Fisting

[NexuS436]

mw and the wife have been trying to fist her vigina and are very close.my hand are small ish for a male andwe uses lots of lube can any1 give us some tips or advise

 

[Eilan]

Post #10 in this thread has a list of threads that might help you.

 

[Submission13]

Perhaps talk about what both of your expectations are in advance. Sometimes just turning out the light, or using candles will make it so that it is easier to focus and relax on what your doing. Take your time and talk about what your doing.

 

[RandomAssGuy]

Try to slowly tist your hand side to side, seems to help get the right angle and help the muscles relax a lil more.

 

[NexuS436]

help

so you think twisting the hand may help,ok thanks.but should i have palm up to her clit or down to her ass?also what things can she do do helpp her relax and help me,when at the widest point dose she need to push?what about breathing?and what is the best position for her to be in?

 

[infinity706]

I actually find sideways works best. (palm facing either thigh)

 

[RandomAssGuy]

I actually find sideways works best. (palm facing either thigh)

Agreed. Silicone lube is a huge plus too, its rediculously more slippery with thats tuff. I also agree with wiating till you feel her relax then going a tiny bit more, over and over, till one day your hand gets practically sucked in lol.

 

[lvncpl]

I fisted my wife for the first time last night.

For the first time she was on her stomach, I used a sideways approach with my palm pointed left and then slowly rotating my hand until the palm is facing up and curling into a fist. I took my time and used a very good amount of lube. There was a momentary period of discomfort as the widest part of the hand passed but it passed quickly.

Prior to trying we did a lot of foreplay and had sex so she was fairly relaxed and it wasn't the first thing that night.

Don't get hung up on the end goal, it may or may not be possible for the two of you but trying is always a lot of fun and very pleasurable.

She did not believe she was being fisted until I took her hand and let her feel. To say she enjoyed it is a huge understatement. We repeated it once last night and once this morning, both times on her back.

She's requested a repeat sometime in the very near future and wanted to know why I waited so long to use that trick.

Understanding the various techniques, having a trusting relationship, and being patient are very important. Also if you are successful communicate when removing the hand as well .

 

[testosterone1]

Pardon me for being so naive but what is it about fisting that women seem to enjoy?

 

[breezyblue]

Pardon me for being so naive but what is it about fisting that women seem to enjoy?

I believe the attraction for many women is the feeling of incredible fullness and pressure they get from having an entire hand inside them. It is a very tight squeeze for just about everybody and the pressure internally rubs and pushes against very force sensitive areas like the gspot which many women like. It's not for everybody but I think it is very erotic (though i haven't been able to do this all the way as of yet) and certainly some women find it very pleasurable.

 

[lvncpl]

Escellent lvncpl. Did she have an orgasm while your hand was in her?

Yes, several each time and she said it felt incredibly good. She's requested it be done again in the near future.

 

[FitfunWoman]

I believe the attraction for many women is the feeling of incredible fullness and pressure they get from having an entire hand inside them. It is a very tight squeeze for just about everybody and the pressure internally rubs and pushes against very force sensitive areas like the gspot which many women like. It's not for everybody but I think it is very erotic (though i haven't been able to do this all the way as of yet) and certainly some women find it very pleasurable.

Oh there is an undeniable physical element to this for me, too. Yet there is also the triple pleasures of the rather taboo/illicit pleasure of it, the utterly sensual nature of having your lover so completely filling you, and just a little bit of OMG!!! thrown in for good measure. I've only had women do this to me, and one my my favorite things to have her do when I receive her hand is just to have her rest her head on my tummy or perhaps kiss/nuzzle me there so we can both feel the quite intense connection between her body and mine.

 

[breezyblue]

Oh there is an undeniable physical element to this for me, too. Yet there is also the triple pleasures of the rather taboo/illicit pleasure of it, the utterly sensual nature of having your lover so completely filling you, and just a little bit of OMG!!! thrown in for good measure. I've only had women do this to me, and one my my favorite things to have her do when I receive her hand is just to have her rest her head on my tummy or perhaps kiss/nuzzle me there so we can both feel the quite intense connection between her body and mine.

Wow this sounds so sexy! I will have to suggest the head on the tummy position to my bf. I am envious of your success. I definitely think that relaxing and feeling very close to your lover during the process is key to making it an enjoyable and pleasurable experience. Taking those extra little whiles to cuddle/kiss/relax always helps a lot with any new experience such as this. Good luck with your experiences nexus.

 

[frisky-leo]

first fisting

After many previous attempts my bf and I were able to experience this last night. The best position for us was me on my knees and there was plenty of sex and play before to get me relaxed. And lots of lube. I agree that part of the 'draw' was the taboo but the feeling of being filled so completely was amazing. It is something we are definitely going to play with again.

 

[Submission13]

Its is wonderful fun for both! Its a huge a trust to allow someone to fist you. She really likes this, be just as careful on the way out as on the way in!