You start with a fallacious assumption. It is possible to "land" an commercial airliner on calm seas -- they are called glassy calm seas because there are no waves.
Even in moderately heavy seas, or other less than ideal conditions, it is possible to "ditch at sea" with minimal casualties if the airplane can be controlled. People hav esurvived ditching at sea in much worse conditions than a dead calm (which wouldn't have been the case anyway because they apparently hit a thunderstorm and lost electrical power -- lightening strike?
The last news I heard was that wreckage has been found 400 miles from Brazil and that it appeared that the plane had attempted to turn back to Rio. That suggests that the plane was not controllable, and there has been no mention of emergency transponders from life rafts or mention of any survivors in life vests. So it doesn't sound like the crew got an opportunity to even try a controlled landing.
Waves are a relative term. Are you suggesting that there are conditions where the Atlantic Ocean does not have waves? I give you Dr. Hogben, an expert in Naval architecture. "Even if there is no wind locally, waves still form," Dr. Hogben said. "That is because of swell. The Atlantic has a continuous background of swell."
The Discovery broadcast on the Hudson River ditching interviewed an aeronautic expert who explained in some detail why airplanes would be unlikely to survive ditching in an ocean. If any piece of the aircraft hits the water at the wrong angle or in the wrong sequence, the plane cartwheels and comes apart. With any waves at all, the chance of that happens increases greatly. Do you have a record of a commercial jet successfully ditching in the ocean? The only one I could find was the Ethiopian Airline 767 in the Indian Ocean. They were almost on the beach when they hit and 71% of the passengers died. All of the other jets have ditched in rivers or lakes.
In moderately heavy seas, with no chance of setting down without nose, wing, and or tail stopping abruptly when it hits the water, the plane would disintegrate on impact. The odds of anyone surviving that are virtually non-existent, and that's even before you factor in things like lack of a rescue craft.