Shanes_OralOrations
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Question for couples in longer term relationships that still enjoy regular sex. I assume like us you do a variety of things depending on the mood and time, but I think most of us have a typical sexual routine and I want to share ours and ask about yours! I kind of want pie charts and bar graphs here, but I'll try text first. 
What's your typical "quickie?"
10-15 minutes: first half a mix of kissing, touching and oral trade off.
Second half usually a quick missionary or cowgirl with vaginal orgasm, focus on getting it done with a quick orgasm each because we have stuff to do! Sometimes she doesn't cum, but that just means she'll be in the mood again sooner!
We rarely do quickies- probably less than 20% of our sex.
What's your normal "have some time" sex?
Usually prep with showers, make up and a sexy outfit/lingerie for her. Usually something that can mostly stay on the whole time but doesn't impede access to her breasts or groin.
Lasts 45-90 minutes typically
We commonly switch back and forth between what we do in order to edge each other multiple times, but the total time in each activity usually breaks down a bit like this:
10-20% kissing, caressing, fingering, making out in various positions. She likes having her hair gripped tightly and her head pulled firmly around to expose wherever he wants to kiss her. We also tend to kiss a lot during intercourse in face to face positions.
20% breast play: rubbing, kissing, pulling, licking, nipple biting and sucking. Starts gentle but gets pretty rough when she gets going.
50-70% oral. The longer we've been together, the more oral makes up a bigger and bigger percentage of our sex play. Oral itself is probably split by time 55% on her, 45% on him, but there's usually a lot of 69 as well, and frequent eye-contact-tit-fuck breaks are common during our blowjobs.
20-30% Vaginal intercourse: Of that, 50-60% in cowgirl variations (her favorite), 30% missionary and 10-20% doggie/other.
We can get the intercourse a bit longer when we break it up with going back to other activities to give me a break from the tight squeeze for a bit.
Of course we do other positions and play from time to time, but the above is a good breakdown of a "normal" sexual encounter for us.
Where and how much do you both usually cum?
Most often we both cum during vaginal sex and nearly simultaneously (within 30 seconds of each other)
Her: 1-3 orgasms (2 is typical)
50-60% cowgirl, 30-40% missionary, 10-20% oral/fingers/toys
Him: 1 orgasm (sometimes 1.5...)
40% cowgirl, 30% missionary, 10%- doggie, 20%- oral/facial/tits
How is your "Special time" sex different?
For Her: Much the same as our typical, but usually with proceeding back/thigh and face massage. Very heavy time spent on breast and nipple stimulation, usually nipple clamps/elastics for most of the encounter, and one or more butt plug insertions, with her biggest one inserted before she orgasms. Minimal if any BJ time (more likely the hornier I make her), and lots of pussy licking. Usually she cums 3-4 times. He cums too because she likes to finish riding his cock nice and hard. Usually lasts 1.5-2 hours.
For Him: She gets heavily dolled up (hair, makeup, outfit and shoes), and he films an extended blowjob spanning 3 to 6 different positions. Some breaks for kissing, titty and pussy licking so her jaw doesn't get sore. Mostly cock and balls licking, tongue teasing, progressing to vigorous head bobbing, some hair pulling, and a bit of genuine face fucking. 90% end in very messy facials, with the occasional in mouth or on tits finish. Finish up with some photo time to admire his paint job, sometimes a bit of cum kissing, then clean her up and add the footage to our home collection.
Most used sex toys:
1- Nipple clamps of various types
2-Butt plugs (mostly for her, he tries them at times too)
3- Vibrators/dildos
So that's us. Love to hear comments or feedback. Tell us about your sex patterns!
What's your typical "quickie?"
10-15 minutes: first half a mix of kissing, touching and oral trade off.
Second half usually a quick missionary or cowgirl with vaginal orgasm, focus on getting it done with a quick orgasm each because we have stuff to do! Sometimes she doesn't cum, but that just means she'll be in the mood again sooner!
We rarely do quickies- probably less than 20% of our sex.
What's your normal "have some time" sex?
Usually prep with showers, make up and a sexy outfit/lingerie for her. Usually something that can mostly stay on the whole time but doesn't impede access to her breasts or groin.
Lasts 45-90 minutes typically
We commonly switch back and forth between what we do in order to edge each other multiple times, but the total time in each activity usually breaks down a bit like this:
10-20% kissing, caressing, fingering, making out in various positions. She likes having her hair gripped tightly and her head pulled firmly around to expose wherever he wants to kiss her. We also tend to kiss a lot during intercourse in face to face positions.
20% breast play: rubbing, kissing, pulling, licking, nipple biting and sucking. Starts gentle but gets pretty rough when she gets going.
50-70% oral. The longer we've been together, the more oral makes up a bigger and bigger percentage of our sex play. Oral itself is probably split by time 55% on her, 45% on him, but there's usually a lot of 69 as well, and frequent eye-contact-tit-fuck breaks are common during our blowjobs.
20-30% Vaginal intercourse: Of that, 50-60% in cowgirl variations (her favorite), 30% missionary and 10-20% doggie/other.
We can get the intercourse a bit longer when we break it up with going back to other activities to give me a break from the tight squeeze for a bit.
Of course we do other positions and play from time to time, but the above is a good breakdown of a "normal" sexual encounter for us.
Where and how much do you both usually cum?
Most often we both cum during vaginal sex and nearly simultaneously (within 30 seconds of each other)
Her: 1-3 orgasms (2 is typical)
50-60% cowgirl, 30-40% missionary, 10-20% oral/fingers/toys
Him: 1 orgasm (sometimes 1.5...)
40% cowgirl, 30% missionary, 10%- doggie, 20%- oral/facial/tits
How is your "Special time" sex different?
For Her: Much the same as our typical, but usually with proceeding back/thigh and face massage. Very heavy time spent on breast and nipple stimulation, usually nipple clamps/elastics for most of the encounter, and one or more butt plug insertions, with her biggest one inserted before she orgasms. Minimal if any BJ time (more likely the hornier I make her), and lots of pussy licking. Usually she cums 3-4 times. He cums too because she likes to finish riding his cock nice and hard. Usually lasts 1.5-2 hours.
For Him: She gets heavily dolled up (hair, makeup, outfit and shoes), and he films an extended blowjob spanning 3 to 6 different positions. Some breaks for kissing, titty and pussy licking so her jaw doesn't get sore. Mostly cock and balls licking, tongue teasing, progressing to vigorous head bobbing, some hair pulling, and a bit of genuine face fucking. 90% end in very messy facials, with the occasional in mouth or on tits finish. Finish up with some photo time to admire his paint job, sometimes a bit of cum kissing, then clean her up and add the footage to our home collection.
Most used sex toys:
1- Nipple clamps of various types
2-Butt plugs (mostly for her, he tries them at times too)
3- Vibrators/dildos
So that's us. Love to hear comments or feedback. Tell us about your sex patterns!