For the Babygirls: Please and Thank You, Daddy

[Wild_Honey_66]

A blurt thread for subs and littles.

Or, you know, whomever.








(Because Trekka! )

 

[Mrtenant]

What? No pictures?

 

[barefootgirl69]

YAY! Our very own blurt thread!

Good girl, Honey!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

What? No pictures?

We've already got one of those.

And don't ask me to find it for you, I'm not your mama.

YAY! Our very own blurt thread!

Good girl, Honey!

I know.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I love when he shows up, just when I need him.

 

[Mrtenant]

We've already got one of those.

And don't ask me to find it for you, I'm not your mama.

Thank goodness you're not. Totally awkward flirting with my mama. Any cookies left?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

What daydreams are made of...

His voice
His hands
The way his eyes crinkle when he smiles

A meal with him
Long walks, hand in hand
Dancing in his arms

My head on his shoulder
His kiss on my hair
One 'shh' and I'm melting again

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Just one man I can let my guard down with..
Too much to ask?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Just one man I can let my guard down with..
Too much to ask?

It's not too much to ask...no. One day, it will happen and you will be glad it hadn't happened before with anyone else. You have to sift a lot of dirt to get to that piece of gold.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Just one man I can let my guard down with..
Too much to ask?

They seem to be limited time offers...

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

So. Self-care for girls/pyl without (or far away from) Daddies/pyl.

Shall we discuss?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

So. Self-care for girls/pyl without (or far away from) Daddies/pyl.

Shall we discuss?

I will definitely discuss this topic at length when I am not at work. (Lunch break)

I subscribed so I don't lose the thread.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I will definitely discuss this topic at length when I am not at work. (Lunch break)

I subscribed so I don't lose the thread.

Awesome. Looking forward to it.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ladies, I think I've found us a winner.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1295436

 

[barefootgirl69]

Ladies, I think I've found us a winner.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1295436

mmmmm... no. LOL

Self-care! Keep busy is the biggest one. I've found that I need to keep friends near me to talk to, who understand me, but also respect the way things are.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I said I'd come back in here and post, but, idk.... It's kind of a sensitive subject with me. I'm interested in how others handle it.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

mmmmm... no. LOL

Self-care! Keep busy is the biggest one. I've found that I need to keep friends near me to talk to, who understand me, but also respect the way things are.

Agreed! Both of those are really important.

What are some little things you do for yourself?

I said I'd come back in here and post, but, idk.... It's kind of a sensitive subject with me. I'm interested in how others handle it.

Understandable.

The idea of self-care is tough for me because I think it needs to be rooted in seeing ourselves as worthy of that time and attention, and I struggle with seeing myself as truly inherently valuable. Some goals are easier than others, because they relate to my usefulness to my family, or being a productive member of society, etc. For example, basic grooming, remembering to eat... they are easier to justify, although that isn't a guarantee they'll get accomplished.

The goals that I tend to struggle with the most are in the areas of nurturing my intellect, creativity, and emotional needs. I was thinking today, I should stop feeling guilty for being needy. If anyone else had gone through what I've been through, they'd be needy, too. I don't mean that as an excuse, but as a way to affirm my reality so that I can move past it.

Okay, *whew!* Getting too heavy?

Little things I try to make happen: reading, singing, laughing, writing. Keeping in touch with people who keep me accountable or encourage me to grow in different ways. Having male friends who cover some important ground, just by who they are. I think it's vital to be having interactions with men, even if they're not romantic. We need that male perspective. I'm saying this as a woman whose male relatives are largely absent, and who was discouraged by the circles I moved in for many years from having male friends or acquaintances. Having male friends makes a difference, a good difference.

More little things: luxuries like painting my toenails, dark chocolate, or just time alone to sit and think. Or cry. I've done a fair amount of crying this year because it helps me process. I'm learning to own it and roll with it, accepting it as part of my expressive personality. Plus, keeping it in gives me a migraine, so...

Oh, and... uh... masturbating. I make time for that, too.

 

[ViciousTease]

Subscribed.

I've probably nothing of use to offer to the conversation since I've never been able to maintain this type of relationship for any length of time, but I will jump in when I can.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Subscribed.

I've probably nothing of use to offer to the conversation since I've never been able to maintain this type of relationship for any length of time, but I will jump in when I can.

There are no pre-reqs. Glad you're here.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

One thing more, and then I'm out for the night.

None of the self-care items that i mentioned above are done with my sub/babygirl side specifically in mind with the exception of a few friends with whom i enjoy talking about D/s.

However. I do at times do self-talk that would sound silly to vanilla folk, but works for me- and usually makes me laugh. It may be something that someone said to me in the past and stuck with me - 'Put your phone down and go to sleep, kitten' - or the ever popular 'Good girl!'

My new one is 'What Would Daddy Say?'

 

[shadow_anon2u]

I have a question for you ladies. How do you know if he's the one? These feelings are all new & I am not used to being treated like he did today.

 

[MSH2]

I have a question for you ladies. How do you know if he's the one? These feelings are all new & I am not used to being treated like he did today.

If I can highjack for a moment I would say, from the other side, when it feels right, When it............... fits. Its rare that it'll fit perfectly, but when its close it will feel right

 

[shadow_anon2u]

If I can highjack for a moment I would say, from the other side, when it feels right, When it............... fits. Its rare that it'll fit perfectly, but when its close it will feel right

Thank you. To have this in physical form is going to be interesting I think.

 

[MSH2]

Thank you. To have this in physical form is going to be interesting I think.

Interesting to say the least Hopefully it leaves you sated, physically, mentally, emotionally and......... fantasies too

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have a question for you ladies. How do you know if he's the one? These feelings are all new & I am not used to being treated like he did today.

Are you talking about the relationship in general, or the D/s dynamic?

If I can highjack for a moment I would say, from the other side, when it feels right, When it............... fits. Its rare that it'll fit perfectly, but when its close it will feel right

Hi! Your input is always welcome.