First Time For Both

[hyperpixxie]

One of my good friends and I, both of whom have been (at the least) bi-curious for at least two-three years, recently decided to get involved sexually. It is, however, our first encounter, not only together, but with another woman. I was simply wondering if those of you who are more experienced than we are could offer some tips/techniques/things to try. Because any help at all would be just fantastic. Thanks in advance!

((This happens to be my very first post on Lit, so please let me know if I did anything wrong here.))

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

I really dont have much experience (kissing is all I've done with another girl) but I wanted to wish you good luck and say how lucky you are

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

Wonderful!

Superb news, darling. I know you are excited, and I hope that you and your friend have many, many great experiences together.

I guess you could say I'm "experienced," lol, but I am not sure of giving advice as your tastes might differ from my own. However, general thoughts on things you might consider are:

1. Go shopping together and play a bit in the dressing room. (mmmm. that's fun 2 me)

2. Go to a strip club together and get all hot and bothered and then go home and get on down together.

 

[MsWet]

I'm not very experienced myself but...

My advice is to start out by simply learning to enjoy your intimacy by exploring each other's desires verbally to discover what each of you enjoy sexually. for example: while you're kissing tell her where you'd like for her to touch you next & ask her what she would like & so on. It worked for me
Best of luck & enjoy!

 

[stripey_type_person]

hi there
i was in the same situation about 12 months ago.it all started with a lot of erotic suggestions mainly over the net then proceeded from there. we had been friends for a long time before knowing that they were both bi and i had been curious but had never acted on it.i think a lot of it came down to communication especially since i had never been with a female let alone a couple at the same time.
let me just say though that the first time was absolutely mind blowing and 12 months later still is.
feel free to pm me if you have particular questions that you want answered and i hope you have fun

 

[hyperpixxie]

Thank you all so much! I fully intend to try these out when we get together next.