fisting?

Good god
Ouch
no
no
no
fuck
take it out
take it out
fuck
ouch
damn
 
I 'accidentally' fisted an ex-girlfriend once...I didn't really mean to, and she didn't expect it, but I was determined to seriously rock her world, so I matsurbated her for over an hour. After about 45 minutes, I had four fingers and the tip of my thumb in her..and my whole hand slid into her. She loved it, i was pleasently surprised, and I have never looked at the back seat of my car the same way again.
 
Johnny Mayberry said:
I 'accidentally' fisted an ex-girlfriend once...I didn't really mean to, and she didn't expect it, but I was determined to seriously rock her world, so I matsurbated her for over an hour. After about 45 minutes, I had four fingers and the tip of my thumb in her..and my whole hand slid into her. She loved it, i was pleasently surprised, and I have never looked at the back seat of my car the same way again.
I think it may hurt but I am into some pain.I would like to feel my bf's fist deep in my cunt.mmmm
 
See that little box way down in the lower right corner of the How To page, the one marked "Search this Forum"?

You can use that to search this forum.

Type in 'fisting' and hit enter.

That should provide you with at least an hour's worth of reading material.
 
Kitty

Like all other sexual activities that push the limits of what is natural (penis in vagina) and can cause pain or even damage, there are two ways to go.

Gently, taking time and consideration to accomplish the end goal.

Hard, causing the most pain and usually done to dominate.
 
peachykeen said:
See that little box way down in the lower right corner of the How To page, the one marked "Search this Forum"?

You can use that to search this forum.

Type in 'fisting' and hit enter.

That should provide you with at least an hour's worth of reading material.
thankx
 
itsoktolust said:
Kitty

Like all other sexual activities that push the limits of what is natural (penis in vagina) and can cause pain or even damage, there are two ways to go.

Gently, taking time and consideration to accomplish the end goal.

Hard, causing the most pain and usually done to dominate.
have you ever done it?are you into different things?
 
I've been the doer not the doee if that's what you mean?

I've got a fairly large hand so have never been entirely inside a woman's vagina or anus. Have had most of my hand in a vagina and 4 fingers to the second knuckle in a woman's ass.

Both times were done with consent and gentle care.
 
i wonder...is your goal to experience pleasure or pain? If you are into the pain, then you'll want your man to go in without lube, and fairly quickly.
 
itsoktolust said:

Gently, taking time and consideration to accomplish the end goal.

Hard, causing the most pain and usually done to dominate.


I have to take issue with the second statement here. "Hard" fisting (something that is hard to even imagine) is not done to "dominate". If one is only out to cause pain and injury to another person, unless the other person has given their consent to be involved in such activity, it is rape, not dominance.

I have been dominated, as in experiencing elements of BDSM, and a dominate male would only proceed with gentle care while attempting to fist a female. To do otherwise would mean the man in question is a moron.
 
Johnny Mayberry said:
i wonder...is your goal to experience pleasure or pain? If you are into the pain, then you'll want your man to go in without lube, and fairly quickly.


Unless a woman's vagina is already the size of a train tunnel, fisting "without lube and fairly quickly" would be an impossibility.
 
SexyChele said:
Unless a woman's vagina is already the size of a train tunnel, fisting "without lube and fairly quickly" would be an impossibility.

I should have said, 'minimal lube and relatively quickly", as in forcing your hannd inside before the vagina is comfortably relaxed.
 
The best thing about sex between consenting adults is that there is no "right and wrong". The ways to pleasure and attitudes about it are as varied as snowflakes in a storm. Ain't life grand?

The original question was about fisting and how to go about it. Based on the desires of the people involved there is gentle and hard. Only non-consent is wrong and also illegal.
 
SexyChele said:
Unless a woman's vagina is already the size of a train tunnel, fisting "without lube and fairly quickly" would be an impossibility.
oh of course,I want him to use ky or his tongue to moisten it up,I like the thought of my bf doing it,but I want him to fist my cunt slowly and gently.the rough stuff is not for me,:p
 
Other ways

Try stretching out your pussy before, yourself. If you can get your whole hand up there, then it's time to let him try. Guys generally have larger hands than we do, so it's best to start with a female one. Also, you could try stretching yourself out with a tapered dildo.... start with the small end, and slide it up farther and farther until you had it all in.... then try a bigger dildo.... after being fucked with bigger and bigger dildos, a hand is no problem..... Just remember, unless you have a large pussy already, it takes time, and plenty of lube, natural or otherwise. :kiss:
 
Re: Other ways

Purple Velvet said:
Try stretching out your pussy before, yourself. If you can get your whole hand up there, then it's time to let him try. Guys generally have larger hands than we do, so it's best to start with a female one. Also, you could try stretching yourself out with a tapered dildo.... start with the small end, and slide it up farther and farther until you had it all in.... then try a bigger dildo.... after being fucked with bigger and bigger dildos, a hand is no problem..... Just remember, unless you have a large pussy already, it takes time, and plenty of lube, natural or otherwise. :kiss:
first of all I like to comment on your name,it is very nice.
well,I will have to start out really small first ,I will have to be very patient.and use alot of lube:D
 
My kind of girl =). Also try using a smooth rubber glove that is not powdered. lube it up and you'll be set. It helps cut back on the friction and also helps protect you against nails.

My wife enjoys it.
 
waking up,and wishing that my bf was more into doing that with me,what a nice way to start off the New Year.:D
 
Day long adventure

Sometimes fisting is incredibly difficult. Plan on taking long amounts of time at a stretch when preparing and adjusting your body to it. I have found that it is better when you switch what you do to keep it interesting instead of an ongoing endeavor. For example, work on it a little bit, and then maybe do a little oral sex or anal play. Then go back to it and continue to switch what you do.

Have fun. :eek:
 
there's abook on amazon that deals with fisting.It explain anything you need to know about it.It's written by a girl,with large experience and has many reports from people.It's not expensive and i suggest you to read it,it can help you so much.It deals with vaginal fisting,the othere one is not ,it's about handballing.
 
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