Fisting

[SpiritRaven]

I've tried to fist my girlfriend, very gently of course, and all I can fit in her pussy is three fingers. This confuses me because, shouldn't any women capable of giving safe birth be able to fit my fist up there? Would lubricant help, or is this all I'll fit?

 

[Lust Engine]

I've tried to fist my girlfriend, very gently of course, and all I can fit in her pussy is three fingers. This confuses me because, shouldn't any women capable of giving safe birth be able to fit my fist up there? Would lubricant help, or is this all I'll fit?

Yeah, but a woman giving birth is also going through a lot more of her OWN physical changes than a woman who isn't in the midst of birthing either! And who knows, your GF just might not be able to accomodate your hand. Don't let it be a hang up in the relationship. It just might be her thing.

 

[peachykeen]

You might not have noticed, but generally when women are giving birth, especially without some really strong drugs, there's a whole lot of pain and screaming involved...

 

[His_kitty]

You might not have noticed, but generally when women are giving birth, especially without some really strong drugs, there's a whole lot of pain and screaming involved...

Lmao

That's just what I was thinking when reading the initial post.

I've never tried it and its one of a few things I have no interest in ever trying.

ouch

 

[lovetoread]

Go here: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69934

 

[NASCARaddicted]

I am no doctor, and I never tried to fist a woman, but: short before birth, I think pussy opens a little bit when the baby prepares to come out.

Also, the baby is coming from the inside, while the fist is coming from the outside ... but then, stretching is stretching, no matter from which side.

And sometimes, during birth, a doctor has to cut the small skin between the pussy and the butthole (don't know the exact english word) so the pussy can open wider ....

 

[Hairgrip]

Would lubricant help, or is this all I'll fit?

duh. lube always helps. but it doesn't guarrentee a fit.

 

[ozraven]

I've tried to fist my girlfriend, very gently of course, and all I can fit in her pussy is three fingers. This confuses me because, shouldn't any women capable of giving safe birth be able to fit my fist up there? Would lubricant help, or is this all I'll fit?

Couple of pertinent points here maybe?

1. The baby comes from the inside.......

2. A woman who has just given birth does not in anyway resemble a woman who has just had great sex......

3. Always use lots and lots of lube here, think anal and double it, and be ready to stop as soon as she yells uncle......

4. It's the stretching sensation that women enjoy in this pursuit, if you are doing that with three fingers relax, your doing it just right!

Enjoy.......

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I honestly pity the girl LOL not EVERYONE can handle that everyones body is different. shit I barely can handle an average size penis and I need LOTS and lots of KY. but then again I am 4 foot tall. just saying thought everyone's different what may work with one person may not with another. and sometimes it takes time and practice.

 

[CoolidgEffect]

episiotomy

 

[NASCARaddicted]

thanks CoolidgEffect. According to my translator (Babylon.com) this is exactly what I meant.



Also: I once read something like: Sex trains a pussy, it makes the pussy tighter. So maybe "too much" sex also plays a role when it comes to fisting (but then ... you can never have too much sex, right ?)

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Don K Dyck]

I've tried to fist my girlfriend, very gently of course, and all I can fit in her pussy is three fingers. This confuses me because, shouldn't any women capable of giving safe birth be able to fit my fist up there? Would lubricant help, or is this all I'll fit?

heheheh . . . Three fingers?? You're doin' just fine. Get on over to Mr G's thread on the General Board "Try This and Report Back" to learn how to REALLY thrill the marrow out of your gf.

 

[isshogai7]

there's a book about this;you can find it on amazon.com.You have to be very careful,she should be VERY excited and willing to do it.LOtsa lube and a glove are necessary(to avoid having nails scraping the inside of the vagina).You also need to have at least a coupla hours,the hand must enter with palm up and the thumb inside of it:if you're succeded,stay there without moving to allow the girl experience the sensation.
LOTSA attention,and not even the slightest intention of forcing things up are necessary.If you don't succed,don't try it again:The girl MUST willing to do it.No in and out like regular sex,either.Wait until she will expulse your hand.The book will be the best help.

 

[Sunnflower]

I never thought I could

I'm new to the boards and this is my first posting. I was cruising the site and found this topic.

I never had thought about fisting, hell, I was not even aware of what it was.
One night, after my friend and I had enjoyed a few hours of marvelous play and a few rounds of passionate loving, he was sensously playing with my lips and puss..again. He knows obviously I love the feel of his fingers exploring, rubbing and thrusting. I was very turned on still after numerous orgasms. He knows the G-spot well, and we both love what it does for us.

This was different though, he was slow, massaging and not thrusting at all. I was very wet, both from myself and from his cum. Although it was very relaxing, I was building towards an orgasm. I have no idea how many fingers he had in me at the time, I just know the pressure was delicous and no pain at all. He leaned to me and gently sucked my clit into his mouth and that was it, I had a huge body rush orgasm and in the course of my bucking against his fingers, managed to push his hand into me. Both of us instantly stopped, apprising the situation. I remember breathing deep and holding very still, both scared and amazed at the same time. My nipples were rock hard, my whole body awash in heat and something more.
He was whispering to me, oh my god, I'm inside you with my whole hand.....
After assuring him I was prefectly fine and oh god don't move.....

I very carefully started gently moving my hips, rolling myself against his hand. His knuckles rubbing against places never touched before I swear. He tells me I murmured and whispered things he could not hear, but that he knew I was on my way to another orgasm. He tells me he repeatedly told me how it felt to him, feeling the throbbing against his hand, the heat, the velvet feel of it and how turned on he was, beyond anything he had every experienced. I must take his word on that, as I have no idea what he said, or what I said. I do know that the orgasm was also like nothing I had had before. I remember my legs tingling and shaking afterwards as he laid against me cuddling. Carefully he removed his hand with me pushing him out. The time afterwards we shared was deeply intimate with soft cuddling, holding and comforting. I was in no pain at all, just a overwhelming sense of peace as I fell asleep in his arms.

Since then, we have done this again a few times, it's certainly not something we do a lot of....but I assure you, whenever we do....passion and pleasure for both are extremely high. It's a very intimate act, almost more so to us than anything else we've experienced. The intensity of turn on and orgasm is unbelieveable.

I do not suppose that all woman can do this. However I also believe that many more could if they only allowed themselves both the knowledge of what it is, and allow themselves the patience and relaxation necessary. Men....can not possibly rush this in any way. Tenderness will accomplish much. Learn more by reading all you can on the subject.

Be safe and be well.
sunni

 

[NASCARaddicted]

wow, Sunnflower, that sounds like a great experience.

I suggest you write a story about it. With some more details (to make it bigger) it could be a very good story here on Lit.