Foreplay

[shahla_rose]

I am with this new guy and although he is resently divorced his sex life during that marriage was hardly there. Well right now we are not having intercourse but we are playing around. Any ideas on somethings I can do to rock this guys socks off! Help!

 

[BurgerFuhrer]

Okay.. this one may be a little hard to pull-off, but if executed properly is a sure-fire winner!

Step 1: Buy some sexy lingerie, preferably black or red.
Step 2: Purchase this: http://www.athanorfx.com/smlrsaw.jpg
Step 3: Set a date with your guy some night, close to midnight.
Step 4: Blind fold him.
Step 5: Undress, but leave the lingerie on.
Step 6: Now put the mask on.
Step 7: Tease him with your hands or feet.
Step 8: Get behind him and take the blind fold off.
Step 9: Enjoy hours and hours of fun!

 

[enginr58]

There are plenty of things you can do as far as the sex goes but having been in a bad marriage that had no sex for a long time, I can say that sometimes it's not the sex he needs. I know that for me just the attension and being made to feel wanted was what broke the ice. I had problems having orgasms and began to feel like I was "broken". My GF assured me that it didn't matter that much if I came or if I came early or late, that it would all work out. She really was patient and we enjoyed learnign about eachother. That made the biggest difference. So don't be to surprised if he cums too fast or not at all. The emotional trauma is more than I expected. On the plus side when I had trouble cumming I lasted a very long time. Once we got more comfortable things really heated up and now we have been together 4 years and we are like to teenagers.
Best of luck

 

[Leah57]

There are plenty of things you can do as far as the sex goes but having been in a bad marriage that had no sex for a long time, I can say that sometimes it's not the sex he needs. I know that for me just the attension and being made to feel wanted was what broke the ice. I had problems having orgasms and began to feel like I was "broken". My GF assured me that it didn't matter that much if I came or if I came early or late, that it would all work out. She really was patient and we enjoyed learnign about eachother. That made the biggest difference. So don't be to surprised if he cums too fast or not at all. The emotional trauma is more than I expected. On the plus side when I had trouble cumming I lasted a very long time. Once we got more comfortable things really heated up and now we have been together 4 years and we are like to teenagers.
Best of luck

I have to agree (btw, I'm the GF that he's referring to!!!)

Communication is most definitely the key here, too. We talked about sex a LOT before we ever got intimate. If the subject is too difficult to broach face to face, we also found that 'conversing' either by email or IM was easier. When you talk that way, you can gather your thoughts before they are "out there" for the other person to digest. We still use this method when the need or desire arises.

Take it slow, realize that it's the "intimacy" part of sex that he needs almost more than the PIV part, and you will be more than rewarded.

Eng, I beg to differ..... teenagers got NOTHING on us......