first night....

[curiousi]

always had a bdsm thing going on in my head, and had to stop reading this site on that basis......suppressed it till i read 50 shades and it reminded me of what i used to read on here....now sitting with my first ever balls and butt plug in....and inserted myself. am sure i cant be the only person whos done this alone? but would like to know im not!

 

[juliebethh2]

always had a bdsm thing going on in my head, and had to stop reading this site on that basis......suppressed it till i read 50 shades and it reminded me of what i used to read on here....now sitting with my first ever balls and butt plug in....and inserted myself. am sure i cant be the only person whos done this alone? but would like to know im not!

"balls and butt plug"? What is that?

 

[gentledemands]

"balls and butt plug"? What is that?

That would be two items I believe.

 

[juliebethh2]

That would be two items I believe.

Excellent avatar! A Balls Plug? That's where I'm tripping up but maybe you guys do something I've never heard of.

 

[Kitschshaman]

"balls and butt plug"? What is that?

Purely for the sake of information, I think she's talking about two different items. One is the butt plug, frequently in roughly a conical shape that slides into the bottom and lodges there (not permanently) with the help of generous lubricant. I'm told it can feel quite nice if properly sized and gently applied.

The balls she refers to I think are ben-wa balls, which are hollow spheres with heavy metal balls inside that are inserted (again with generous lube) into the vagina. The idea is that with normal movement walking about the inner metal ball rolls about inside the hollow sphere and generates a very subtle movement that can be quite stimulating. They generally come in pairs, connected with a string and with a loop of string on the lower ball for the purposes of removal.

Here endeth the epistle, take care,

 

[Cookie123]

May I ask, are you male or female?

I have a friend on here (we did meet in RL) that loves wearing a plug for hours, even if he is just sitting around the house.

If I had 'balls', I would probably never take them out! hehe

50 Shades seems to have brought more than a few new members! Welcome!

 

[juliebethh2]

Purely for the sake of information, I think she's talking about two different items. One is the butt plug, frequently in roughly a conical shape that slides into the bottom and lodges there (not permanently) with the help of generous lubricant. I'm told it can feel quite nice if properly sized and gently applied.

The balls she refers to I think are ben-wa balls, which are hollow spheres with heavy metal balls inside that are inserted (again with generous lube) into the vagina. The idea is that with normal movement walking about the inner metal ball rolls about inside the hollow sphere and generates a very subtle movement that can be quite stimulating. They generally come in pairs, connected with a string and with a loop of string on the lower ball for the purposes of removal.

Here endeth the epistle, take care,

LOL, thank you! I'd completely missed the gender of the original poster. Excellent summary of the items (which I am familiar with :blush

 

[Kitschshaman]

LOL, thank you! I'd completely missed the gender of the original poster. Excellent summary of the items (which I am familiar with :blush

I think the reason you missed the sex of the original poster is probably because they never stated their sex, even in their profile. I suppose I just assumed from the context that they were female. And I'm happy you're well familiar with both items, it say wonderful things about your sensual nature. And your blushing says volumes about your feelings of being naughty? I'm guessing. <s>

You're quite welcome, my pleasure.

 

[juliebethh2]

I think the reason you missed the sex of the original poster is probably because they never stated their sex, even in their profile. I suppose I just assumed from the context that they were female. And I'm happy you're well familiar with both items, it say wonderful things about your sensual nature. And your blushing says volumes about your feelings of being naughty? I'm guessing. <s>

You're quite welcome, my pleasure.

Yes, naughty is quite special. And to the original question, yes I've played with both solo at the same time.

 

[Kitschshaman]

Yes, naughty is quite special. And to the original question, yes I've played with both solo at the same time.

Oh my, hearing that, now it's my turn to smile. All right, a little wider, we'll call it a grin. I'm guessing (well, I think it's a pretty good guess) that doing that is a whole lot nicer than Haagen Dazs. Better for you too, increases your cardio-pulmonary capacity, reduces stress, an entire plethora of good healthy things. <ahem>

 

[juliebethh2]

Yes, the cardio-vascular benefit is why I do it. LOL

 

[Kitschshaman]

Yes, the cardio-vascular benefit is why I do it. LOL

I see your motives are a pure healthy lifestyle. Nothing like a good sweat to clean out the toxins from the body. Most admirable, more folks should take on your lifestyle; the world would be a much happier, much more laid back place in which to live. I salute you. <ahem>

 

[lovecraft68]

always had a bdsm thing going on in my head, and had to stop reading this site on that basis......suppressed it till i read 50 shades and it reminded me of what i used to read on here....now sitting with my first ever balls and butt plug in....and inserted myself. am sure i cant be the only person whos done this alone? but would like to know im not!

50 shades?

So have you found an abusive asshole to treat you like shit yet and make you a victim of domestic abuse?

If Shades is your new bible do yourself a favor and stick to the toys they won't beat you.

Gray is the worst representative in a "dom" you can find.

Be careful kid, really.

 

[headrichard22]

wow... why did this thread turn me on????

 

[rbone04]

May I ask, are you male or female?

I have a friend on here (we did meet in RL) that loves wearing a plug for hours, even if he is just sitting around the house.

If I had 'balls', I would probably never take them out! hehe

50 Shades seems to have brought more than a few new members! Welcome!

Guilty! Sorry I'm late to the party Cookie, but it's funny you mentioned this...

 

[shy slave]

50 shades?

So have you found an abusive asshole to treat you like shit yet and make you a victim of domestic abuse?

If Shades is your new bible do yourself a favor and stick to the toys they won't beat you.

Gray is the worst representative in a "dom" you can find.

Be careful kid, really.

Word

 

[CutieMouse]

Word

[hijack]

ZOMG! A Shy Sighting!!!



[/hijack]

 

[KWAL]

No yur far from alone on this one. I have heard of many people doing this solo for may different reasons ranging from self pleasure to training and even some doms trying it first for whatever reason. Now need to feel alone in this lifestyle cuz whatever your desire is there's more that that out there. I find it nice to belong to such a diverse lifestyle.

So tell me do you find it pleasrable? What do/don't you like about it? Did it meet your expectations? Am I asking to many questions?lol

 

[Lancecastor]

always had a bdsm thing going on in my head, and had to stop reading this site on that basis......suppressed it till i read 50 shades and it reminded me of what i used to read on here....now sitting with my first ever balls and butt plug in....and inserted myself. am sure i cant be the only person whos done this alone? but would like to know im not!

You are a very naughty, dirty person.

That's why doing it and telling us it made you cum so hard.

 

[Ellafun]

Pics or it didn't happen.

At least that's what I was told to say by the man who tells me what do do over here.