still want to have my own, and many women dont want to have 4 or 5 kids, and i dont know if i could deal with that many anyway. so unless the woman is happy to have more children, or any children for that matter, i cant see myself working on a relationship where such a central point of the relationship is not settled. after all if i want kids, and she does not, what am i suppose to do?
that just my two cents.
mike