Flirt in RL

nasty

yeah, baby, yeah
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I know we all do it, here, but do you flirt in RL? I do. THe girl I asked out came into work today, and shivered. So, I told her, "Wanna hug?" She said, "No. I don't need a hug. I responded, "Not for you. For me." :)
 
I don't think i've ever flirted in real life. I"m to shy.

I'm one of those people that clams up and disapears into the background in real life. okay i've flirted with my friends sister but that's only playing around. she is only 15.

So nope :) havne't done it. there is something about them being able to see me......
 
Me? Flirt?

In RL, no.

Too shy, backward, and all those other introverted adjectives.
You would never notice me in a crowded room.

But, online its a different story.

Love to flirt, tease, whatever;)

Cassidy
 
I am most definitely a flirt in RL, but I'm probably more flirtatious (suggestive, I guess?) here b/c I know that I will probably never meet anyone from here. Anonymity can be great. :)
 
I wish some ladies would start flirting with me.
I am sick of men. I've got one, and he is pretty representative of the lot of you, so I don't need anymore of that. (well, aside from one man. I'd surely flirt with him.)

Anyway, I am a flirt I guess, but I flirt in hidden, seductive ways in RL. On the board... nothing serious. I don't care about that. I can't seem to get aroused by a person unless I know their real name, and have a face to put it all to.
 
I'm with ya Starfishie...I don't flirt here.....'cept for Never and she don't count cause we call it "stalking". I think I may have flirted with Thumper once a Lonnnnnggg time ago and I may have directly bantered with Dill in one thread....but other than that it just does nothing for me, I am quite pleased with My Man


* Hey fishie...those are some mighty FINE lookin wings you got there baby*



;) oh...ummm yeah I've been called a flirt in real life...cause I'm a touchie feelie kinda person.
 
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What you read, is what you get.

I'm the same here as I am in RL. Hmmm??? Is that good or bad??





kgboot
 
I am the same IRL as I am online when I am single. I flirt harmlessly and with certain people who I am either fairly close to or who I banter back and forth with regularly.

I'm in a relationship now, so I most definitely don't flirt at all IRL. Online I probably flirt a bit because I'm so used to doing so here on Literotica but I'm trying not to because it bothers him and since it makes him uncomfortable I try not do do it... I don't think I flirt much though and I certainly don't flirt with anyone who would take it seriously.
 
Am I a flirt in r/l? Mmmm nope totally faithful but I love play on words and am very cheeky with close friends.

And kgboot, good or bad? :) You are such a bad boy you tease you:D
But I still luv ya and hubby respects your teasing charm :)

"ask and ye just might receive ten fold or DD cup size"
sayeth kgboot

(DD is BIG cupsize here in NZ)
 
I flirt in real life, but not at all like I do here. (Nor should I.)

Recently, I have had to watch how I flirt as I start with snappy, flirty comebacks that really don't have a place in my real life!

Hmmmm perhaps I get carried away.



:D
 
Thank You Debbie!!! *MUAH*

debbiexxx said:
Am I a flirt in r/l? Mmmm nope totally faithful but I love play on words and am very cheeky with close friends.

And kgboot, good or bad? :) You are such a bad boy you tease you:D
But I still luv ya and hubby respects your teasing charm :)

"ask and ye just might receive ten fold or DD cup size"
sayeth kgboot

(DD is BIG cupsize here in NZ)

Hmmmm???? Maybe I need to visit New Zealand. Methinks that I would love it there. Ta Ta Heaven. Need to call and book a flight.


Love the quote!!! LOL Yep, that's something that I would say;)

Awww!! You got me blushing Debbie. *creeping out of thread with very red face*

Hug and Kiss Debbie ;) :) :D


kgboot
 
i thought this would be an easy one to answer, but now that i'm here, i find it's not

i flirt when i feel comfortable, like in a group of people that i know or in a situation where i have some control...like at work, for instance

but take me out to a bar and it's like alien-land to me...i had my baby when i was very young so pretty much missed the whole bar scene so i don't know the rules...don't find it a comfort zone

so i don't flirt there...but then, since i still have my child (of course) i rarely go to bars anyway, so forget all of that

babbling now...think i'll just wiggle my butt, flash a big smile, tell all the boys how tall they are and see what happens...lol
 
I really don't much in RL. When I was married to my former husband, I worked with a wonderful guy. He was very nice to me but also really hot. My ex was an ass. He rarely had a nice thing to say to me. Anyway, one day this very hot co-worker came up and hugged me. WOAH! It was like someone had lite a stick of dynamite inside me. He smelled soooo good and it was just really nice and just what I needed, at the time. I would have never flirted before that day. I will now.
 
In RL...

... I think I flirt much more than I do here! There's still a bit of an intimidation factor here that keeps me from getting to that absolute comfort level on the boards. I'm a redhead... and fiesty in real life. Sometimes I can't help myself but to flirt! It's a great way to meet new people! ;)
 
i dont think i flirt here ... do i ? :)


and i dont really flirt in real life unless flirting with your girlfriend counts ... often we're in situations where we cant do "stuff" because we're 2 girls and usually we prefer to hold back some on that front when in public ... so we flirt :)
 
sexy-girl said:
i dont think i flirt here ... do i ? :)


and i dont really flirt in real life unless flirting with your girlfriend counts ... often we're in situations where we cant do "stuff" because we're 2 girls and usually we prefer to hold back some on that front when in public ... so we flirt :)

Sexy-Girl, I don't think you NEED to flirt here. You're so sweet that it's not necessary. I think that's so cool that you and your mate flirt. I love to flirt, whether I'm in a relationship with that person or not. It's important to my well-being, I think. *scratching my head* :rolleyes:
 
I am definately a FLIRT in RL. More so than I ever am online....though some of my online friends might say differently.;)
 
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